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Robert Jacobs
August 18, 2025
Hi Lulu,
I miss you more and more every day. Each time I turn on my computer or cell phone, I see your beautiful face and wish you were still here. Mom and I tell people stories about you all the time and how special you were. I pray that I see you again before long and get to hug you and tell you how much I love you and cherish every memory of you and how smart and funny you are. I need you to make me laugh again. I hope you're happy. All my love, Dad
Mom
August 18, 2025
Dear Lea , today is the 5th anniversary of your passing. Each year I miss you more intensely. The void is bigger..the memories are stronger. You are a special person....a gift to the world. Gifted but humble.
Pretty but modest
Talented but unassuming.
A daughter who was close to perfect for me. I compare everything to your loss. Everything is trivial. I pretend a lot. I hope you are happy. Please know the joy you brought to me.
Love...Mommy
Mom
April 18, 2025
Today is your birthday. We lost you 5 years ago I struggle daily to move forward with a grief that will never go away.. nor should it. Losing you is like losing a part of me. My love for you is so strong. You brought me such joy and I miss you so much. I wish that I could hold you tightly and kiss your beautiful face. You deserved to live a longer life and to enjoy your many talents. I mourn you today. Happy birthday in heaven dear Lea Mom
Mom
August 27, 2024
Lea, I mourn you every day. The pain in my heart is unrelenting. I miss looking at your beautiful face, your dimple, your talent and humor. You were my everything. It's been 4 years since your passing. You were robbed of a future you so wanted. And we were robbed of the joy of watching you get everything you wished for. I still can't believe that you are gone. I will love you forever.
Mom
Mom and Dad
April 18, 2024
Today is your birthday. We miss you more and more each year. We listen to your voice messages on the phone and the pain of not having you here is so deep. Hope you are at peace. You were so full of life and love. Happy birthday dearest Lea. Love you forever,
Mom and Dad
Robert Jacobs
August 18, 2023
Dear Lulu,
I was always so proud to be your Dad. You were special to everyone who knew you, but none more than I. You were smart, talented, beautiful, funny, thoughtful and kind. As many of your friends have commented, you brought something special to the lives of everyone who knew you. You were unforgettable. No one deserved a long and happy life more than you but, sadly, that was not to be. I think of you every day, kiss your picture on my phone, and wish you were here with me. I tell you that I hope I can see you again one day, hug you, and kiss your keppy as I so loved to do. I hope you knew and still know how special you are and how much I love you. Rest well, my beautiful angel.
Your Dad
Mom
August 17, 2023
The pain is unrelenting. You brought me so much joy. I feel your absence every day. You were such a bright light and on this third anniversary of your death, I reflect on how much I loved you and how beautiful and gifted you were in so many ways. Like the song says, I want to hold you in my arms once again but that wish can't be granted. I hope somehow you know how much you are missed.
Love,
Mom
Mom and Dad
April 17, 2023
Missing you on your 41st birthday! We love you immensely!
Mom and Dad
Phyllis Samuels Gladstone
August 17, 2022
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Donna and Brice scherling
August 17, 2021
So sad you are in out thoughts
Ava Konwiser
March 14, 2021
Dear Sandy and Bob
We just heard about Lea yesterday. We are so so sorry to hear about the loss of Lea. We remember her as a young child.
Stan and I certainly know how it feels to lose a child.
We understand your families pain and know we are thinking of you
Ava and Stan
Lauren Kitain (Schreiber)
October 17, 2020
I’ll always remember my friendship with Lea fondly. She was fun, funny, smart, a good listener and someone who tried to make a smile contagious. I’m so so sorry that her life came to an end this soon. My heartfelt condolences go out to Sandy and Bob and her whole family.
Lauren (Schreiber) Kitain
Marcela Wagner
October 16, 2020
Dear Bob and Sandy, my most sincere condolences on your loss. I am sorry she is gone, but mostly I feel for her pain while she was here. I hope her light will not go out with her and will love in all of you, her parents, her sibling and her niece and nephews. A big hug all the way from Chile!
Lynn Jacobs
October 16, 2020
Dearest Lea,
Finally at peace, my brilliant, talented, remarkable niece. Our 'Beautiful Ballerina'. You were blessed with so much, but suffered with the Jacobs family DNA. Someday a cure will be found.
I love you,
Aunt Lynn (Jacobs)
Jennifer MacNeil
October 2, 2020
Dear Sandy and Bob,
Thinking of you often and hoping the pain can be eased by the memory of all the good that Lea brought into this world. She was lucky to have you two as parents.
