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PETER YEARLEY Obituary

YEARLEY--Peter. November 2, 1962 -- January 29, 2025. It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Peter Yearley, 62, of Manchester by the Sea, Massachusetts and London, England, after an 11-month battle with osteosarcoma. He is survived by his wife and partner of 40 years, Mia Schlappi, his children Rowan, Petra and MacKay, as well as his furry companions, Jib and Rowley. He also leaves behind his siblings, Sandy (Mark), Doug (Susan) and Andrew (Suzanne) Yearley, and 14 nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents, Anne (Dunbar) and Doug Yearley. He was a loving husband, father, brother, uncle, and friend, whose remarkable strength, warmth and kindness touched everyone who knew him. Peter was born in Plainfield, New Jersey on November 2, 1962 and grew up in Westfield, New Jersey. A graduate of Trinity College in 1984 with a degree in American Studies, Peter's intellectual curiosity and passion for history were lifelong pursuits. In 1986, he met Mia in New York City -- a connection that would grow into a deep and enduring love. The two married in 1992 in Old Deerfield, Massachusetts. Spending time with his family brought him the most joy, whether it was date nights at Nando's in London, watching old movies with Rowan, Petra and MacKay, or traveling the world. He particularly loved going to his home in Canaan, New York where he constructed a legendary treehouse for his children. Peter's professional journey led him to a remarkable career at Deutsche Bank as Head of Credit and Chief Risk Officer of the Investment and Corporate Bank. His career took him and his family from New York City to London, where they lived for over 14 years. Peter retired in 2022, and he continued to serve on the Board of Directors of Deutsche Bank USA until his passing. In addition to his professional accomplishments, Peter was deeply committed to giving back to his community. He spent many years volunteering with St. Bartholomew's Church in New York City, and more recently with Beverly Bootstraps in Beverly, Massachusetts. He also took an active lead in his own family foundation and sat on a number of charitable boards. A true Renaissance man, Peter was an avid reader with an enviable and ever-growing book collection. He was also an impressive gardener. His greenhouse, always alive with an abundance of beautiful flowers, was a shining contrast to the overcast London climate. He was passionate about music, and cultivated playlists filled with the greatest hits of Bruce Springsteen and Genesis. Peter had an infectious zest for life. Whether it was spending time at his family home on Cape Cod, traveling to a new country or playing tennis and soccer, he embraced every moment with enthusiasm and gratitude. He was well known for his culinary talents and loved leading holiday feasts. His famous New York Times recipe Sunday morning waffles and pots of fondue were staple favorites. He was a true dog lover, especially of Spinoni Italiani, Shar-pei, and basset hounds. Peter would often walk his two beloved Spinonis on Hampstead Heath in London or chase them down the beaches of Cape Cod. The pair never left his side during his final days. Peter's courage throughout his illness was a reflection of his extraordinary resilience and unwavering hope and positivity. He faced all hurdles with grace, determination and spirit. Peter, the longevity of your love, brightness and spirit will live forever in the hearts of those who were fortunate to know you. We love you. A Celebration of Life will be held in the spring. Donations in Peter's name and memory can be made to Beverly Bootstraps at beverlybootstraps.give cloud.co.

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Published by New York Times on Feb. 6, 2025.

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MaryB Barlow

May 22, 2025

Loss of a truly fine man.
So sorry for all who loved him.
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Marzio

March 13, 2025

I was his boss, we were peers, then he was my boss, and then we were peers again. At the end we just ended up as friends. In all this time of nearly 20 years, he never changed. He was always positive, always nice, super smart ! While I was his boss, I provided him with a personal coach as he seemed to be at times very reserved. A few years later he ended up as the best public speaker in our division ! Forgot to mention his fine sense of humour and the many political discussions we had where he always had a view based on very strong analytics. Finally he was a great family man and often our discussions ended by talking about Mia and the kids...as well as his dogs !
I will miss you my great friend. Thanks for the great memories.
Yours, Marzio

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JP

February 22, 2025

This is an admittedly unique tribute post, but I thought family and friends might appreciate my sharing.

In a nostalgic mood, I was perusing the online photo library of my childhood summer camp Camp Belknap on Lake Winnipesaukee, where I spent 6 of the best summers of my life (2017-2022). While looking through the folder of images from the summers of 1979-1981, I came across a photo of a leader and a camper in front of what looks to be the Besserer division lodge. Curious about the story of the leader - who was wearing a nametag when the photo was taken - I entered his name into google, only to discover the heartbreaking news that he passed away just a few weeks ago.

While I did not know Peter personally, I thought I should share my condolences, from one Belknapper to another. He clearly lived a prosperous and happy life that touched the lives of so many others. Guided by the Belknap spirit, he "sought the joy of being alive." He will be missed by family and friends who had the pleasure of knowing him. May he rest in peace.

Lisa Gershon

February 14, 2025

I am heartbroken for you Mia and your wonderful children Rowan, Petra and MacKay and all your family. I feel deeply blessed to have become a friend of yours and of course your inspirational Peter. Sending you all my love and ongoing support today and always. May the outpouring of love from family and friends from around the world help you with your grief. Holding you all closely in my head and heart.

David Dufour

February 12, 2025

He was such a kind person. I knew him through Mia many years ago, but it seems like only yesterday. I am sorry for your loss.

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Julie and Bill Dunbar

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stuart clarke

February 7, 2025

I worked with Peter for 15 years. Peter was a pleasure to work with, smart, tough when necessary, strong under pressure and above all these he was honest, fair and a team player. Peter has left us far too early. My condolences to Peter's family and friends.

Sherin Gobran and Andrew Baur

February 6, 2025

We already miss Pete's self deprecating smile and humor. Our prayers are with you Mia, Rowan, Petra and McKay. Big tears are falling.

Swasi Bate

February 6, 2025

I will always remember Peter's direct gaze when he asks a question. He was genuinely interested to know. May you take great comfort that he was well loved by everyone. Deepest sympathies.

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Sue Gabriel, Executive Director, Beverly Bootstraps

February 6, 2025

Peter was so generous in spirit and with his time and treasure. He was smart, thoughtful and cared so much about the mission of Beverly Bootstraps in a very short time. I feel the opportunity lost at not having Peter around for longer, but his impact was quick and meaningful to all of us who got to know him. If he made such a strong impression on us, I can only imagine how this loss is affecting his family and friends. My sincere sympathy to all of you.

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