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DILLER--Phyllis. The Officers, Governors and Members of the Friars Club deeply mourn the loss of their esteemed member, Phyllis Diller. We extend our heartfelt sympathy to her family.

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Published by New York Times on Aug. 22, 2012.

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cloria smith

April 16, 2025

This woman is a Legend. She made my childhood bearable with her wit and humor. Love and Respect.

John

November 6, 2024

Thank you for entertaining us, beautiful woman and the laughter she brought to so many television sets is amazing, we are forever grateful for Phyllis Diller

Leslie Redaway

October 15, 2024

Rest In Heaven

Dean Wiegert

October 18, 2018

"Just A Sweet Lady She Was"

"Me,Myself,& I"

Dean Wiegert

October 18, 2018

Phyllis was my favorite comedian of all time. She inspired me to laugh and not dwell on the negative. She was a true friend,and I loved her. I remember when she entertained a college crowd at Wayne State College in Nebraska. I was in my Masters study at the time. I sent her a bouquet of flowers before her show and she was forever greatful,she been sent me a thakyou note. "What a trooper!"

MICHAEL GARRISON

October 2, 2018

What an amazing woman thank you for all your laughs you will never be forgotten

Peter Dallas

March 16, 2018

PETER DALLAS as. A Entertainer who creates life Recreations of the Stars Phyllis was one of the most outrageous and entertaining figure in the business she will be missed more than she ever would realize sincerely Peter Dallas

Jane Lee Holmes

February 4, 2018

Sincere condolences to the family of our wonderful Phyllis Diller. You've had to share her somewhat with the rest of us. When I was little, my mother said, "Come in here & see this woman on tv!" She was awesome! She means so very much to everyone who loves her; And, I think she's always known that! God bless you much..

Valenda Newell

June 28, 2016

MANY MANY BLESSINGS and PRAYERS TO FAMILY- PHYLLIS YOU ARE THE ORIGINAL--THANKS FOR SHARING ONE'S GIFT WITH THE WORLD

Allison Dupont

March 7, 2016

Amazing person. Never forgotten, Rest in Peace, sweet Angel.

Tonia Rudy

March 5, 2014

Your spirit continues in your movie's & shows. I will continue to enjoy them with laughter & Love as that is what you intended for us all. There will never be another Phyliss Diller. Loved you since I was just a little kid. The quirky way is what impressed me the most. Your contagious laugh. Now you can make God laugh!! Keep telling jokes & making people laugh. what you do best. Love always. Tonia R. Hatton, ND

Lisa Weiner

January 26, 2014

To Phyllis Diller,
I want to say that I thought you were a great comedian, you made me laugh. My prayers go to your family. Lisa Weiner

Barbara Grandi

July 4, 2013

To the family of Phyllis Diller May she rest in peace
Her talent will be missed God bless you, I just wanted to let you know.

June 11, 2013

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

March 8, 2013

God Bless You Phyllis Diller.
Thank You from one USO Volunteer to another....
You will never be forgotten. Thanks for the memories!!

You are missed.
Peace and Love from Tom & MAX The WonderDog

Stephen Ragan

March 6, 2013

You were the last of the greatest. I saw you at Harrah's Club in 1992. I laughed non-stop. I truly love you and will miss you as the special woman you were!

Richard Owen

March 3, 2013

Rest In Peace, Ms. Diller. We All Miss You. See You On The Other Side Some Beautiful Day.

ANTHONY CASHMERE

February 4, 2013

Dear Ms. Diller,
I met you once, at a performance in Houston Texas. You signed a picture of yourself, wishing me a Happy Birthday!! I laughed so hard at your performance, I couldnt breath. God Bless You, dear lady, and thankyou for making this dreary world, a lot brighter and bearable with your immense talents!!!
You will be missed.
To Perry Diller and family,
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers,

Anthony

With Love, Jack

Jack Mulder

January 2, 2013

A dear friend who will be missed by many.
RIP Madam! You were loved and will be missed by many!

Ruth Stowers

December 18, 2012

I just watched one of her and Bob Hope's movies... Boy, Did I Get a Wrong Number!...I grew up with such wonderful Comediennes as Ms. Diller, who truly was an angel. Her travel with the U.S.O. was an act of heroism in such a time...Miss her candidness and infectious laughter...Rest In Peace...See you on your return debut...

December 5, 2012

We miss you grandmother. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you. We love you.

