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GARY COWLING Obituary

COWLING--Gary Lawrence, died August 17, 2020. Gary was adored by all who shared his love of theatre, dedication to AIDS research and advocacy, and joyful celebration of humanity. Born November 4, 1961 in Newport News, VA, he was the treasured son of Marian Cowling Gibbs and Dr. Lawrence Cowling. He received degrees from The College of William & Mary and West Virginia University. Gary studied with Michael Howard, taught at Brooklyn College and appeared in The Namesake, The Accidental Husband, and the web series "Hustling." His proudest achievement was leading the W&M AIDS walk team. Memorial gifts to impact.wm.edu/theatre and gmhc.org/donate. Vote!

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Published by New York Times on Aug. 23, 2020.

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Simone Taylor

August 23, 2020

No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. However, take comfort in knowing God is with you and your family lean on him in your time of need & remember,

August 21, 2020

So sorry to hear about your loss. You know that God and Jesus are in the best position to comfort us when we lose a loved one in death.

Chip Spahr

August 20, 2020

Well written obituary highlighting many of Gary’s accomplishments. As a only child of Gary did a phenomenal job guiding both parents through adult care and taking care of individual assets. He made many trips from New York to Virginia to take of each parents personal belongings, preparing 2 homes to be sold etc. He did a amazing job of that difficult task and couldn’t be more proud of beloved cousin Gary !

Barbie Trybul-Golder

August 19, 2020

Like so many others, I am absolutely crushed right now. I just learned the devastating news that the inimitable, the One-and-Only Gary Lawrence Cowling, "Mr. GLC" himself, has passed. What a true treasure to this world! He accomplished so much and brightened so many lives, it is impossible to measure his reach.

Gary is literally the reason I met my husband, Paul. Our children know that it was because I went so often to Gary's dorm room for study breaks (i.e. laughs) in Dupont at William and Mary, I couldn't help but meet my future husband on top of the elevator at one of his famous mixers. Gary was such a mastermind, event-maker of the best kind.

He was Chico to my Chica. We shared many adventures and shenanigans from grade school to middle school, to high school, to college. He was hilarious and so, so talented.

Gary, sorry I missed your call. My heart is hurting something awful, but I look forward to seeing you again. May God reward you richly, dear friend, for all the light and joy and wonderment you brought to this world. Love you "always and for-evah", Barbie

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