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David Wildon Carr

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David Carr Obituary

1945 - 2016
David was always happy to learn more and that made him an exceptional teacher and mentor to his students, family, and friends. He was generous in sharing what he knew and he loved to make connections with others he met along the way, whether it was a shared appreciation of a book or the unexpected discovery that his new acquaintances now lived in the house he grew up in hundreds of miles away. David created stories for his grandchildren, happily played Legos, and accepted direction of what role he was to take in their play.

Within his family he took, archived, and shared family photographs and stories. In the neighborhood he was the man who provided and stocked the Little Free Library and geocache and who was frequently outside creating more gardens. He was - as he encouraged everyone else to be - always learning, whether it was about a historical era, Scandinavian crime fiction, or The Octonauts. There also was so much that he was looking forward to learning and doing and so much that we will all miss sharing with him.

David taught at Rutgers University in the College of Education and the School of Information and Library Science and then at the School of Information and Library Science at the University of Chapel Hill, North Carolina. He loved teaching and his students knew that and responded to his own enthusiasm. His mentoring relationships turned to strong and warm friendships as his students moved into their own careers and lives.

David's work with museums such as the Strong Museum, the Indianapolis Children's Museum, and the Queens Museum of Art led to his sharing of what he was learning about the interplay between these institutions and the learning possible within them in
The Promise of Cultural Institutions (2003), A Place Not a Place (2006), and Open Conversations (2011). At the time of his death he was writing more essays for a new collection as well as preparing for the 2017 keynote address, "Museums and Their Publics in Sites of Conflicted History," for an international conference being held at the POLIN Museum in Warsaw, Poland.

David was born in Morristown, NJ to Clifford and Marie Carr. His survivors include: his wife, Carol; his daughters, Eve Carr and Anna Halsey; his sons-in-law, David Dixon and Brett Halsey; his grandchildren, Maxwell Halsey, Jasper Dixon, and Ella Halsey, and a network of extended family, friends, colleagues, and others whose lives he touched. He cared deeply about all and would wish them all rich and long lives as learners, thinkers, and readers.

Memorial donations may be made in lieu of flowers to The Leukemia And Lymphoma Society, the Hospice Atlanta Center, the Queens Museum of Art, First Book, or any group that promotes help to others. Or just read a good book, or go to a museum, and think of David.

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Published by New York Times from Feb. 3 to Feb. 4, 2016.

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Bob Worn

January 23, 2025

I just finished reading a movie review about a teenage boy whose life was saved by a teacher in Lancaster, PA, titled "Brave the Dark". While reading it I thought of David Carr. He was my sophomore English teacher in 1970 at Princeton High School. I hated English; never had much success in it. Until I had David as my teacher. I still remember going up to him in the lunchroom and asking what I could do to improve. He basically said I could do anything I wanted, just put my mind to it and go after it. It seems so simple now. But no other teacher had said that to me before. 55 years later I still remember it. So after reading the movie review I had to look David up. Although I am sorry read of his passing 9 years ago, it is heartwarming to read how many lives he has touched along the way. I am not surprised. Thank you David.

Michelle Lopez

February 2, 2024

As I reflect on the profound impact David Carr had on my life, I am filled with gratitude. David was not only a mentor to me during my enriching experiences at Queens Museum and Children's Museum of the Arts, but also a beacon of support and hope during one of my most challenging times. When I faced my cancer diagnosis, David's kindness and encouraging words provided a light in the darkness, offering solace and strength when I needed it most. His ability to uplift and inspire was truly remarkable. It's poignant to realize that my thoughts often drift to David, especially today, on the anniversary of his passing. His spirit continues to resonate within me, a testament to the incredible person he was. To David's family, I hope you know the indelible mark he left on many lives, mine included. His legacy of compassion and mentorship endures, a beautiful reminder of the wonderful human being he was.

Stephanie Shapiro

April 1, 2017

Mr. Carr (that's what we called him at Princeton HIgh School) listened to students and quietly guided them toward the future. He was an important figure at an uncertain time in my life. I'll never forget my discussion with him about "The Magic Mountain" and his gentle suggestion that there were far greater books to be read. That got me to thinking. RIP Mr. Carr.

Cynthia Ortiz

September 21, 2016

I was fortunate to be in David's class at SCILS Rutgers while getting my MLS. Our last night of class there was a lunar eclipse. He gave us one final assignment:"Now go outside and look at the sky." A small group of us watched together with him for awhile. I'm sorry I am only learning of his passing now. My own mother died on February 4 so I missed news around that time. So sorry. He will be so missed. He touched so many and inspired all!

Craig Willis

February 17, 2016

Knowing David was such as wonderful gift. My heartfelt condolences to the family, my heartfelt thanks to David. I can't say enough how much our conversations and your encouragement have meant to me.