Phyllis Holmes

October 31, 2012

I loved Ms. Diller, she made being named Phyllis cool. She also got me teased an awful lot. But even so, I still loved to watch her; listen to her laugh and check out her funky clothes. From one Phyllis to another, you will be sorely missed

Phyllis Holmes (Lorton, VA)

October 14, 2012

I absolutely adored Phyllis. Because of her, I found worth in my life; that I wasn't as a doormat and that my opinons mattered. I dressed as her for a skit at a bowling banquet
and it brought me out of my shell and because of that, I have had the most wonderful life for the past 40 years. Phyllis, thank you from the very bottom of my heart and may God bless and keep you.
Carole Waters (Monticello, Kentucky

Karen Piet

October 13, 2012

Two great commedians from the 20th century..I grew up watching you and Mr. Hope. May you rest in the arms of the Lord and probably have them laughing in heaven.

Regina Garrido

September 29, 2012

A great loss, she really was amazing.A heartfelt sympathy to her loved ones From Santiago Chile Regina Garrido

PHYLLIS YOU WILL BE MISSED .NEVER BE ANOTHER PHYLLIS MY GOD BLESS YOU.FROM KATHRYN BILLINGS

September 29, 2012

September 29, 2012

DEAR PHYLLIS YOU WILL BE MISSED .THEIR WILL NEVER BE ANYONE AS FUNNY AS YOU.WE LOVE YOU AND YOU WILL BE MISSED.FROM KATHRYN BILLINGS MAY YOU REST IN PEACE GOD BLESS YOU.

DIANE MARRONGELL

September 25, 2012

I WILL DEEPLY MISS YOU,ESPECIALLY WHEN I LOVED WATCHING YOU, IN THE BOLD N BEAUTIFUL EPISODES. YOU CRACK ME UP. YOU WILL BE MISSED BY EVERYBODY,SO REST IN PEACE.

Abby Flanders

September 23, 2012

You were an icon of humor for those of us who wanted a smile, but felt too uncomfortable with our mundane lives to seek out laughter.

September 19, 2012

Phyllis and Bob Hope, what a funny pair, miss them both a great deal. We are losing our greatest actors, comedians, etc that I have grown up with, it's sad.

Laura Foster

September 18, 2012

Remembering your great love story today and always.

Jacquie Hihn

September 17, 2012

I never missed a show or performance, you absolutely were the funniest person on this earth. You will be missed and loved forever.Jacquie and Elmo Hihn

Maria

September 17, 2012

My sincere condolence family to the Diller's family.May the comfort of God help you through this difficult time. Ms Diller will be missed. RIP

Mary Stokes

September 16, 2012

What can be said in a few words to say how you feel about this wonderful lady? I never had the honor of meeting her, but oh how I admired her. As I was growing up, I had very little joy in my life, but when I could watch Ms. D, without knowing it, she mad me smile, and brought me so much joy. I will forever be grateful to her for all the times she made me smile. I do want to say to her family, I am so sorry for your loss, and I do send my thoughts and prayers your way. Thank you for all the sacrifices you had to make so she could bring happiness to so many people. I will never forget her, she has indeed touched my life and made me smile more times than I can remember.
Mary Stokes, Chillicothe, OH

September 16, 2012

You were my silent comic hero

September 14, 2012

You'll always be a tuff act to follow. Thank you for opening the gates for all the female comics. You will be truly missed and always remembered. Gold Bless you and your family. Dawn Carr (Florida)

Heidi

September 13, 2012

Your an inspiration to women comics actors/acctresses and anyone who wants to succeed.

Heidi

Janette Miksik

September 12, 2012

Thank you for making us Laugh so load that we Wet our pants!! Keep them LAUGHING IN HEAVEN!!!

JONATHAN BECKMAN

September 11, 2012

OH BOY GOD TOOK A ANGLE...YOU WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERD BY ALL OF US...SLEEP WELL...GOD BLESS YOU

September 8, 2012

we light this candle for you Phillis. From Bill and April.

April Tollie

September 8, 2012

Thank you Phyllis for the laughter. May God bless,and comfort all of your friends and family. You will be missed, but not forgotten.

Bill Ledger

September 8, 2012

Thanks for the memories Phillis. you brought plenty of laughter into my life as a little boy. my boy hood friends and i thought your silly laughter was great. and times we saw you on a T.V. a show with Bob Hope, perfect couple for a good belly laugh :>) X10.
God Bless you and your loved ones may you rest in peace in the name of our lord Jesus Christ.

Phyllis Collins

September 5, 2012

My name is Phyllis as well..many times I have been called Phylis Diller. First saw her on Groucho Marx Show...very funny lady!!

joyce hardy

September 4, 2012

you will really be missed but as long as your movies are playimng you will still b in our heartys

September 3, 2012

RIP Phyllis Diller. She brought humor to this world in her own unique way. Thanks for all the laughs. She made Lima proud.

Gregory ingoe

September 3, 2012

Deepest condolences to all......

louella jackson

September 2, 2012

You made me laugh So many women can stand up and tell their story.

