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Dr. Paul Packer Obituary

1927 - 2016
Dr. Paul R. Packer (1927-2016) Renown OB/GYN Pioneer dies at 89

Dr. Paul R. Packer, of New Rochelle, NY, died on November 10, from complications following a surgical procedure. The well-loved doctor, former President of the Westchester Obstetrical and Gynecological Society and Associate Clinical Professor at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, was in the forefront of medical innovation and education. Four times in past years he was chosen by the chief residents at Albert Einstein as "Teacher of the Year" and recipient of the "National Faculty Award for Excellence in Resident Education."

In 1964, at then New Rochelle Hospital, he was the first obstetrician to perform an amniocentesis for a pregnant woman with an RH sensitization, resulting in the delivery of a healthy baby. Today the procedure is routine. In 1973 he performed the first laparoscopic procedure for an ectopic pregnancy there; and in 1974, in conjunction with the New Rochelle Hospital Department of Surgery, he performed the first laparoscopic procedure on a male, aiding in the diagnosis of colon cancer without a major operation.

Paul was born on October 27, 1927 in Lawrence, Mass. One of his most prized accomplishments was achieving designation of "Eagle Scout." He entered Purdue University in 1945 as an engineering student, took one look at the size of the football players, and became a member of the varsity swim team. His impressive time in the 100 meter freestyle almost qualified him for the 1948 Olympics. After his first year at Purdue, he joined the Navy and was assigned to the Hospital Corps where his interest in medicine evolved. Upon discharge from the Navy, he returned to Purdue as a premed student and reported for the school magazine, was president of his fraternity, TEP, graduated as a Distinguished Student, & elected to Alpha Epsilon Delta, the National Premedical Honor Society.

In 1951, Paul entered New York University School of Medicine and was President of the Freshman class. Upon graduation, he was selected for internship by the founding group of house officers and then the first man chosen for residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology at the Bronx Municipal Hospital (now Jacobi), the major teaching hospital for the then newly established Albert Einstein College of Medicine. After completing his residency Paul was asked by Dr. Lawrence Felmus, his professor at Einstein, to join him in private practice in New Rochelle.

Dr. Packer was a member of the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology, a fellow of the American College Of Obstetrics and Gynecology, and of the College of Surgeons, a member of the Society of Pelvic Reconstructive Surgeons, the Society of Laparoscopic Surgeons, and the American Urogynecological Society.

Paul was an avid skier, windsurfer, kayaker & lover of opera. He was a member and minyanaire of Congregation Anshe Sholom in New Rochelle, NY. Paul is survived by his loving wife of 40 years Wendy, adoring daughters Samantha (Stephen Finkelstein) and Rebecca (Andrew Fabian), grandchildren Calista and Eli Finkelstein, and canine companions Charlie and Cody.

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Published by New York Times from Nov. 14 to Nov. 15, 2016.

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Jamie Barr

February 16, 2023

My 90 year old mom, Maxine is talking about Dr Packer. She feels he was the most amazing, handsome and nicest man imaginable. May his memory always be a blessing.

Lori Themis

August 7, 2018

Mom just passed away and look what i found and who delivered me ! Thanks Doc..rest in peace

Debbie Preston-Galluzzo

February 22, 2017

To The Packer Family, My deepest condolences for your loss. I was a patient of Dr. Packer's for many years. He was such a bright light and a warm and kind spirit. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

December 22, 2016

So sorry to learn of Paul's passing. Knew him so many,many years ago. May wonderful memories be with you at a time when words are so superfluous.
Yvonne Hepburn Virtue

Ralph Candela

December 7, 2016

Wendy, I recently found out about Paul's passing. I will always remember him as an excellent physician who was respected by his colleagues, adored by his patients and a wonderful human being. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Marci Beliak

November 28, 2016

So sorry to hear of Pinny's passing. He was my dad's first cousin (Jerry Packer). I had the joy of spending time with Pinny at Andrea Weiner's Bat Mitzvah and started to correspond with him. He took time to make a Packer family tree for me and also sent me an embroidered pillow that read "Cousin to cousin we'll always be, special friends from the same family tree." He kept threatening to come visit in Arizona...so sorry that he never did.
What a special man he was!!

November 16, 2016

He was the best of the best.

Susan Sheparc

November 15, 2016

Dr. Packer delivered all three of my children. He was a wonderful and caring doctor.

November 15, 2016

So sorry for your loss, may prayers and memories comfort and console mourning family and friends.

November 14, 2016

May you find the courage to face tomorrow in the love that surrounds you today.

Gloria Konigsberg

November 14, 2016

Dear Samantha,
I am so saddened to learn of your father's passing. I know that his accomplishments and love for you and his family shall be part of your most cherished memories. I hope that you, Steven, and the children are well. Miss you.

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