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Heather McElroy Obituary

McELROY--Heather Ann, of Harris, NY formerly of Rockville Centre, NY. On May 19, 2009 at the age of 38. Loving daughter of Nancy and Francis X. (Tony) McElroy. Adoring sister to Shannon. Cherished granddaughter of the late Dorothy K. and Matthew Doyle and the late Margaret A. and Frank X. McElroy. Funeral Mass Saturday, 10am, St. Agnes Cathedral, Rockville Centre. Interment Cemetery of the Holy Road, Westbury, NY. In lieu of flowers, the family would greatly appreciate donations be made to the Center for Discovery, Harris, NY 12742. mackenmortuary.com

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Published by New York Times on May 21, 2009.

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Kelly Soller

May 28, 2009

The McElroy Family...I worked with Heather for many years at The Center. Not only do I have so many memories of the years I worked with her at the farm, Harvest House and in my Day Hab classroom...but my most cherished memories will be of Heather attending my bridal shower and then my wedding. The smile lasted from the time she arrived in the church til she left the reception MANY hours later! She had the best time...as did I tremendously enjoy her being there. I have 2 children now both whom met Heather about a year or so ago at one of my visits to The Center. I am going to miss her so very much but will always have that face...smile and laugh in my memories. My sincere condolences to your family.

Fran Salit

May 23, 2009

Dear Nancy, Tony and Shannon,
My sincere condolences on your loss. Though I did not know Heather well,one of my most vivid memories was a day at Nunley's years ago. Heather and Tony were on the carousel and Heather was laughing, giggling and just enjoying herself tremendously.When I think of Heather, I will remember that day.

Edward Haran

May 22, 2009

We're very sorry for your loss and we will make a donation to the Center.

Peg and Stan Buczek

May 21, 2009

Dear Tony, although we have never met, our son, Jeffrey B., has always spoken so highly of you and has treasured your friendship with him. Along those thoughts, he has spoken of your total dedication to both your daughters. To loose a child at any age is a cross and an unimaginable tragedy. We are sending our loving thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this sad time. God bless you for ALL you have done to make Heather's life so full of love!!!

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