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DAVID MCCOURT Obituary

McCOURT--David J. May 5, 1942 - July 11, 2013. Born in New London, Connecticut, David McCourt, the second son of William J. McCourt and Elizabeth R. McCourt, passed away peacefully on July 11th at CT Hospice, with his devoted and loving wife, Mary Bryant McCourt at his side, after a long battle with metastatic melanoma. David leaves behind his wife Mary, two twin sons, Tavis and Stephen McCourt, two daughters, Elizabeth Smith and Kathy Paine, nine grandchildren and his sister, Mary McCourt Sheffield. David graduated from St. Francis Preparatory School in Biddeford, Maine in 1959, the University of Hartford in 1966, and Atlanta University in 1969 with a Masters in Business Administration. David was an avid baseball player in his youth playing throughout high school and college, and enlisted in the United States Marine Corps Reserves in 1963. In 1969 David joined the family business, ABCO Welding Supply, with his brother Bill and father William. David found a true passion in his sales role at ABCO and started a welding school during his tenure at ABCO. David moved to Old Saybrook, Connecticut in 1980, and enjoyed coaching Little League Baseball, skiing and running around north cove. In 1986, David and his brother Bill succeeded their father in running ABCO, and together with a group of talented and hard-working employees, grew the business consistently for 25 years before selling ABCO in 2011. In 1994, David married Ruth Clifford of Cork, Ireland, and moved to Newton, Massachussets. In 1997, David and Ruth were blessed with the birth of a daughter, Juliana Valentine. Ruth and Juliana died tragically as victims of the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001 on the World Trade Center in New York. Following the events of September 11th, David, together with the Cuomo family helped found B.R.A.V.E. Juliana, a program of HELP USA, to teach non-violence and conflict resolution to children. David became a recognized voice to the world, appearing on TV with Diane Sawyer, Larry King, Connie Chung and many others. Deepak Choprah dedicated his book, The Deeper Wound, Recovering the Soul from Fear and Suffering, to Ruth, Paige and Juliana, and invited David to travel together speaking about the greater purpose and meaning of life. David met Mary Bryant in January 2002, through a friend to help through the difficult time and lead him to creating something positive. David and Mary founded the Juliana Valentine McCourt Children's Education Fund, and their friendship grew over the years to a deep, significant love. The two were married at St. Francis Chapel in Niantic, CT in 2011. David became a prominent supporter of the Achilles Freedom Team of Wounded Veterans, which Mary had founded through Achilles International, and the McCourt Memorial Garden at the Lyman Allen Museum. David enjoyed playing the game of golf (a game he always loved if never mastered) as a member at the Black Hall, Old Lyme Country Club and Lake of Isles Country Club in Connecticut and Trump International in Florida, where he retired and took residence. David will be missed sorely for his sense of humor, laughter, and love of life, economic and political discussions, sincere generosity, and his deep belief in mulligans. A memorial service will be held for family and friends at the Old Lyme Country Club in Connecticut on July 27th from 2-4pm, with a short service and opportunity to share memories at 3pm. For details, please contact: NeilanFuneralHome.com. Donations can be made in his honor to the McCourt Memorial Garden, or Achilles International.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 14, 2013.

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Mike Gibbons

July 10, 2023

David became friends with Malachy and Frank McCourt. Frank won the Pulitzer Prize for his book, "Angela´s Ashes".
Frank died and Malachy is now in Hospice in NYC.
All 3 of them were very nice men and friends. Mike Gibbons

Renae Lynn

June 13, 2014

I was very sad to learn of David's passing today,11 months later. My ex-husband and I named our daughter Juliana Brophy, after his daughter, after hearing his story on GMA Sept 11, 2002. She was born Sept 16. I could not remember the last name, so on the 10th anniversary, we watched every name scroll across our TV screen and amazingly saw her and Ruth's name! I found the foundation on the internet and wrote to David to let him know that we had named our daughter after his. My Juliana LOVES the story of how she got her name. My husband and I were in NYC last month and visited the WTC memorial and found Ruth and Juliana's names and etched them for my daughter. I was looking for a picture of Juliana McCourt to make a shadow box for the etching and little memorial to her to give to my Juliana, when I came across the story of David's passing. I hope this story does not seem impersonal, but I wanted to share it with you and let you know that there is a little part of David's story that lives on through my Juliana in Omaha, Ne. God Bless you! He sounds like he was an amazing man!

Susan B

July 20, 2013

Be humble , for we are the earth
Be noble, for we are the stars

I will miss my great debating partner.
Peace and grace to Mrs. McCourt and the entire McCourt family.

Susan B.

Patricia Crawford

July 19, 2013

Dear Mary & Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. May happy memories sustain you during this most difficult time.

Jamie Lake of Isles

July 17, 2013

My condolences to the family. May the good memories sustain you through this very sad time. We will miss seeing him at Lake of Isles.

July 17, 2013

I pray you find comfort in the memories and happiness you shared. My prayers are with you.
Margie Perrone

Erika and Lee Lipton

July 16, 2013

Mary, we send our condolences and prayers for comfort.
Erika and Lee Lipton

Al & Deanna Vescovi

July 15, 2013

Our Deepest sympathy to the Mccourt family.Mary, our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. David was a very special person who will be missed by all.

Robin Roshkind

July 15, 2013

Too much sadness...my thoughts are with you Mary and the family.

Erin O'Brien

July 15, 2013

May he rest in peace God bless you Mary, stay strong.

Mike Gibbons

July 15, 2013

God Bless you David.

Marilyn Moran

July 15, 2013

My deepest sympathy to David's family.
I knew him as customer at Barry's Cleaners. A very kind man.

Debi Caron

July 15, 2013

My deepest sympathies to the McCourt family. May his soul be at peace and overjoy with the reunion of previous loved ones.

Christine Kelly

July 14, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Davids family, I knew David from Ocean Beach Car Cruise night on Mondays. He was always so nice and liked my 1957 BelAir Convertible. My husband Ron and I will surely miss him. God Bless you're in our prayers

Jill Thomas

July 14, 2013

Please accept my deepest sympathy. He was a wonderful member at Lake of Isles and I will remember him fondly.

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