Sharon Lauchner

February 10, 2016

I was a student of his at Rutgers. His influence and teachings have stayed with me for my entire library career. He had a warm and positive impact on so many lives.

Barbara Ittner

February 9, 2016

David was not only a great teacher and a great writer, he was a great person.

John Fraser

February 8, 2016

David was a leading thinker who saw that museums, libraries, and cultural institutions were at their heart, really useful. I will miss both his wit and wisdom. I will miss him as a friend, colleague, mentor, and reader. Condolences to the whole family.

Tom Campbell

February 7, 2016

I knew David as a friend and fellow reader. Even though I own a bookstore, David was always telling me about wonderful books I hadn't heard of. He had an almost uncanny ability to explain, in just a few sentences, what lay at the heart of a book that he loved. As I got to know him I realized that this skill grew from David's basic approach to life: caring, engaging, paying attention, and reflectingwith that wonderful mind of his. And, of course with David, appreciating and enjoying.
So David, now that you are gone, who am I supposed to talk with about the latest Ian Rankin mystery?

Judith Israel

February 6, 2016

David was my favorite teacher at Rutgers Library School in 1990-1991. He will be missed very much, but he leaves a legacy of devoted students.

Monica Teixeira

February 6, 2016

Thank you, Professor.

Cathy Frei

February 6, 2016

the world has lost a kind, sharing, generous man. My condolences to Carole, Eve, and Anna.

Barry Lipinski

February 5, 2016

David was an outstanding teacher--I wrote my best for him because I did not want to disappoint him--and a kind and gentle spirit.

Thank you, David for all that you gave of yourself to others.

Andrew Smith

February 5, 2016

In May 1999, SILS folks organized a trip to the Durham Bulls Athletic Park for a ball game. That perfect evening created one of the best memories of my life - David holding my then-6 month old son on his lap so I could enjoy a beer and some peanuts. It was no time before the two of them had each other laughing. That was David all over - reaching people, giving affection, raising our spirits. Thank you, David.

Barry Trott

February 5, 2016

I was fortunate to meet David at a conference early on in my career as a librarian, and I will be forever grateful for his encouragement and excitement about how libraries, and particularly books and reading, are essential to our world. Any time spent talking to David was time well-spent, and I only regret not doing more of that.

Kim Duckett

February 5, 2016

David was an amazing example of how to be truly human, and he approached life in a way to encourage others to embrace their own humanness -- through sharing, learning, reading, listening, seeing, reflecting, and connecting. I feel so fortunate that he was my dear friend and mentor and that he and his wonderful wife Carol opened their hearts to me. David sent so much care, love, and humanness out to those whose lives he touched and those of us who knew and loved him are so fortunate to have all that goodness still within us.

Clint Chamberlain

February 4, 2016

David lit a light in many of us who were lucky enough to be his students. From him I learned ways of being in the world that have immeasurably enriched my life. His kindness, compassion, sense of humor, and wisdom will be sorely missed. He leaves a great legacy. Memories of spending time with David and Carol are among my most treasured.

Liz Miller Boose

February 4, 2016

David Carr was a compassionate educator and just an overall wonderful person. He will be missed greatly. I knew him at Rutgers and never forgot the impact he made on my life.

Lynn Miller

February 3, 2016

I worked with David for several years in the reference department of the Douglass Library at Rutgers University; we were "on" Monday nights together. A patient, intelligent, and caring colleague, David was very good at helping library users define, narrow, and find information for their research. A real gentleman and a scholar.

Joseph Hester

February 3, 2016

"The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it."

Sage, mentor, and compassionate friend. Kind soul and irrepressible sense of humor.
David and Carol welcomed many strangers including me into their lives. And this life with many others is all the better for it.

Uwe "Ed" Beltz

February 3, 2016

The statement in Prof. Carr's obituary: that "He loved teaching and his students knew that and responded to his own enthusiasm" is right on point for me. As I recall it was a topic I was not particularly interested in and which was a requirement but not an interest. He changed that for me with his energy and enthusiasm in the classroom. An always friendly, helpful and interesting professor and person! Sorry for the family's loss! Prayers said!

Donna Nixon

February 3, 2016

I can't have imagined a world without David. I am thankful that I don't have to. He has become a part of all of us who embraced the graced of his being. I will miss him so much. I am so glad he and Carol have made me a part of their extended family.

Nicole Shearman

February 3, 2016

David was a wonderful uncle to me, and a great grand uncle to my four children. They will especially never forget him, as he was the man who sent them lists of books they should read, sent books in the mail, or researched ideas for projects while they were in college. I will read many more books for you Uncle David. We all will.❤

Jessica Zahurak

February 3, 2016

Octonaut at ease, until the next adventure.

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