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EDWARD MUECKE Obituary

MUECKE--Edward C., M.D., age 92, died peacefully on August 29, 2023, at his home in Quogue, New York. A Phi Beta Kappa graduate of Reed College, and graduate of Cornell University Medical College where he was elected to the Alpha Omega Alpha honor society, Dr. Muecke began his career as a clinical physician and researcher in the field of urology completing an internship and residency at New York Hospital and earning a fellowship from the Carnegie Institute. After serving a two-year tour of duty in the United States Army Medical Corps where he held the rank of Captain, Dr. Muecke returned to academia where he pioneered new surgical techniques in embryological urology. His published research in The Journal of Urology has been cited over 140 times. Dr. Muecke held the office of Chief Surgeon and Head of Urology at New York Hospital before leaving to launch his private practice, New York Urological Associates. Upon his retirement at age 85, he was granted the title of Professor of Clinical Urology Emeritus by the Joan & Sanford I. Weill Medical College of Cornell University. Dr. Muecke was born in Coburg, Germany to parents Maria M. (Dettmar) Muecke and H. Hugo Muecke, of Portland, OR. Dr. Muecke was the grandson of Gottlieb August Eduard Muecke, a former diplomat for the Habsburg crown who became a naturalized US citizen, pioneered hops farming in the Willamette Valley of Oregon, and was one of the founding members of San Francisco's Bohemian Club. An avid mountaineer and alpine skier, Dr. Muecke honed his outdoors skills in the Pacific Northwest Cascades and, later, in the Austrian and Swiss Alps. Dr. Muecke is survived by his beloved wife, Virginia Marie Robertson Muecke, of Westchester, NY, whom he married in 1975. Beloved father of Joan Christiana Muecke (deceased), Anne Muecke Somlyo, and William Edward Muecke, his children with Dr. Joyce C. Shaver-Hitchings, M.D. (divorced, deceased). Cherished grandfather of Frank, Juno, and Samantha Gerolmo, Edania Liptzin, Liam, Cecilia, and Matheo Muecke, and Katherine and Andrew Somlyo. Loving father-in-law to Diane Feeney, Chris Gerolmo and David Somlyo (divorced). A brilliant mentor and dauntless optimist, Dr. Muecke was a bedrock of support to his family. Adored by those who knew him for his immense knowledge of history and science, his bottomless cheer and goodwill, his enchanted imagination, his magical storytelling, and his infectious humor. His joy for life and for people was boundless. We will miss his warm, unconditional love, his constant encouragement, his eager enthusiasm, his entertaining antics and tales of youthful naughtiness, his delight in his grandchildren, his Homunculus stories, his many character voices and silly songs, his love for animals - especially for cocker spaniels, Magee and Snoopy, and for Pumpkin the Cat, his legendary feats (mostly true), his detailed knowledge of obscure historical fact (again, mostly true), his wide-ranging enjoyment of music from Mozart to Neil Diamond to Loretta Lynn, the nickname suffix of "- bear" for his children, his fatherly admonishment to stand up for oneself and not hide behind his skirts, his family trips in the blue Chevy Nova to Williamsburg and to find covered bridges, his original and mostly successful recipes, and his architectural genius and delight in DIY projects that led to many magical gingerbread house extravaganzas and to the creation of a large-scale model train village in his basement. Most of all we will miss his jolly laughter, the always-bright twinkle in his eye, his indelible Old-World accent, especially pronounced when asking for grapes or anchovies, and his ability to make everyone around him feel valued and special and safe and loved. We love and miss you.

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Published by New York Times on Sep. 17, 2023.

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Jeff Nelson DC

July 21, 2025

Sad to hear the Dr Meucke's passing. The 2nd time we met, I was under general aneasthesia so do not recall much of that interaction save for a small scar. Here's to a good friend of the family, family Dr and client of our. A shining example and now a shining star.

Juan R Cabrera Jr

March 7, 2025

I´m deeply saddened to hear of Dr. Muecke´s passing. He became my doctor in 1970 when I was just six months old and continued to care for me for the next 33 years. His kindness, dedication, and expertise made a lasting impact on my life, and I will always be grateful for the care he provided. My heartfelt condolences to his family and loved ones.

Bob Petit

May 10, 2024

Dr. Edward Muecke was my doctor for approximately twelve years, until he retired. I remember worrying, "geez what am I going to do now" when I was told. I really felt at a loss. I´d come to rely on him, his manner, his thoroughness and so very much more that one uses to gauge a medical professional. I remember receiving a typed, two page letter from Dr. Muecke after my first appointment, wherein he recapped and made follow-up suggestions. Wow! then.
WOW!! now.
A great doctor and a great human being.

andrew Greenway

February 22, 2024

Dr. Was my surgeon in 1988. He saved my life (not exaggerating) was kind, cheerful, knowledgeable, caring, open hearted, everything one hopes for in a doctor but so seldom find. He remained my doctor for over 20 years guiding me through 2 cancer diagnosis and al the associated worry. What a blessed difference he made in my life, made it possible for me to experience the joy of a full life. What a blessing he was.

Robert Picerni

September 25, 2023

Dr. Muecke took care of me from 1977 until his retirement.
He always greeted me with a smile and made me feel good even in my most dire condition.
His expertise and his comforting ways made him not only a great dr. But also great man..

Paul Turzio

September 21, 2023

One of my most trusted doctors of all time.
HE was THE MAN!

colter rule

September 20, 2023

He was a close friend of and doctor to my father, Dr. Colter Rule, who chuckled when I told him Dr. Muecke was my doctor as well, many years later. I knew from my fathers ironic laugh that they had shared many fun, intimate moments. He was thoughtful, kind and thorough as my Doctor, so very briefly in the early 2000's. Then we met Will and Diane and I shared our fun coincidence. Katy and I send our sincerest thoughts and condolences to all Edward's clan. To an amazing life, well lived. Amen.

Gordon W

September 18, 2023

Love and admiration Will and family. Truly a legacy to be proud of.

Barry Brett

September 18, 2023

To Ginny, we were saddened to learn that ED had passed. He was nice man and a great doctor. Leslie and I send our deep sympathies.Barry Brett

Daniel Groezinger, Germany

September 18, 2023

Unfortunately, I did not have the pleasure of meeting Dr. Muecke. But I am sure that it has been a pleasure for him to know that he has left his footprints. Two years ago, I got to know his son Will. A great character, always humble and nice even in though business situations. I'm sure his father will have had a great influence on his son's great character.

Will, I wish you and your family much strength and am very happy to owe your father (indirectly) an excellent business partner and good friend.

Lila Suna

September 17, 2023

Dr. Muecke was a most special physician, highly respected by my mother who was tenderly treated by Dr Muecke. She saved a Letter he wrote to her which I´ve retained - an example of a physician who deeply cared for his patients. He and my mother enjoyed conversation. I too saw him on my mother´s recommendation and found the same tender care. Years ago I ran into him during a walk. He was so gracious when I said hello; a European authentic charm and a role model for the kind of physician we all want.

Richard Curtis

September 17, 2023

Dr Muecke was the most civilized man I ever knew, and the kindest and gentlest of souls. A post-exam sit-down with him in his office was less a medical consultation than a shmooze with a favorite uncle who seemed prepared to give you unlimited time and discuss any topic. He treated my body as if it were a treasure chest to be tampered with only in the direst circumstances. He was a dear man and his loss is a heartache for all who knew and loved him.

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