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JOANNE METCALF Obituary

METCALF--Joanne

Faith Mallis Lampley, lost a fierce and fast battle with lung cancer on December 18, 2016. She was an extraordinary mother, wife, sister, grandmother, mother-in-law, and friend to more than can be counted. She lived a life of passion, filled with laughter, love, dancing, music, art and design. Nicknamed "stacks" from her first job as a DJ in Honolulu, she later became an incredible artist, and designer of clothes and interiors for her homes in Palm Beach, FL, London, and New York City. She is an irreplaceable force of energy, beauty, warmth and love. Her laugh was infectious, and her beauty and sensuality turned heads wherever she was. She leaves behind her husband, Justin Metcalf, daughters Brooke Lampley Papagiannis, Victoria Lampley Berens and Alexandra Metcalf; grandsons Theo and Milo Papagiannis; sisters Stephanie Mallis McKinnell and Fern Mallis; sons-in-law Chris Papagiannis and Michael Berens; brother-in-law Michael McKinnell, and her dogs Polly and Zola. In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to support clinical research by Dr. Jamie Chaft at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center.

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 20, 2016.

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Howie Podolsky

July 28, 2019

Im am so sorry to here Joanne has passed I herd about it and havent seen her and Artie in 45 yrs wow do sorry

Terry

March 11, 2017

To Justin, Victoria, Brooke & Alexandra...how great your loss. My greatest sympathies with you all. I loved her talent, her verve, her pluck. She'll be missed by so many.

Catalina Blackman

February 25, 2017

Such an amazing woman and mother. Such a huge loss. All my love is being sent to her beautiful family and friends. Xxxxxx

Laura Levine

February 14, 2017

Joanne, miss you every day- thank you for letting me bask in your amazing light and passion for life! I am honored to have known you and be your friend. Your aura is everywhere everyday and I will love you and the memories of our friendship forever. Hope you and Larry have found each other in heaven and are taking care of each other.

Madeline Aronson-Friedman

January 15, 2017

What a shock to find out Joanne passed almost a month ago. Although a few years younger, I knew Joanne, and Stephanie and Fern, as a little girl, and I remember all of them as teenagers. My mother, Sylvia, grew up with Vera, their mother, in Brooklyn, N.Y. When Vera met Mack ("Muttie"), their father, they all became the best of friends. Last time I saw Joanne it was after her mother died, and we went to sit shiva at Vera and Mack's home in Mill Basin. It was also the last time we saw Mack. When I was 16 years old, Mack read all the poetry I had been writing while he was supposed to be visiting with my parents. He was the first person to tell me that I had a genuine gift for writing poetry. I had hoped to catch up with Joanne in Florida as I now spend a good part of the winter in Delray Beach, and Joanne I had heard was in nearby Wellington. Alas, it will not be. Rest In Peace, lovely and sweet Joanne. My condolences to all her family including Justin, her husband.

ARLENE SIDARIS

December 30, 2016

Such a beautiful woman, inside & out and full of love and laughter. You will be missed by so many who loved you. Missed but never forgotten.

December 22, 2016

The Gotwald Family cherish our memories of Joanne and her loving family. And especially her art of Sophie and Olivia which will live in perpetuity. RIP Joanne. There was and will only be one of you.

Ivey Lovett

December 22, 2016

Joanne, you were the best!!! Loved your smile...loved your laugh. You will be missed by many. I still remember playing barbie dolls with you. R.I.P. Joanne, my dear friend.

Hans Van Rennes

December 22, 2016

The best of times in Hawaii free spirit anything possible than each of us went there own way than two years ago through Annie and FB we are back in touch almost made it two years when in the UK I should have but no time and now your gone after 40
years found you and now lost you again life is not fair but I am glad you were my friend Will miss you darling Jo
My condolences to your family

Pamela Klein

December 21, 2016

Joanne was one of the most alive people I ever met. My deepest sympathies.

Rena Rully

December 21, 2016

So very sorry.

Lilliane LeBel

December 21, 2016

My thoughts and prayers for all of you at this time.

Jeffrey Banks

December 21, 2016

Joanne, your laughter and love of life will never leave us as was the light that always shined so brightly whenever you walked in the room. Please kiss your Mother and Father for me.

joanna silverblatt

December 20, 2016

my heart breaks for you joanne and your beautiful family. the last time i saw you, you were dancing in the sunshine on the grass at the breakers. i am only sorry i didn't spend more time with you these past years. i will miss you.love love, joanna

December 20, 2016

RIP my friend. Love you always!
-Betsy Webster

Cynthia Feldman

December 20, 2016

Shall miss you eternally!!!!!

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