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PETER ONEILL Obituary

O'NEILL--Peter L., Esq. Co-Founder, CARCO Group, Inc. Pete passed peacefully on Monday, October 7th at the age of 78. He is survived by his wife Becky, son John, brother Rogers and many nieces and nephews. His daughter, Catherine, predeceased him. Pete was born and raised in Jersey City, NJ. He graduated from Delbarton School, Morristown, New Jersey in 1959. Subsequently, Pete earned a Bachelor of Arts degree from Colgate University, and a law degree from New York University School of Law. After graduation, Pete was admitted to the bar in New York and to the practice of law before the US Supreme Court. He served as a police officer while in law school. In 1966, Pete's professional career began when he was appointed as a Special Agent of the Federal Bureau of Investigation. After serving with the FBI, he became a Vice President of the Wackenhut Corporation (now G4S) and Assistant General Counsel of ARA Services (now ARAMARK). In 1977, Pete cofounded CARCO Group, Inc. Starting with just five employees, Pete grew the firm from its roots as a pioneer in vehicle pre-insurance physical damage inspections, to a leader in background screening and risk mitigation. Under his direction, CARCO employed hundreds of people and provided services to some of the largest banks and brokerage firms in New York. CARCO (sold to CIP Capital in 2016 and now Cisive) currently operates in 192 countries and provides its clients with more than 20 million reports annually. Pete was a member of the Society of Former Special Agents of the FBI, the National Law Enforcement Association, the American Society of Industrial Security and lifetime member of the International Security Management Association. He served as a Director of the New York Law Enforcement Foundation and was a longtime member and supporter of the Frederick D. Suydam Memorial Association. In 1999, Pete was awarded the Ellis Island Medal of Honor and inducted into the Delbarton School Hall of Honor. Pete was a mentor to many and renowned for helping others find jobs and advance their careers. He will be greatly missed by all whose lives he touched. A memorial Mass for Pete is planned for Saturday, November 2, at 11:30am at St. Mary's Abbey Church on the campus of Delbarton School, 230 Mendham Road, Morristown, NJ, with a reception following. Friends and family are welcome to attend.

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Published by New York Times on Oct. 15, 2019.

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Sharon Shea

October 22, 2022

I met Peter briefly but we maintained (for some reason) a fondness for eachother. We reached out rarely to say hello and smiled when life was treating the other well. This time Oct 2022 when I thought I would look to reach out and say hello; I found this. So very sorry for the loss of Peter. He is an unforgettable man.

February 19, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Donald McCormick

December 31, 2019

A true Gentleman and a Friend as well as a mentor. Unfortunately, I only just learn of his passing else my wife Bridget and I would have been in attendance for his service.

Madeline Colwell

November 7, 2019

I was sorry to hear of Peter's passing. I worked at Carco fo 24 years and found Peter to be fair and gracious to all his employees. I have very fond memories of working for Peter. I send my sincere condolences to Peter's family.

Mary Barnard

October 22, 2019

I only knew Pete a few, short 12 years through his incredible wife, Becky. And in those years, he was always a welcoming, congenial host who could always entertain the crowd with his stories. I know how many people he mentored, and helped in times of need. You just picked up the phone and Pete was there to help. I will always be thankful for his kindness and friendship. Rest In Peace.

Doreen Koronios

October 16, 2019

I was Peter's Assistant for 18 years. He was a wonderful boss and friend and was well respected and loved by his employees. Besides being a business genius and a consummate gentleman, he was hilarious and had a thousand stories to tell. I treasure the time I worked with him. He will be sorely missed.

Steven Millwee

October 16, 2019

Pete was a wonderful friend and mentor to many. He will be greatly missed. Steven C. Millwee, CPP - 2002 President ASIS International

John Barkes

October 15, 2019

Pete was dear friend, I have known him 53 years. We were apartment mates in WDC while in training for the FBI. He will be missed by many who knew him. He was like brother to me.

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