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Michael Zimmer Obituary

ZIMMER--Michael, who died on October 12, 2008 at the age of 74, leaves a host of saddened friends and family behind. Diagnosed with lung cancer only a few weeks ago, he was taken home to his house in the West Village to die among his books, his friends, and with a view of his beloved garden. Michael was born in Heidelberg in 1934, the youngest son of Sanskrit scholar and Indologist Heinrich Zimmer and his wife Christiane, daughter of the Austrian poet and librettist Hugo von Hofmannsthal ("Der Rosenkavalier", "Elektra"). The family fled Nazi Germany in 1939, and New York's Columbia University offered a hospitable teaching environment. After her husband's premature death in 1943, Christiane settled in New York's West Village where her house became a gathering place for luminaries from both sides of the Atlantic, among them Hannah Arendt, Wyston Auden and Joseph Campbell, one of Zimmer's most illustrious disciples. Michael and his two brothers attended Horace Mann School and Michael went on to study at Harvard University, supported by the Mellon family who had earlyon recognized the importance of Heinrich Zimmer's work on Indian myths and philosophy. Always fascinated by the built environment, Michael chose to major in architecture, studying with masters such as Walter Gropius and Siegfried Giedion. A short-lived career as an architect in New York followed: Michael, by his own admission, wasn't cut out for the compromises it entailed. After his marriage to Emily Sophia Harding, a cousin by marriage and daughter of Alice Astor, the couple briefly occupied the glamour pages of Vogue and other glossies. In 1967 they had a son, Jacob and soon after left New York to live "off the grid". In 1969, assisted by the proceeds of the sale of a Hofmannsthal heirloom, Picassos self portrait "Yo Picasso", they purchased a piece of land on the island of St. Barts. After his divorce from Harding, Michael made the little paradise his home, sharing it with his companion, Vera Graaf and a group of like-minded friends. "Le Camp" was a compound of mini buildings with a solarpowered kitchen and a beautifully cultivated tropical garden, all of which Michael used as a playful laboratory for his ideas of the good life, guided by aesthetic principles. It was a visionary example of "green" lifestyle, as well as a meticulously choreographed piece of theatre which Michael directed, smoking, talking, always a glass of rum in hand, endlessly amusing and usually surrounded by a bevy of awe-struck friends. When St. Barts became a celebrity hangout, Michael was soon looking for a more hospitable shore. He found it in Canada, on the island of Grand Manan, where his second wife Veronique Sari took him whalewatching and he discovered a group of defunct smoke houses. He managed to buy and transform them into a museum whose most striking exhibition piece was he himself, living in the midst of it all and motoring around in an aluminum boat shaped like a sardine can. He became the island's keeper of memories, the man who guarded and exhibited what the islanders threw away. The "Sardine Museum and Herring Hall of Fame" became Michael's last great project -a poetic environment, part museum, part curiosity cabinet, part living memory. Michael Johannes der Baptist Karl Maximilian Heinrich Hugo Zimmer (his full name) enjoyed what was perceived by many as a charmed life. He lived by his own rules and conventions, counting among his lovers and companions men and women. Tragedy intervened only once, when his son Jacob was killed in a drowning accident in 1990. Michael and Jacob had many unfinished plans. May they now be reunited to carry them out. Michael is survived by his cousins Romana McEwen, Octavian von Hofmannsthal and Arabella Heathcote-Amory of London, England, as well as his nephew Christopher Zimmer and his niece, Adriana Zimmer, both of Washington, DC. A memorial date is yet to be announced.

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 2, 2008.

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Robert Walters

October 8, 2020

I met Michael Zimmer back around 1994, a mutual friend took me to meet him down on Commerce Street; he lived just down the door from a cool little Japanese vegan joint called Sho Jin. We hung out for several hours and I never saw him again, but we exchanged gifts and he gave me a copy of a book called A Void, by the late Georges Perec, which was originally written in French with no letter "e," later translated to English the same way. It was a murder mystery. Michael informed me that the reason bathroom sinks are only 4 feet high is to accommodate children. Michael also spoke of his place at St. Barth's, which island I had visited myself sometime earlier, it is a very beautiful little hideaway near St. Martin. I was only 27 when we met, same age as his son would have been. The guy who brought me there was named Tom Grayson, he died a few years after this encounter, of heart failure. Tom filled me in on the story about the Picasso painting, and his son drowning. Here is some material on that self-portrait. https://www.pablopicasso.org/yo-picasso.jsp I also found a NY Post article about Michael Zimmer here called Saltwater Daffy which describes his life. https://nypost.com/2008/11/30/saltwater-daffy/ Finally I dug up a copy of the film documentary "Stranger from Away," about the museum Michael Zimmer started in Nova Scotia. https://vimeo.com/166133350 I would be interested to learn where he was interred; and what became of the West Village townhouse and Caribbean getaway.

Jeanne LaVallee

November 8, 2008

To family & friends of Michael Zimmer:
Michael was extremely generous to me in my aim to conduct research for a biographical account of the life of his father. He would meet with me at length to share family stories, and included me on list of invitees for gatherings at Commerce Street. I was very happy to be able to share my memories of time spent with his son, Jacob, when we lived together in a house shared by four 20-somethings in Somerville, MA. I know that the terrible tragedy of the loss of Jacob continually occupied him. Know that the premature deaths, also, of his father and his brother also occupied him. Must add that Jacob was one of the finest and kindest young men I have ever met. Am saddened that I did not have the chance to thank Michael for his kindness and generosity before his death. I will remember him, in addition, for his perspicacity, his refined aesthetic sensibilities, his humor and wit. Michael: i hope, indeed, that you will be reunited with Jacob...

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