Love,
Jen
Liz Chertoff DeLois
September 16, 2020
Dear Sandy, Bob and Neil,
My heart has been aching since I heard the devastating news. I am forever grateful to have been blessed with such a special friend. I have so many wonderful memories of tennis together, vacations, our summer at Camp Laurelwood, and spending time at your house or across the street at the park, but I mostly remember the feeling of being Lea’s friend. She made me feel special and loved. And of course, I’ll never forget the way Lea laughed – who could! She made moments that much brighter, funnier and certainly more interesting. I’m so sad to think that the world has lost such a beautiful presence. Please know that Lea will always be in my thoughts.
All my love,
Liz Chertoff DeLois
Jack Kyte
September 11, 2020
I met Lea in 2002; we were placed in the same housing unit as new transfers to Wesleyan University. Living with Lea and becoming her friend was a joyful experience - she is the author of some of my most memorable college experiences. I'll remember her for her passion, sense of humor, and her unique way to find fun in the mundane. All my best to those hurting from her loss.
Jeffrey Hyman
September 5, 2020
I'm sorry
Sheryl Senna
September 5, 2020
Sandy and Bob, my thoughts are with you as my heart goes out to you. I know Lea brought you much joy and how proud you are of her. I will always remember her beautiful smile and sparkly eyes.
Sheryl Senna
September 5, 2020
Sandy and Bob, my thoughts are with you as my heart goes out to you. I know how much joy Lea brought both of you and how proud you are of her and always will be.
I will remember her beautiful smile and sparkly eyes.
Janet Goldstein
September 2, 2020
I am devastated by this news. Lea was a wonderful person and good friend to many.
My heart goes out to the family.
Janet Goldstein
Christine Hum
August 31, 2020
i love to remember Lea dancing, laughing and singing to reggae with cornrows and her rainbow colored dress at our high school prom. she always knew how to lift up my spirits and i'm sad that there was not more that i could do for her. i felt like as teens we helped raise one another up into adults. i am praying for her and for Mr. & Mrs. Jacobs and Neil and his family. lots of love, Christine
Audrey Pinn
August 30, 2020
I was so incredibly sad to hear the news of Lea’s passing. Lea was such a major part of my teenage years and brought so much positive energy, joie de vivre, laughter and light to my high school experience. She had a wonderful sense of humor that could range from being goofy to sophisticated. I was a little more reserved in high school and, with her humor, she helped me open up and get out of my shell. In addition to being funny, Lea was smart, caring and a talented actress. Some memories that I have with Lea are attending the original VH1 Diva’s concert, taking Latin and Chemistry together, sharing a limo for prom and dressing up in matching Where’s Waldo? costumes for Halloween our senior year. I recently looked at photos of us from high school and was struck by two. The first photo is of a group of us at her 18th birthday. She had a huge smile in front of not one but two large cakes for the occasion. The second is us at the mall wearing crazy baby blue and light pink glitter makeup and air kissing into the camera. I probably would never have selected those colors myself and then proceed to walk around the mall with the makeup on, but Lea was able to nudge me to have a little fun. The world has lost someone special, and my heart goes out to the Jacobs family during this difficult time. I feel so grateful to have been friends with Lea. May her memory be a blessing.
Gary and Laurie Hurvitz
August 27, 2020
Dearest Bob and Sandy - Our hearts cry out to you for your loss. All we can say is that you should take comfort in knowing you did all you possibly could to help Lea, and she is now finally at peace. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sandy & Dave Evans
August 26, 2020
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Lea. Even though our families moved in different directions over the many years we’ve been friends, we always kept in touch and got together when possible. We watched Lea become a multi-talented, caring, bright, young adult and the pride of her parents’ lives. She loved people of all ages but especially enjoyed working with children. Lea had so much to contribute to our world and so many dreams to fulfill.
Our condolences go to Sandy and Bob as well as their extended family.
Sandy & Dave
Lynn Camacho
August 26, 2020
Sandy and Bob,
I’m so sorry for your loss of Lea. I didn’t know her well, but we were FB friends and I enjoyed seeing her artwork. She was very creative!
Wishing you peace and sending you love. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Phyllis Gladstone
August 26, 2020
I have watching her on Facebook. She had people who loved her very much. I could se her boy friend did. Aunt Nettie loved her. Anyone who was here or met her had to. I am Sandy and Barbie cousin Phyllis Samuels Gladstone. I am extra saddened as I justn lost my husband of 46 years. I you want to call me I would love to re connect when you are ready.
