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HANK GOLDSMITH Obituary

1962 - 2013
Late Wednesday evening, June 5, 2013, at the tender age of 50, Hank Goldsmith passed away peacefully at home surrounded with love, family and friends.

Hank was a self-described Jewish boy from Brooklyn. He lived in Manhattan, but he remained rooted in the old neighborhood and experiences of his youth: the rambling farm house at 390 Marlborough Road, PS 139, Edward R. Murrow High School and Camp Lakota in the Catskills.

Hank graduated cum laude from Georgetown University Law Center in 1987 and made partner at Proskauer Rose LLP in 1997. His quick wit and humor permeated his professional and personal life, once serving a mock subpoena on a friend to explain his delay in producing video footage of a band gig. Hank had extraordinary work ethic and loved the law; during his battle with pancreatic cancer, he kept it up as it did the same for him.

Hank was equally passionate about his family, friends and music. Hank embraced process and tradition. Every morning, he meticulously selected his suit, shirt and tie and donned his sole-worn Beatle boots to greet a "law day" bursting at the seams. Hank was a gentleman who walked on the street-side of the side walk, so his wife could be protected on the inside, and prided himself on being the head of a very large household. He was a doting daddy to his "little men-in-training," told intricately plotted bedtime stories, whipped up huge breakfasts for five ravenous boys and built iron-clad memories during family trips. Hank was also an earnest listener, whether with a client, colleague or an offended boy needing an injustice adjudicated because the natural boy jury couldn't do so itself.

A self-taught musician and vocalist, Hank played the recorder, guitar, bass, ukulele, piano, drums and the shruti box. He rip-rocked and roared over three decades in many cover bands, including the Newspaper Taxis (Beatles), the Carjackers (The Cars) and the Petty Thieves (Tom Petty). The Beatles, however, were indubitably his favorite band.

Hank passed long before his time. Johnny Rotten of the Sex Pistols, whose irreverent music spoke to Hank in his youth, said it best, "Have you ever felt cheated?" Yes, we do, but we remember Hank for his insurmountable courage, tenacity, music, indomitable spirit and his heart tender for those he loved.

Hank was the only son of Norman and Dorothy Goldsmith and is survived by his wife, Deborah Lee, sons Jake, Ryan and Eric, stepsons Avery and Ethan, mother Dorothy, sister Manette and her husband Scott, nephews Michael and Marc, niece Mandi, her husband Brad and their little baby Gavin. His legacy also continues through the music he loved and many life-long friends.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Lustgarten Foundation, committed to finding a cure for pancreatic cancer.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by New York Times from Jun. 13 to Jun. 15, 2013.

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Nancy Lleras

June 2, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. He was what Edward R. Murrow High School aspired in us graduates to be.....

Nancy Lleras

February 23, 2021

Wow, what can I say....so sorry for the loss of a bright star! He was a friend. God bless you Hank, Rest In Peace....words are flowing out like endless rain into a paper cup, they slither while they pass, they slip away, across the universe......for you, dear Hank......

Tom Howley

October 18, 2013

This may be a testament to how unexpectedly enduring our encounters with other folks can be over the winding course of our lives. We send out fingerling roots, and they surprise us by remaining intact in our hearts and memories many, many years down the road.

My wife, Susan, just saw Hank's obit in the Georgetown Law magazine. She was in the same class as Hank ('87) and we all lived in the same dorm-- at Trinity College!-- during their first year at law school. I was in grad school at Catholic that year, myself, and Hank lived two doors down from me. I can confirm that even then, he was the remarkable, energetic, talented, driven, brilliant, sometimes-rather-ribald, supremely self-confident, mind-speaking, flat-out hilarious man that you all came to love and to know so much better than we ever had an opportunity to. But. . . my wife and I have both mentioned him fondly over the intervening years, and wondered if he had indeed done well for himself, knowing full well that of COURSE he had. And as sad as it makes us to see that someone we remember only from our youth (someone who generally seemed about 75% more alive than any of the rest of us could ever hope to be) has been far too soon taken away, there's still a bit of warm comfort in the fact that he so obviously continued on his sure path, and touched and benefited so very, very many lives in such a profound way.

So sorry that he's gone, believe me. But still so glad that he was here.

Mark Podgainy

September 10, 2013

I met Hank when we worked together on a bankruptcy case a couple of years ago. I caught a glimpse of a very talented lawyer and wonderful person. Even based on my limited time with him, every word I have read here rings true.

Andrea Marino

August 30, 2013

My heart is truly broken. I kept reading his beautiful wife's facebook page over and over in total disbelief. I also saw them last year so very much in love. May God bless all of you. I loved Hank like a brother and we remained friends for the rest of his life. I was blessed to know him and his beautiful family.

M. Joseph

June 14, 2013

My condolences to the family and friends of Mr. Goldsmith. May you draw close to the hearer of prayer during this difficult time. Psalm 65:2

Heidi Aronson

June 13, 2013

Hank was such a mensch. We were friends in high school, and it looks as if he had just the life he seemed destined for, except that it was criminally too short. Much love and condolences to all his loved ones.

