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Sharon Marie Johnson
March 27, 2019
Even though you are no longer here your smile continues to shine on your loved ones.
March 26, 2019
Dear Vanessa & Family,
Hope these words, however small, offer some comfort on what I know is a tough day.
Wishing you peace, strength and sympathies on this anniversary
Much love
Gladys
February 5, 2015
On August 28, 1986 Jeffrey wrote a letter to the Court requesting dismissal of a case I was involved in as a minor player. For almost 3 decades I have kept that letter in my top drawer and often have gone to it to "borrow" quotes and arguments that I was never capable of formulating on my own. His signature was more calligraphy than penmanship. I did that again today and It caused me to see if Jeffrey was still practicing -- my intention was to send this email to him with these comments. I was sorry to see he had passed and my condolences to his family. Ironically, I was pleased to see he was a "Hoosier" as my son just graduated from Indiana.
He clearly had a life well lived and if a family member would like to see the letter please contact me at [email protected]
John
TIM MCDONOUGH
March 28, 2014
You are not dead.
As a matter of fact nobody ever dies.
You want to know why?
Because you're going to live inside everybody
who ever knew you, everyone you ever touched no matter how little.
And the people who love you-
Your wife, your family-
your sons, your daughters,
your brothers, sisters,
your grandkids-
they're never going to stop
thinking about you.
Or talking about you.
They're never going to forget you
cause that never goes away.
You're never going to die
cause you were loved.
Because you loved.
You're going to live forever.
We all will."
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Lauren Cahn
March 28, 2014
Your first grandchild, Brian, turned 17 today. We wish you were here with us, Dad...love, Lauren
April 5, 2013
So sorry for your loss. May God comfort all of you in this time of grief. Please find comfort in the fond memories you have of him and may it help to ease the pain. Draw close to God and he will draw close to you.
S. Rabbit Goody
April 4, 2013
I was a very young girl when I visited Jeffery and his brother in Schenectady NY. I remember Jeffery visiting my parents home in NJ a few times after that. I am sorry for your loss and sorry too that our families did not stay in touch. My fondest memory is of Jeffery is his sitting in our house smoking a pipe and sporting a small beard. I remember calling him "Dignified Daddy-O" as a term of endearment.
I know that he will be written in the book of life.
April 3, 2013
Dear Cahn family,
May you find comfort in knowing that soon God will get rid of sicknesses and disease. Isa 33:24
April 2, 2013
I remember Jeff Very fondly from Rutgers Law School c.1964-1966 when I graduated.
I always welcomed talking to him on the infrequent the infrequent occasions when we would encounter one another in Court or at some function or another.
He was a very unique and distinctive person who I will always remember with fondness and affection.
KEN JAVERBAUM
Barbara Schildcrout
April 2, 2013
Wishing all the family condolences. May your memories and closeness provide comfort and peace.
April 2, 2013
Dear Lauren, Miriam, Vanessa and the entire Cahn family...my heartfelt thoughts are with you all as you go through this difficult loss. I did not know your father personally, but I do know Lauren, and your father was the most remarkable man! Sending you all much love to get you through and hoping the memories will soon bring your sadness back to happiness. ~ Lori B. Tokar
Phyllis and Stan Green
April 2, 2013
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Gladys Diaz
April 2, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
April 2, 2013
I send my condolences to the family and friends of Mr.Cahn. May the God of comfort be with you.
Lauren Cahn
April 2, 2013
I love you Daddy. You were my first idol and you still are my idol. I owe all of my talents and drive to you. I only wish you could have been here longer.
Paula & Leo Gorelkin
April 2, 2013
Our thoughts and love go out to Miriam, Vanessa, Andre, Jordan, Lauren, Eric, Brian, Adam and the entire Cahn family at this time of great loss and sorrow. May your loving memories of Jeffrey be a source of comfort.
Leo & Paula Gorelkin (New York, NY)
TIM & MARIE MCDONOUGH
April 2, 2013
You are not dead.
As a matter of fact nobody ever dies.
You want to know why?
Because you're going to live inside everybody who ever knew you,
everyone you ever touched
no matter how little.
And the people who love you-
your wife, your daughters
your siblings,
your friends at work
they're never going to stop
thinking about you.
Or talking about you.
They're never going to forget you
cause that never goes away.
You're never going to die
cause you were loved.
Because you loved.
You're going to live forever.
We all will.
Tim McDonough March 31, 2013

Sharon M. Johnson
April 2, 2013
Jeffrey and his family are my wintertime neighbors and we became fast friends he was a wonderful man with a smile that lite the world. I will forever see him with his famed cowboy hat that he loved to wear walking his two dogs in the warm Arizona sun admiring the beauty of the day . Today as I look at the sun and the beautiful Arizona surroundings that Jeffrey so loved much I will think of him and know that part of the beautiful sunlight is his smile shining down on all that loved him.
Thank you Cahn's for embracing me into your life and giving me the pleasure to know you and to call you friends. I pray for you all to find comfort and peace knowing he is now happy and well with God.
April 2, 2013
My condolences to the Cahn family. May memories of times spent with Jeffrey warm your hearts. Lean on God for comfort and the hope he gives of seeing our passed loved ones again.
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