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MERCY--Eugene, Jr. Eugene Mercy Jr. "Gene" passed away peacefully in his home on July 16, 2024, at the age of 87. Loved dearly by his family, he is survived by his wife, Carolyn Mercy, his children Eugene III (Tod) and Andrew Mercy, daughter-in-law Molly Mercy, his three grandchildren, Baxter, Jasper, and Emily Mercy, step-daughters Emma Goergen and Amy Pilkington, and step-grandchild Otto Goergen. He was preceded in death by his wife, Sue Mercy, who passed away in 2010. Born November 18, 1936, in South Orange, NJ, he graduated from the Loomis Chaffee School in 1955 and Lehigh University in 1959. Lehigh awarded him the "L in Life Award" in 1988 in recognition of outstanding achievements in business and professional life and for his continued devotion to the University. After college, he served as a 1st. lieutenant in the U.S. Army. In 1964 he joined Goldman Sachs & Co. in the Securities Sales Department and was elected a General Partner in 1971. During his more than 25-year career with Goldman Sachs, he was a senior partner of the Commercial Real Estate Department and became the first Partnerin-Charge of the Mortgage Securities Department. After retirement, in 1996 he was appointed to the Goldman Sachs Limited Partner Advisory Committee to represent the firm during the company's initial public offering. After leaving Goldman Sachs, he became a Principal in Granite Capital International LLC as well as the Managing Member of EMJ Development LLC. Gene served on numerous boards, including as Vice Chairman of Lehigh University, Loomis Chaffee School, and Beth Israel Medical Center, as a Trustee of Continuum Health Partners, of Central Park Conservancy, of Rising Treetops at Oakhurst, and of Seeds of Peace. Beyond his professional and philanthropic achievements, Gene will be remembered as a true gentleman who put people at ease and loved to laugh with family and friends. Whether skiing, playing golf or tennis, dozing at the symphony, or enjoying a good meal with a drink, Gene approached life with enthusiasm and style, impeccably dressed for every occasion. Eugene Mercy's life was a testament to excellence, dedication, and the joy of living fully. He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Central Park Conservancy or Mount Sinai Hospital. A memorial service to celebrate Gene's life will be held on September 12th at 11am at Central Synagogue in New York City, with a reception to follow.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 21, 2024.

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Yasmine Pedersen

December 23, 2024

Eugene was a mentor and advisor to me in business. Will miss him greatly. Condolences to his family .

Jaymie Meyer

September 5, 2024

In loving memory. Gene made such a positive impact on the world; he will be missed and remembered always. To QT, Tod, Andy, Molly and all the family, Michael and I send our love and deepest sympathy,
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Robin F. Hemphill

August 19, 2024

Joe and I are so saddened to hear of Gene's passing. As Gene's realtor over the years in Rumson, he was always a great pleasure to work with. We send a tree in his honor because his home had the most magnificent gardens that he, his family and local residents enjoyed, here at the shore. Sending our heartfelt condolences to Tod and his family. Robin and Joe

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Andrew C. Hopkinson

August 7, 2024

Clearly one of a kind. Now more than ever the world needs more men like Gene Mercy. May God Bless his loved ones.

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Patrick Healy IV

July 24, 2024

I am personally devastated by Gene's passing having known him since our sophomore year at the Loomis Chaffee school in 1952, and I wish to offer my heartfelt condolences to all members of his family.

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Carolmehler

July 22, 2024

My condolences to Caroline and his family from an old NJ friend

Ioanna Agams

July 21, 2024

RIP
My heart goes up to QT, Emma, Otto and the entire family,
Ioanna

Grazka Taylor

July 21, 2024

RIP
My heart goes out to Emma,
Her mom & Otto.
Grazka

Jim awad

July 21, 2024

RIP

Stefanie

July 21, 2024

A dear man, a long time friend, I miss him already. Stefanie

Paul N Leitner

July 20, 2024

Ave atque Vale !

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