Shari Siegel
August 26, 2020
Sandy,
Thinking of you. Please accept my deepest condolences. Always,
Shari
Iris benowitz
August 26, 2020
We’re so sorry for your loss Lea was a sweet and kind soul her memory will live on We wish you peace Love Iris and Mike Benowitz and family
Luba and Steve Fredericks
August 26, 2020
Dear Sandra and Bob,
So sorry for your loss. Please accept our deepest condolences.
Elise (Rosemarin) Schohn
August 25, 2020
Sending my deepest condolences and love to the Jacobs family. Lea was a special person and was one of my best childhood friends. So many of my fondest childhood memories were made with her and spent with the Jacobs family. A fellow theater lover, we had many things in common, such as our interest in community theater and eating ice cream from the ice cream truck (which she was so lucky to have stationed across the street from her). At 9 years old, Lea saved me from having to go back to the military sleep-away camp my parents sent me to (by mistake). Fortunately for me, Lea convinced my parents to send me the same normal camp she was attending, Camp Towanda, and as a result we both enjoyed our summers for several years (no marching or hospital corners!). In adulthood, we would check in with each other periodically and especially on April 17th (my birthday) and April 18th (hers) because as kids we used to celebrate with joint birthday parties. During our check-ins, though things were not always rosy; Lea shared her experiences with her trademark comedic zest. I will always cherish our memories and am so saddened by this loss. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone whose life she touched.
Elise Rosemarin (Schohn)
August 25, 2020
Sending my deepest condolences and love to the Jacobs family. Lea was a special person and was one of my best childhood friends. So many of my fondest childhood memories were made with her and spent with the Jacobs family. A fellow theater lover, we had many things in common, such as our interest in community theater and eating ice cream from the ice cream truck (which she was so lucky to have stationed across the street from her). At 9 years old, Lea saved me from having to go back to the military sleep-away camp my parents sent me to (by mistake). Fortunately for me, Lea convinced my parents to send me the same normal camp she was attending, Camp Towanda, and as a result we both enjoyed our summers for several years (no marching or hospital corners!). In adulthood, we would check in with each other periodically and especially on April 17th (my birthday) and April 18th (hers) because as kids we used to celebrate with joint birthday parties. During our check-ins, though things were not always rosy; Lea shared her experiences with her trademark comedic zest. I will always cherish our memories and am so saddened by this loss. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone whose life she touched.
Joelle Miller
August 25, 2020
I met Lea before I was able to remember. We attended preschool together, and then Middle School and High School. She was a good friend, a kind soul with a big heart, and a huge personality. She was one of the funniest people I ever met. She’s the first person who I remember making me laugh until my sides hurt! She did amazing impersonations and accents. We have lost a bright star but I feel so fortunate to have had her in my life and to have called her my friend.
Nickey Hoppman
August 25, 2020
Sandy and Bob,
I am sad and sorry. Lea was brilliant and fun loving. Sending much love and many prayers.
Sandy, I have always admired the way you fiercely share love with your own children, friends, students and family. Lea was surrounded by your devoted love and unwavering support. May the love of friends and family carry you through this awful time of grief.
Debra Liverpool
August 25, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss of your beautiful daughter.
I pray for the strength you need as all of the family remember all of the wonderful memories
Soon the sadness will pass but the memories will last forever with a smile.
You Leadership Montgomery Colleagues
Rev and Mrs Kenneth and Debra (Liverpool) Nelson
Class of 2010 and 1999
Jennie Klein
August 25, 2020
It is hard to write all the amazing memories because there are thousands. We left Greenacres everyday and went to visit Bill at Good Humor. I will never forget watching endless hours of movies, listening to tons of music, played jeopardy on the first computer ever made. It’s hard to believe that Lea’s kind soul has left us at such a young age. I feel sad that she had so much pain but Lea will never be forgotten. Miss you my dear friend.
Arusha Gordon
August 25, 2020
Lea, this is such a loss. I'm so grateful our paths crossed at Wesleyan as transfer students, and again in NYC and DC/Bethesda. I'll remember: living above Wes Wings (with all the greasy smells!) and on Home Ave (when I thought we were such cool seniors); your pet frog; your suggestions for fancy face creams; getting the occasional manicure (I'll be sure to go back to that place in Bethesda you showed me!); the random parties and adventures; being proud aunties and chatting about our nephews/nieces; all the times we reconnected over the years. I'll really, really miss you.
Sending my love to your family.
Jackie Samuels-Jaffee
August 25, 2020
Dear Sandy and Bob
We are so sorry to have learned about Leah’s passing. I remember the joy of watching her celebrate one of her early birthdays as she opened with excitement all of her presents. Grandma Nettie doting on her beauty and her intelligence.
