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MICHAEL NESTOR Obituary

NESTOR--Michael, former Inspector General of Port Authority New York/New Jersey died on April 9 at the age of 76 from a brain tumor. Given six months to live, his fighting spirit helped him continue leading the IG office daily for five and a half years. He graduated from the prestigious High School of Performing Arts where his talent for dance and theatre led him to become Resident Choreographer of Utah State University. He performed on Broadway in Man of LaMancha, West Side Story, Milk & Honey, et al. Mr. Nestor then joined Law Enforcement and served 27 years for U.S. Customs and retired as Resident Agent in Charge. In 1997 he joined the Port Authority where from 2014 to January 2020 he was the Inspector General. In his distinguished 50 year career he served honorably in both government agencies and was known for his unwavering integrity and charisma. On September 11, 2001 he successfully led his employees on the 77th floor of North Tower to safety before its collapse. He is also credited with saving a woman's life by carrying her down stairs to safety. His last minutes in the tower were recounted in two books, most recently "The Most Spectacular Restaurant in the World". As a resident of Hoboken he combined his love of boxing with philanthropic work with his friend Mark Settembre and the legendary boxer Gerry Cooney. They created annual Fight Night events raising over a Million dollars for Youth Consultation Service (YCS) and Hoboken Hospital. Michael is survived by his loving wife Elayne, his children Brandt and Shaina, his sister Irene and grandchildren Ava and Ronan. He was dedicated to his family, friends and employees and a role model who touched and supported many lives.

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Published by New York Times on Apr. 19, 2020.

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Howie C.

September 8, 2024

Mike was one of the best people I've ever met in my whole life,it was an absolute honor to know him and I can honestly say I loved him. I think of him often,tell his story often,and miss him.

Joan maret

April 23, 2020

I cherish the time we spent working together in Milk and Honey! You were an amazing dancer and friend. ❤❤

Debra Popkin

April 21, 2020

He was a good classmate and a wonderful dancer at PA.

April 20, 2020

Mike was my partner for a year as we flew the European routes when we both served as the first group of Sky Marshalls. He always talked about his wife and children. He use to tell me that half of his pay check went to Pampers. He was a good partner. Wally Smith.

Chris Glassner

April 20, 2020

Michael you were one of a kind - a trustworthy friend who always wore a smile and offered a laugh

Domingo Jr

April 20, 2020

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Shaina Nestor

April 19, 2020

He is greatly missed

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