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Charles Mandelstam Obituary

MANDELSTAM--Charles Lawrence, 80, of Manhattan and North Salem, NY, died of leukemia on August 31, 2007. He was born July 6, 1927, in Brookline, MA. He was a student at the Mount Hermon School and later a member of its Board of Trustees. After serving in the U.S. Army at the end of WWII, he continued his education via the GI Bill. He was graduated magna cum laude from Harvard College in 1949, where he was a member of Phi Beta Kappa, and Yale Law School in 1952, where he was Comment Editor of the Yale Law Journal. At Yale he met his wife of 50 years, Gloria Messinger Mandelstam (Yale Law School 1954), who for 12 years was the CEO of the American Society of Composers Authors and Publishers (ASCAP). He had a lifelong belief in the rule of the law. His first job was at the International Ladies Garment Workers Union. Next he went to Kaye Scholer, then on for 36 years to the firm that became Dornbush, Mensch, Mandelstam & Schaeffer, of which he was a founder and leader. Finally, he moved to McLaughlin & Stern, where he worked until the last months of his life. He represented filmmakers Fred Wiseman and Michael Roemer; architects including Sam Brody, Lewis Davis, and Philip Johnson; psychoanalysts including Marianna Kris and Anna Freud; and authors including Betty Friedan, Gloria Emerson, and Jane Bryant Quinn. He also represented the Marilyn Monroe estate and the Rubin Museum of Art. He was an expert in complex trusts and estates and represented the Aaron Diamond Foundation and the Samuel Rubin Foundation. On behalf of American clients, he provided financial and strategic support to South African lawyers representing anti-apartheid activists. He sued the United States government on behalf of a number of prominent clients to compel production of FBI and CIA documents under the Freedom of Information Act. His interests were broad and diverse; he was always open to new experiences. An enthusiast of French wine and food, he organized in 1970 and led a group that bought a vineyard in Cote Rotie that became Domaine de Bonserine and produced awardwinning vintages. He was instrumental in establishing the North Salem Open Land Foundation, where he worked tirelessly to conserve the natural beauty of the historic rural town he adopted as his second home. An avid photographer, a lover of classical music, and a passionate collector of Mocha pottery, he became an accomplished folk artist in his seventies. A wonderfully devoted husband, father, and grandfather, he is survived by his wife; his daughter Emily Mandelstam and son-in-law Paul Engelmayer; his son Peter Mandelstam and daughter-in-law Dawn Drzal; and three grandchildren, Caroline and William Engelmayer and Andrew Mandelstam. He also leaves scores of loving and admiring friends. Services will be held on Tuesday, September 4th at 1:30 pm at the Frank E. Campbell Funeral Home at 1076 Madison Avenue at 81st Street. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests that donations in his memory be sent to the North Salem Open Land Foundation, P.O. Box 176, North Salem, New York, 10560 or to the Hematology and Medical Oncology Research Fund -Dr. Eric Feldman, New YorkPresbyterian Hospital, 525 East 68 Street, New York, New York, 10065.

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Published by New York Times from Sep. 3 to Sep. 4, 2007.

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Susan Flaschner

August 7, 2019

I miss my Uncle Bud so much.He was such a loving, compassionate, brilliant, creative, witty, uncle, my Mom'said only younger sibling.My gratitude speaks daily for ALL U did out of deepest love for me. In the heat of August AND Last Day Of That month,

Gina Gregory-Burns

September 29, 2007

Dear Mandelstam family:
Today I just happened to find a wonderful letter from Emily that she sent me long ago when my mother died (1985). Looking online to find Emily, I noted Mr. Mandelstam's obituary. I remember how your family welcomed me into your home on many occasions while Emily and I were in elementary school. Mr Mandelstam was always warm and entertaining. I have many fond memories of him. In your home I first learned how to properly taste wine! I send all of my love to the rest of your family, hoping you find joy in his accomplished and loving life.

Evelyn Jones Rich

September 4, 2007

Because Bud was a champion in the struggle for social justice, a feminist extraordinaire whose influence was all the more powerful because he was a man and a dear friend and ally, I shall miss him now and for years to come.

Aaron Barnes

September 4, 2007

Mrs. Mandelstam,

My deepest condolences to you and your family. May the lifetime of memories, happiness and lessons learned give you strength and comfort at this difficult time.

Best Regards,

Aaron J. Barnes and Family

Alan Schwartzman

September 4, 2007

We admired Bud for his total professionalism (our attorney for 35 years), for his vast knowledge of wines and as a gastronome, as our concert-going "neighbor", for his devotion to his family, and as a true friend. Alan and Ruth

Dick Unsworth

September 3, 2007

My classsmate at NMH and colleague on the board is gone - and far too early. I felt closer to him than I would have thought, for we had only occasional times together in New York.He was a remarkable, thoughtful, prudent man of utmost integrity, all qualities that endeared him to his friends.

Charlton Price

September 3, 2007

What a productive, useful, noble life! Charles (I think I called him Chuck and he called me Charlie) and I were schoolmates at Mount Hermon, 1943-44. I have strong memories of his then already awesome scholarship and erudition,his quiet wit, and our friendship.

Tom Margittai

September 3, 2007

with deepest sorrow for an unforgettable friend, rest in peace

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