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DIANE BURKE

1927 - 2021

DIANE BURKE obituary, 1927-2021, Princeton, NY

BORN

1927

DIED

2021

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DIANE BURKE Obituary

BURKE--Diane Wormser. Diane (Didi) Wormser Burke, 94, passed away peacefully on December 26th in Princeton, New Jersey. While she died on one of the shortest days of the year, she was born on the longest day, June 21, 1927. Beloved by friends and family for her kindness, compassion, artistry and love of life, Didi grew up in Larchmont with her sister Renee and parents Elsie and Felix Wormser. As a child she traveled frequently visiting all the states by age 14 as her father was a mining engineer who also served as Assistant Secretary of the Interior under President Dwight D. Eisenhower. After graduating from Wellesley College with a BA in Art History, she worked at Perls Galleries in New York City which handled exclusively the works of Alexander Calder and other modern artists. In 1951 she married advertising executive Frank Schaffer and raised her three children in Greenwich, CT where she maintained a career as a painter with her own distinct style reminiscent of Henri Rousseau for her jungle animals and later Andy Warhol for her seed packet paintings. While there, Didi opened and ran a successful art gallery called Gallery 3 with partners Carole Crowley and Betts Friday. In 1981, she married James Burke, the Chairman & CEO of Johnson & Johnson, and relocated to Princeton. They shared a love of travel, family and the arts. During that time, she worked as a docent at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Her well-prepared tours became so popular that she was asked to give private ones to visiting dignitaries and VIPs. She served as a long-time trustee of the Met and Princeton Art Museum as well as on the boards of the Mercantile Library of NYC, the Zimmerli Art Museum of Rutgers, the Wellesley College Friends of Art, the Middle East Society of Princeton and the Russian American Cultural Foundation. Over 30 years ago, she and her late husband founded the James E and Diane W Burke Foundation which has focused on children's health and children and the arts. Fluent in French and Italian, Didi also had a lifelong love of the opera, classical music (her favorite composer being Mozart), the works of Trollope and dachshunds. A woman of great beauty, elegance and grace, she is survived by her children and their spouses Quentin Schaffer and Erica Anderheggen of New Canaan, CT; Darcy and John Hadjipateras of Greenwich, CT; and Jocelyn Schaffer of Jamestown, RI as well as six grandchildren-- Charlotte, Kylie and Cameron Schaffer and Peter, Costas and Sophie Hadjipateras; step grandchildren Alex and Marina Hadjipateras; and stepchildren James Burke and Clo Burke and their children. Arrangements are under the direction of Mather-Hodge Funeral Home, Princeton, NJ.

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 30, 2021.

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Michael Bzdak

January 8, 2022

Didi was an amazing person who quietly helped so many. She was also very critical to the formalization of the J&J Corporate Art Program.

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