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IAN YANKWITT Obituary

YANKWITT--Ian Jeffrey, age 52, of White Plains, NY, died Thursday, November 5, 2020. Ian is remembered for his larger-than-life persona. His intellect, kindness, generosity, principles, moral leadership, devotion to social justice, friendship, gift for conversation, advice, storytelling, card-playing, and powerfully resonant voice are among the many qualities that made Ian uniquely memorable to those fortunate enough to have known him. No one was trusted more by more people. Born in Brooklyn March 12, 1968, Ian began speaking at seven months of age. By five, he was familiar with Nixon's entire cabinet, including "that [expletive], Agnew." Ian was a voracious reader, plowing through mysteries, finance works, and histories, as well as reading the books assigned in daughter Ruthie's college classes. His appetite for food was similarly broad, and he was known for his menu skills, frequently ordering dishes "for the table." Ian attended the Horace Mann School (1985), where he captained the football, wrestling, and track teams his senior year, and was reported in the April Fool's Day issue of the school paper to have won the school from the headmaster in a game of Spades. He went on to graduate from Yale (1989) and Cornell Law School (1993) and served as a law clerk on the Second Circuit Court of Appeals. He practiced law for ten years, first at Simpson Thacher & Bartlett LLP, where he was known for his pro bono work, and where he met his wife of 23 years, Rochelle. Ian left the private sector to join the Federal Defenders of New York, where he worked for the remainder of his legal career. The drive for social justice expressed as a public defender remained a passion throughout his life, and he served on the Advisory Board of Gideon's Promise, a nonprofit public defender organization. At age 35, Ian founded Tortoise Investment Management, LLC, starting in the family basement and building the business to over $1 billion in assets under management. As much as the success of the firm, Ian valued the relationships he shared with clients and colleagues at Tortoise. Ian actively promoted camaraderie at Tortoise, working to shape the careers of his employees as a mentor and friend, while serving the best interests of clients. Ian's capacity for friendship was unbounded, and he maintained close ties with people from every phase of his life. Shortly after marrying Rochelle, the couple traveled to Las Vegas with a group of 49 people to gamble and watch the Super Bowl. For so many friends, Ian was a trusted confidante and advisor, in all aspects of life. He was energized by socializing with friends, even as his illness sapped his strength, and that animation in conversation often concealed the extent of his disease and symptoms. Ian is survived by his wife, Rochelle, for whom he was best friend and life partner, offering love and loyalty unknown by most, their two children, Ruthie and Casey, his father George and wife Mary Chang, brother Russell and wife Debbie, as well as their children, Aden and Shayna, and nephew Jude Yankwitt. Ian was predeceased by his mother, Adrienne, and brother Craig. Ian's dedication to family and friends is unsurpassed. A celebration of Ian's life will be held when his many loved ones can gather and eat. Donations in Ian's memory may be sent to Gideon's Promise, www.gideonspromise.org

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 8, 2020.

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Michael Pinnisi

October 22, 2023

The news of Ian's death saddened me greatly. I had the privilege to have Ian as a student at Cornell Law School, and he was a standout in intellect and character. His passing is a loss for us all.

Tony Kahn

November 2, 2022

I only met Ian once, but from the moment he entered the room I could tell he was a great guy in every respect. I´m sad that I didn´t have more time with him. RIP Ian.

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Jae Cho M.D.

December 1, 2020

Reading this memorial, I am encouraged to learn Ian lived his life much as he fought his illness--with the courage of his convictions. My deepest condolences to Rochelle.

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Josi Greding

November 14, 2020

Ian was the most generous soul and the best host dad any au pair could ask for. He made us feel part of the family with random bits of knowledge about any and everything, by buying us chocolates for Valentine’s Day and giving us boxes of Girl Scout cookies. It was an honour to have lived in his house.

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Brian Kahn

November 12, 2020

Ian was an incredible man that always brightened the mood of those around him. He will be greatly missed. Thoughts and prayers to Ian's family.

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Barry Bosak

November 9, 2020

I remember the Yankwitt family well when they lived in Briarcliff. Ian was obviously brilliant--doing square roots in his head on middle school school trips. Everyone really liked him.

Jeffrey Stein

November 9, 2020

Yank —
You always had a smile on your face and time for your friends. No better spades partner in the cafeteria or friend to sit next to during finals. My heart goes out to your family. You left us all way too soon. Hope you and Peter Y are together playing cards and crushing everyone up there. RIP

tom martin

November 9, 2020

Rest in Peace old friend.

Thomas Martin
Fort Collins, Colorado
Horace Mann '85

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Barbara and Jerry Levine

November 9, 2020

Dear George and family.
Though many years have passed since we have seen you and your family it was was with great sadness that we read about the loss of your son. Words are insufficient to tell you how sorry we feel about the loss of Ian. We hope you and the family can find some peace in all the precious memories you share about this wonderful person. Please take care. Thinking about you all.
With sincere affection.
Barbara and Jerry Levine
Ossining, NY

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Jeremiah Frei-Pearson

November 9, 2020

I only met Ian a few times, but he was so memorable -- charming, funny, and obviously highly intelligent. Ian could have done anything as a lawyer, and the fact that he chose to represent people who had no one else is such a testament to who he was. We are all better off for Ian having been here.

Karla Cohen

November 8, 2020

Ian was such a nice person. Just so saddened to hear the news of his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with Rochelle and his family. May his memory comfort you during this difficult time.

David zapp

November 8, 2020

I’d like to say he was one of the best people I’ve ever met in my life, and I’m 75 years old and have met a lot of people. David Zapp

Tony Kahn

November 8, 2020

I only met Ian once, but in that one meeting it was easy to determine that he was very intelligent, witty, friendly, larger than life in a very positive sense and an overall fantastic guy in every respect. May he Rest In Peace.

Paul Sherman

November 8, 2020

Rochelle, I'm sending love, strength and healing to your whole family. I didn't know Ian, but your beautiful tribute made me wish I had.

Helene Spielman (Torker)

November 8, 2020

George. This is so terribly sad. My condolences to u and your family. Ian was apparently an exceptionally fine man. My thoughts are with you.
Helene Spielman (Torker)

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