Ed and Marisa Li

June 13, 2013

We think of you in silence, we often speak your name, we love and profoundly miss you Hank. RIP

Robert Bacall

June 11, 2013

My dear friend and brother Hank, although you are no longer physically with us, your candle will burn forever inside of all of us that were blessed to have you in our lives. Your memory and flame will never go out! Thanks for 35 yrs! and if I may quote you, Sctakitease.. -Love Bacall

Payal S.

June 11, 2013

You captured the room and closed big, Hank. It is amazing to see what a mark you left on everyone's lives. Will miss your visits to Florida, the funny yet teaching moments, and most of all, your passion for your music and the people in your life. Au revoir, my friend.

At the Jammy Awards with the Carjacker's

Robert Bacall

June 11, 2013

Hank on his Wedding Day

Robert Bacall

June 11, 2013

Hank with his Beautiful Mom Dorothy

Robert Bacall

June 11, 2013

Hank singing with The Petty Thieves

Robert Bacall

June 11, 2013

Robert Bacall

June 11, 2013

1 of Hank's many beautiful instruments

Robert Bacall

June 11, 2013

Hank & Debbie

Robert Bacall

June 11, 2013

Hank Goldsmith and Debbie Lee Goldsmith

Robert Bacall

June 11, 2013

Theresa DAlessandro

June 10, 2013

One of the nicest guys I ever had the pleasure of knowing at Proskauer. I'm gonna miss you Hank. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family at this difficult time. Rest in Peace my friend.

June 10, 2013

I will miss our late night facebook chats I will miss you telling me about that riff I always miss played R I P hank

You are loved and will be missed by family and friends

Renee Petro

June 10, 2013

You are a loving star that shines bright for all at all times. Miss you and my heart goes out for your family. Renee

Janice Maiman

June 9, 2013

For My Cousin Hank

I am on the banks,
An observer.
Like a dragonfly
flitting through the reeds,
it seems I have been here forever
and for the single flap
of furious beating wings.
Out there, in the currents,
oars sink deep
and the boats slice forward
elegant, a splash against the bow.
Laughter floats toward me,
wispy seeds of a dried dandelion flower.
There is music here too,
voices like hummingbirds hovering
over a pot filled with honey.
The music curls along my skin,
raises the hair on my arms,
catches me in the throat,
an unnameable, unacknowledged lump.
A breath I forget to take.
I catch glimpses of faces in the
dizzying array of those sailing by me:
smiles, deep furrowed brows, hands clenched
lovingly, dipping fingers into
the river as it rushes to the distance.
I glance down and see my reflection
and it startles me.
My features, rippling the surface,
match some of those who
have sailed by,
without my raising my voice,
without my wading into the water.
I might have waved.
So fast, so silent, my heels
sinking so deep into the muddy banks.
I might have waved.
Dear cousin, I might have waved.
I wade in now, too late, my gaze
lingering on the wake.
I glance back at the banks.
There is no more time to waste
watching.
I enter the water and let the waves
take me
into wonder
and the whirl of life.

Former Colleague Proskauer Rose

June 9, 2013

Hank loved life, and life loved him right back. I don't know many people who can have a beautiful family, a fulfilling profession and remain devoted to their artistic leanings.....and make it all look easy. His family should know that the way he loved life really does give the rest of us a blueprint for something more than the typical. How lucky each of you are to be blessed with his everlasting love and guidance. I am sure that love is a song that never ends.

Linda Cuggino

June 9, 2013

"The sun goes down, the stars come out. The
universe will never be the same....
I love you Hank. Rest in peace

June 8, 2013

This stinks.

Robert Brandow

June 8, 2013

Hank was my musical brother, a person who I could find share my tuneful passions with, and who made me sound better than I actually do. Most importantly for you to know, Hank was an achiever. What he wanted in life, he went out and got it. I subscribe that was because he was from Brooklyn, which always makes all the difference. Peace my brother. I will miss you every day.

Andy Stehr

June 8, 2013

Keep on shining

Andy Stehr

June 8, 2013

Keep on shining my friend

Andy Stehr

June 8, 2013

Keep on shining my friend

Barbara August-Spitzer

June 8, 2013

I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Riva Kelton

June 8, 2013

I worked with Hank when he was a senior associate in the early 90s. Although I had not seen him in many years, I fondly recall his kindness and sense of humor. My condolences to his family.

Barry Rich

June 8, 2013

I met Hank when we put together the second version of the Petty Thieves at the Jam and I also sat in with the NewsPaper Taxis on occasion. Hank was passionate about playing music. You could tell he loved it - it seemed to bring him to a special place when we played. He was always joking - very witty - it made the music experience even more enjoyable - it was anti-work - just fun and laughs and good music - a great way to unwind after a work day in NYC. For this, I will always remember Hank. I will miss that feeling. Rest in Peace my friend..

Former Colleague at Proskauer

June 8, 2013

Truly the kindest, decent and wittiest partner to work with and alongside. A total gentleman, role model and a beacon of goodness in so many ways. He is also a magnificent example of how to do well and be a good human being. Always beloved and never forgotten. His music and songs live on in each of our hearts. Condolences to family and friends.

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