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Melanie Beckelman Obituary

BECKELMAN-Melanie. Known professionally as Melanie Wygonik. Died March 8, 2005. Artist, writer, musician. Princeton '73, Pratt '75. Her intellect, her creative vision and her passion set her apart. She cared deeply for her family and her friends. We returned her love.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 27, 2005.

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Bag Lady´s Fan - 1982

Bruce Packard

August 17, 2025

I have one of “The BagLady’s Fan” done in 1982. If one of Melanie’ relatives want it, please contact me:

713-502-9261

Bruce Packard

Marsha Levy-Warren

April 8, 2005

Ah, Melanie-

Your art is on my walls, your face in my mind's eye, your energy a visceral memory...your physical being will be sorely missed, but your spirit remains with us.



Much love to all who mourn her presence in our lives.

Jose Mateo

April 8, 2005

How stunningly vivid are my memories of you, Melanie. So truthfully beautiful in your honest search for freedom and friendship. I was a fortunate observer and your example was so affirrming. You would be surprised that decades later, your impact is still deeply felt. I will miss you more, with gratitude always.

Aida del Valle

April 7, 2005

Mel! I will never forget our joyous dinner parties in that little cinderblock dorm room in Lourie-Love....your "harlot sauce" and pasta...the sherry and wine...the Stones on the record player and our "Maenad" (your word) dancing well into the night. You were a terrific, magnanimous friend and I will never forget your multi-faceted intelligence, creativity--and warmth. I will miss you and hold your memory dear to my heart always. Thank you for all you shared with me.

Melanie & Ian, November 1991

April 3, 2005

Melanie, summer 1989

April 3, 2005

Melanie, circa 1988

April 3, 2005

Naked Masks, Melanie Wygonik, 1986

April 1, 2005

Bag Lady Fan, Melanie Wygonik, 1982

April 1, 2005

Helene Fromm

March 30, 2005

Melanie's art, Melanie's music, Melanie's exquisite cooking, Melanie's energy, Melanie's friendship and creative spirit. Melanie, you are missed.

Sandra Dodd

March 30, 2005

We had good times back when: downtown artist parties, elaborate Melanie dinners, Dan Lynch nights and the blues... We stayed in touch. We wrote and talked. We were family.

Mel and her brother

March 28, 2005

Guy Nouri

March 28, 2005

Melanie was enormously creative. She kept a place in all our hearts since college. She always will.

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