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JOHN WASHBURN Obituary

WASHBURN--John Lawrence, died peacefully on July 13 at his Port Jefferson, NY home. He was 85. Born in Duluth, MN and raised in Tryon, NC, John graduated from Harvard College (1959, magna cum laude) and Harvard Law School (1962). After passing the DC Bar he joined the Foreign Service, with posts in India, Iran, and Indonesia as well as at the State Department. On top of his daily duties at State, John was Night Shift Chair of the Iran Hostage Task Force in 1979, receiving a special commendation from the Secretary of State for this service. From 1985-87, he was a member of the State Department's Policy Planning Staff. John's career focus was international organizations, and he was honored to serve as a Director in the Executive Office of the UN Secretary- General from 1988-93. Thereafter, he pursued his passion for human rights through his work in helping to establish and promote the International Criminal Court (ICC). As a founding member of the international NGO coalition for the ICC, he participated in the 1998 conference that adopted the Rome Statute, chairing the committee that wrote the sections on crimes against women. Later, John was Convener for the American Coalition for the ICC (AMICC) and Co-Chair of the Washington Working Group on the ICC (WICC). He did not live to see the United States become a Party to the Court but remained hopeful that eventually the U.S. would ratify the Statute. John loved the woods and streams of Western North Carolina, where he was personally involved in land conservation. He spent time each summer in Vinalhaven, Maine, enjoying sailing and catching up with old friends. He leaves his wife of 52 years, Deborah Field Washburn; two children, Susannah and Jonathan Washburn, their spouses, David Rapallo and Christine Washburn; and grandsons Nicholas and Luke Rapallo. Donations in his memory may be made to Amnesty International or Doctors Without Borders.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 18, 2022.

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Eleni Palmos

September 11, 2022

Memory Eternal

Sean Butler

August 4, 2022

John was smart and able to push for results. For AMICC, he organized groups around the US to support the ICC. He brought people from across the country to meet officials from the ASP and for the first ASP in 2002. Part of his legacy is the many who remain advocates because of his relentless push for greater US participation with the ICC. He was also kind and funny-a true joy to be with. He gave lots and will be missed.

Alexandra Sajben

August 3, 2022

I knew John from my time at the Coalition for the ICC. He was an intelligent man with keen insight, but far more importantly, he was the kindest man I've ever met. He treated everyone he met with considerable dignity, regardless of their status. A true gentleman.

William Pace

August 3, 2022

John was one of the most loyal, dedicated, strategic, and effective members of the Coalition for the International Criminal Court from our beginning days. He is an inspiration. William Pace, CICC Convenor 1995-2019

Richard Jordan

July 29, 2022

I remember John from organizing the law students during the work on the Intl. Criminal Court. Ran into him many times at the UN in NYC. Missed.

Jens Iverson

July 26, 2022

I knew John from his days working with the CICC and setting up AMICC. I've rarely encountered someone who radiated so much kindness, intelligence, energy, and good will. May his memory be a blessing.

John McLean

July 23, 2022

I am one of John's cousins; also originally from Duluth, Minnesota.

While 1/2 a generation older than me, and living across the country, I came to more closely know him the past several years. Much of our activity was related to his traveling to the Twin Cities to see an ailing relative.

He and I spoke on the phone and I came to have a much greater appreciation for who he was and what he was all about.

Reading his obituary reminded me of how well he fits one of my favorite scripture verses:

Micah 6:8

To act justly and to love mercy
and to walk humbly with your God.

Neidells

July 18, 2022

John symbolized a real Renaissance man. It's easy to remember him in his signature blazer and straw hat... reflective of his true gentleman status.

Susan and Howard Hecht

July 18, 2022

Our sincere condolences to the Washburn family...you are in our thoughts and prayers...

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