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SYKES--James William James William Sykes of New York, died on March 25, 2023. Born on Long Island, NY, the son of Jean George and Macrae Sykes, "Jimmy" attended Friends Academy and graduated from Williams College in 1963. At Williams, he played football for his beloved Ephmen, where he earned the nickname "Machine". Jimmy was a proud father to three children with his former wife Ellen Isbrandtsen Sykes, Macrae II (Carisa) of Old Greenwich, CT, Patricia Madeline of New York, NY, and Ware (Amalia) of Mill Valley, CA. He is also survived by his grandchildren, Ellen Ann, Richard James, Jane Macrae, Rawleigh Macrae, Eben Cotten Sykes. For over forty years, he was an investment portfolio manager, beginning at Shields & Company, and retiring from Halcyon Capital Management. A lifelong competitive sailor, on the water was where he was happiest. He won numerous championships on Long Island Sound including two Shields Nationals and was featured in Sports Illustrated Faces in the Crowd at age 17. He competed in twenty Newport to Bermuda races, skippering many on his Bombardino sloop and winning his class in 2008. Every race as a skipper, he had at least one or more of his children as crew. He was a member of The Union Club, New York Yacht Club, American Yacht Club, Storm Trysail Club and Coral Beach Club. A quiet and happy man, he cared deeply for his friends, family and fellow crew, listening more often than he spoke. He was well-respected and beloved by his peers. A Memorial Service will be held on May 11 at 11am at St. James Church, 865 Madison Avenue. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his name to Williams College, Friends Academy (Locust Valley, NY), or the Storm Trysail Foundation.

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Published by New York Times on Apr. 2, 2023.

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Leatrice Gochberg

March 27, 2025

In loving memory of James Sykes who loved sailing
almost as much as his family. He was a devoted
Dad and Grandfather who is missed every day by
his children.

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Leatrice Gochberg (Mrs.Thomas)

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Patricia Ann O'Donnell

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Jon Booth, brother of Mary Doty, Dick´s 3rd wife

May 7, 2023

I will forever be thankful that I crewed for Jimmie in the summer of 1958 as he skippered his Blue Jay, Dixie Too. He taught me so much, I won the award for "Best Boy Crew". He was a great person.

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John Arthur

April 2, 2023

In the 1960s Jimmy was my sailing instructor in Cold Spring Harbor, a deal engineered by my father and his good friend at Shields & Co, Mac Sykes. I remember Jimmy fondly and send my condolences.

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Rick Berry

April 2, 2023

I can´t express my level of sadness for Jimmy´s passing away. To say he was special to me, Kelly and so many friends of his is stating the obvious. What a life, what he was/is to so many friends and family and I feel especially fortunate to have been at his side for 60+ years. So sad and yet the memories will forever stay with me.
All my love and heartfelt thoughts/prayers for the best friend one could have. Rick Berry

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