I followed her a little while on Facebook and loved to hear her stories of performing for kids at birthday parties.
She is a beautiful soul and hope that the memory of all of the good times remain a blessing to all of you.
With love Jackie and the Jaffee family
Iris Benowitz
August 25, 2020
Mike and I with deep sorrow offer our deepest regrets for the loss of Lea we wish you strength and love
Michele Mosko
August 25, 2020
I am so saddened by your loss. My memories of my children's childhood are completely interwoven with happy times together with Lea and all of the Jacobs. May those good memories sustain you. I send my and my family's most sincere condolences and heartfelt wishes of comfort.
With love,
Michele Mosko and family Miller
Jason Owen
August 25, 2020
I was Lea’s classmate in middle school and though I moved and we lost touch, I remember her as a truly kind and hilarious person. I’m so sorry for your loss, may she RIP.
Steven Betkowitz
August 25, 2020
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Donna scherling
August 25, 2020
Sandy and Bob so very sorry for your loss Donna and Bruce Scherling
Robert Klein
August 24, 2020
I remember Lea’s delightful smile and creativity as a child. She was often around our house entertaining us and adding interesting conversation and child insight. I am very saddened to hear about her struggles and wish healing to Sandy and Bob and Neal and his family.
Emily
August 24, 2020
Oh Lea, I'm so sorry to hear this news. I will always remember the days at Wesleyan - 48 Home Ave, beta fish, the Subaru, late night sushi, dancing and so many other great times. You had such a beautiful, bright smile and will be dearly missed. I'm sending love and thoughts to your family during this difficult time.
Arlene Lobell
August 23, 2020
There is one less star shining in the sky since Lea has left us. The world, especially all those who knew and loved her, are missing her light, her talent, her child-like giggle and her beautiful dimpled smile. She never just entered a room, she danced in while singing a show tune with her angelic voice. Lea was artistic, creative and bright.
I am so deeply saddened that all your dreams will not get to be fulfilled. Instead we are left with your legacy of what you left behind. We are left with so many wonderful memories. I prefer to remember those times and keep them close to my heart. All too often the good times were overshadowed by your struggles with your illness. But it’s those good memories that are the true Lea. The Lea who loved owls, the Lea that loved butterflies, the Lea that loved music, and sushi and chocolate milk. And the Lea that loved her family!
I will remember all the family gatherings where she would be sure to save me a seat next to hers and we talked and laughed throughout dinner, as if there was no one else in the room. Her love was genuine. What can one say about a young woman who would rather spend an evening with her “Mama” (grandmother) than out partying with her friends!!
All these memories and so much more, are part of her legacy and will help Lea stay in our hearts forever!
Love Aunt Arlene and Uncle Michael
and family.
Susan Paster
August 23, 2020
I will always remember the happy times spent with Lea at the village pool, skiing, on the Vineyard, or simply at home. Lea’s uplifting spirit was infectious, and guaranteed we made the most out of every experience.
Sending much love and my deepest condolences to all.
Barbara Daniels
August 23, 2020
I have been so proud of Lea and remember one time in particular when she led an auditorium singing a song from Pippin...it was an upbeat song to match Lea's upbeat, full of promise personality. She was not tall in stature but she seemed six feet four inches that night when she sang and seemed to fill up the stage with joy. The song was "No Time At All" and I so mourn that she did not have longer on Earth to sing songs and bring joy to people, like she did when she entertained young children. I will miss her terribly and am grieving along with my sister but I hope to stay strong for Sandy, Bob, Neal and Maria and. of course, for Lea's niece Maria and her nephews, Roger and Sammy. I hope to help everyone find some amount of peace as they deal with the loss of vibrant Lea.
Barbara Daniels
August 23, 2020
I have been so proud of Lea and remember one time in particular when she led an auditorium singing a song from Pippin...it was an upbeat song to match Lea's upbeat, full of promise personality. She was not tall in stature but she seemed six feet four inches that night when she sang and seemed to fill up the stage with joy. The song was "No Time At All" and I so mourn that she did not have longer on Earth to sing songs and bring joy to people, like she did when she entertained young children. I will miss her terribly and am grieving along with my sister but I hope to stay strong for Sandy, Bob, Neal and Maria and. of course, for Lea's niece Maria and her nephews, Roger and Sammy. I hope to help everyone find some amount of peace as they deal with the loss of vibrant Lea.
Karla Berg Walker
August 23, 2020
Sending love and prayers to the family.
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