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BURKE--Mary Griggs, was born on June 20, 1916, in Saint Paul, Minnesota, the only child of Theodore W. Griggs and Mary Livingston Griggs. She died on December 8, 2012, in New York City. She resided in Oyster Bay, New York. Raised in Saint Paul, she attended Summit School and upon graduation attended Sarah Lawrence College in Bronxville, New York, and then Columbia University. She was preceded in death by her husband, Jackson Burke. Mrs. Burke was a prominent philanthropist and art collector. She served on many boards of directors, including Sarah Lawrence College, the Metropolitan Museum of Art and the Asia Society. She and her husband founded the Cable Natural History Museum in Cable, Wisconsin, where the Griggs family had a summer estate called Forest Lodge. Forest Lodge was given by Mrs. Burke to the Trust for Public Land, and through them it was transferred to the U.S. Forest Service and will become a national center for the environment. Mrs. Burke received honorary degrees from Northland College in Ashland, Wisconsin, and from Sarah Lawrence College in Bronxville, New York. In 1987, she was awarded the Order of the Sacred Treasure by the Japanese government. Her collection of Japanese art has been shown prominently at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York, the Tokyo National Museum in Japan, the Minneapolis Institute of Arts in Minneapolis, and many other institutions in this country and abroad. There are no immediate survivors, but Mrs. Burke is survived by numerous loving cousins and friends. She was descended from Colonel Chauncey Griggs and Crawford Livingston. Graveside services were held at Oakland Cemetery with burial in the Livingston family plot. Memorials are preferred to Sarah Lawrence College, the Minneapolis Institute of Arts and the Cable Natural History Museum or charity of donor's choice.

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 12, 2012.

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Steuart Pearce

May 15, 2013

Mary Griggs Burke was my Godmother and a truly wonderful, talented, and generous person. She was a great friend of my mother Patsy Pearce and will be greatly missed.
Steuart Pearce, Godson

Brian Burke

April 26, 2013

Mary and my uncle Jackson Burke were always kind to my family. My father was Jackson's brother and was best man at Mary and Jackson's wedding. From our brief encounters, I found Mary (she never liked "Aunt Mary") to be a woman of grace and good humor. She was a delight.

Yoshiaki Shimizu

December 24, 2012

You have brought intelligence and love to the appreciation of Japanese art, inspiring the viewers in this country to want to know more about it. You are sorely missed. RESQUIESCAT IN PACE

December 12, 2012

Mary Rehwald

December 12, 2012

Mary Griggs Burke's incredible life showed in the grounds at Forest Lodge and in her sensitivity in collecting the works of art she did. I had the honor of conducting an oral history project on her life and on Forest Lodge, and was sorry we didn't have more than the one summer we did. She was generous to our community and left a lasting legacy.

December 11, 2012

Beautifully accomplished woman who never stopped learning of Japanese art
and the grace and traditions of the Japanese way of life. She embodied so much of it in her life and gave so much
to everyone.

Ben Kernan

December 11, 2012

An extremely bright and talented woman with great grace who took the New York
City art world by storm when she arrived in the 60's and began her collection of Japanese. Her life
itself was the way of Japanese art and its beauty, love and traditions.

Ben Kernan

December 11, 2012

A wonderful woman, kind , generous and funny. Love, Pat Hart

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