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PHILIP IDONE Obituary

IDONE--Philip. 77, beloved husband, father, brother and friend, passed ever so peacefully from this life on Monday at his home in New York City after a short illness. Philip graced every environment in which he lived with his wit, charm, and warmth. Delightfully enhancing those personal qualities was the fine food he prepared for friends and family, from his own recipes and those he adapted from travels in Italy - where he studied the great museum art works, but also the art in the kitchens. Not surprisingly, back in the late 1970s, Philip had also run one of New York's most trendy and not soon forgotten restaurants - Wise Maria in Soho. But it was in Philip's personal art - which he shared with all those dear to him - that he excelled in making his own statement about his vision, and the world around him. Philip was a master at constructing fine furniture and exquisite cabinets. But he was also a sculptor, painter, and overall creator. In his larger pieces, and later work, he paid homage to nature and her inherent shapes and colors, while striving to capture the fine architecture and nuance of the unique landscapes near his home in East Hampton. In that, he exceeded even his own ambitions. But it was his family and friends who gained the ultimate benefit, for they got to share in his work. Perhaps that is why he named his restaurant after Maria the Wise, who was a 15th Century alchemist. As an artist, Philip also collaborated, or created art and studio space for, among others, Robert Rauschenberg, Lucas Samaras, Robert Indiana, Claes Oldenburg and Mark Rothko in the 1960s and 1970s. Philip leaves behind his adored wife Mayda; his dear daughter Alexis; his brothers Peter, of Massachusetts; and Mark of Pennsylvania; and a sister, Carol, of Switzerland. In his final days, Philip was lovingly cared for by Catherine, Charmaine, and the other extremely professional and caring nurses from the Visiting Nurse Service of New York (VNSNY). A memorial event is planned for the spring. In lieu of flowers, Philip and Mayda asked that donations be made in his name to the Innocence Project.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by New York Times on Feb. 23, 2020.

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Carol Idone

February 17, 2024

Remembering is always a personal moment. I enjoy recalling the times in Philip's atelier sharing with him my response to his works in progress.
And now, how grateful I am that several of his works keep him present in my home. Carol, his sister

Daria Price

February 18, 2023

Miss you, Philip--say hello to Buck for me.

Carol Idone

February 17, 2023

The missing lessens as the memory of connecting deepens.

Carol Idone

February 17, 2023

Mayda Idone

February 15, 2023

Peaceful moment at Flaggy Hill Road

Mayda

February 17, 2021

Philip was my best friend, my loving husband, and a truly talented
Amazing Artist who loved his life. I miss Philip every day
In loving memory

Carol Idone

January 4, 2021

He was my (by 11 months) younger brother. We shared many very early childhood experiences until he caught up to his older male siblings and sought the adventures of his times. Eventually, he became for me an older brother who dared to experience the possibilities of those times. Definitely not always easy but provided the grit that made him an Artist.

An injured owl Phlip fell in love with in East Hampton

Daria Price

February 25, 2020

Philip has been one of my oldest and dearest friends. I miss him terribly already. The consolation is that the wonderful and uncompromising art he made over the years lives on and will hopefully find the wider recognition it deserves.

I have

February 23, 2020

I have very good memories. He is now in good company, but will surely be missed.

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