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MARILYN LUTZKER Obituary

LUTZKER--Marilyn Lee, passed away peacefully on January 14, 2023 with her children and family members present. She leaves three children, eight grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren. She was born in Sheepshead Bay, Brooklyn, attended Brooklyn College where she met her husband Michael Lutzker, and later received graduate degrees in Art History and Library Science. She worked as an academic librarian for several decades at John Jay College of Criminal Justice (CUNY). She lived more than 65 years in Sunnyside Gardens, Queens where she was also politically active for the Democratic Party and various leftist causes. She survived her partner of many years, Mel Jacobson. She was an active member of the Empire Quilters Guild and gave friends and family quilts which they all treasure. After her retirement, she volunteered at the New York Historical Society, and became a world traveler sometimes writing for travel magazines. She will be remembered as a very wise, positive and cheerful person who continually enriched everyone's life who knew her.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 1, 2023.

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David Greenwood

January 24, 2024

Marilyn was a dear friend, and I still feel the loss. She supported me ably when I was at a low point in my life, and I will always be grateful for that. I remember breakfast at her house with Gene McCarthy!

Robin Shaffert

March 27, 2023

Marilyn was a very close friend of my parents, Judy and Kurt Shaffert, for well over half a century. Throughout my childhood and beyond, they loved joining Marilyn's Saturday night of Thanksgiving weekend dinners, and I still prepare my turkey the way Marily taught my mother. Marilyn was very supportive of my mother as she lived with cancer and very supportive of my father after my mother died. May her memory always be a blessing.

DG Weber-Duffy

February 11, 2023

Marilyn was our neighbor and friend for over 40 years that we lived across the alley from her in her beloved Sunnyside. Her door was always open as we visited to share our latest triumph or heartache. She always lent her ears and gave us words of wisdom. She has guided me through each stage of life by good example. As she needed to stay home as age caught up to her, new neighbors with children delighted her especially as she used her porch swing!
This photo was taken when she proudly purchased her last car...miss you, Marilyn!

David Greenwood

February 11, 2023

Marilyn and I were very close in the late 1980s, when we were both recovering from divorces. I will never forget her warmth, kindness, and humor.
Earlier, I enjoyed her wonderful Thanksgiving dinners. A great loss. My condolences to all.

Carole Smargon

February 11, 2023

Marilyn was always a very important part of my life and was a source of comfort and friendship throughout the years. I shall miss her spirit, wise advice and upbeat outlook on life. A group of ladies met frequently over the many years to lunch and open our hearts to each other. This photo was taken at one of our most recent luncheons.

Dorothy Pam

February 8, 2023

Pamela Byers, Dorothy Pam, Marilyn Lutzker at Marilyn's annual New Year's Party.

Margi Hofer

February 1, 2023

I'm saddened to learn of Marilyn's passing. For nearly 20 years, I supervised from her volunteer work at New-York Historical Society, where she applied her passion for history, textiles, and politics to an array of projects. She was instrumental in helping me with the exhibition "Home Sewn: Three Centuries of Stitching History" and marshaled her fellow Empire Quilters to demonstrate their skills to exhibition goers. She researched and organized our vast collection of political buttons, cataloged new donations, and contributed to an exhibition on the topic. Her memory will live on in all the work she did to help us preserve and interpret American history.

Margi Hofer, New-York Historical Society

David Lutzker

January 30, 2023

David Lutzker

January 30, 2023

David Lutzker

January 30, 2023

David Lutzker

January 30, 2023

A few pictures of my mother, old and recent.
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