Annie Crenshaw

September 2, 2012

May God Bless and comfort each and everyone of the family as well ad friends of Ms. Diller in your time of bereavement. My prayers are with you as this beautiful comedian will be missed but never forgotten.
Annie Crenshaw and Shirley Washington, Texas

Matthew McGuire

September 2, 2012

Deepest condolences.

September 1, 2012

One of a kind.Truly talented lady. I remember watching her ever since I can remember. A great reminder that a comedian can be funny without swearing or being vulgar. They should learn from her. If you can't laugh at yourself who can you laugh at? RIP Phyllis. You will be missed. You left a terrific legacy.

August 31, 2012

for phillys you will always be rembered

August 31, 2012

brad bowman

Patricia Ward

August 31, 2012

Phyllis Diller, you will be dearly missed. I have to say you was the funniest woman that I watched on T.V. and then there was Lucille Ball. R.I.P. Your Family is and always will be in my Prayers. May God Bless You All and keep you safe.

LORRAINE DIANA

August 30, 2012

LIGHTING THIS CANDLE FOR A GREAT MEMORY OF A GREAT GAL...

LORRAINE DIANA

August 30, 2012

GREATLY ADMIRED & VERY FUNNY !!! YOU DID A REMERABLE JOB IN YOUR CAREER...95 IS A LONG LIFE & WISHED IT COULD HAVE BEEN LONGER FOR PEOPLE LIKE YOU...REST PEACEFULLY...GIORGIO & LORRAINE DIANA

Celinda Kerrood

August 30, 2012

Just found out, sad to hear,you were a great comic, you lived a long life, may you rest in peace

Mike Russell

August 30, 2012

What a Funny, Funny Lady! You will be remembered. Back with Fang.

Barbara Latham

August 30, 2012

Your laughter Will be remembered

August 30, 2012

You were great..my mom loved you..God Bless

Brenda Anderson

August 30, 2012

Rest in peace

August 29, 2012

You where one of a kind and will be sadly missed by all. My heart goes out to u and your family. Sleep restfully my dear lady.

Tanya Stuart

August 29, 2012

You were one of a kind! You made me laugh every time I saw you on TV
You will be missed dearly. Smile down upon us!
Bless your heart sweet lady!!!

joyce wells

August 28, 2012

Rest in peace Ms .Diller and may God bless your memory. Keep them laughing in heaven..

JANET BONANNO

August 28, 2012

Ms. Diller,one of the great comics of our times. Thanks for the memories. Your one of a kind. BLESSED BE SWEET LADY.

Ms. Robert

August 28, 2012

Oh, how you made us laugh! Keep the jokes coming in Heaven. Since I never saw you in person, maybe I'll meet you in the Holy Land. :)) d

DICK GANNETT

August 28, 2012

MAKING COMMERCIALS WITH YOU WAS A JOY & ONE OF THE HIGHLIGHTS OF MY ADVERTISING CAREER. YOU UNDERSTOOD GOOD HUMOR & THANKS TO YOUR QUICK WIT, MADE THE WORLD LAUGH LONG & LOUD & LOVE IT. RIP DEAR SWEET, FUNNY LADY.
DICK GANNETT

Terry Belk

August 28, 2012

You will be missed....& a piece of history goes with you..& love from all that grew up with you & their parents...thanks for all the laughs you gave my family ..

Ronald cassady

August 28, 2012

I grew up with you being apart of this farm boys life .thank you  for all the laughs. My you rest in peace

Denise McFaddan-Rojas

August 28, 2012

You will be missed for sure .... I used to listen to you and Bob Hope and many other special people while growing up .

Rest now and have a good laugh with Bob Hope and those that have passed on before you.....
Prayers to the family you left behind that God will comfort them each day...
Thank you Phyllis for all you have done in your wonderful life of "Laughter".... you will be remembered by so many.

doreen nemeth

August 28, 2012

Rest Phylis in Gods forever love, dear.....

Cynthia Taylor

August 28, 2012

Thank you for all the funny jokes and hours of laughter! May you rip Ms.Dillar

barb garber

August 27, 2012

Thankyou for all the good. Memories

Anthony Cashmere

August 27, 2012

Ms.Diller
The world is sadder without your laughter. A little darker place without your shining light!
Thank you for all the wonderful
memories you brought into my life!!!!
Rest In Peace

Anthony Cashmere

Mark Pentifallo

August 27, 2012

Another feminine icon off to see God, and boy,will she make the heavens laugh. You wil be missed by millions who grew up associating your name & face with miles of smiles. RIP sweet angel...

Chester Escoto

August 27, 2012

I was a little boy when I first saw you...and I loved your laugh the first of all! then, I loved your looks and then yur jokes! By brothers said to me that "you Phillis Diller and Pearl Bailey were my girlfriends!" I believe its true! Thanks for making us smile!

Yvonne S

August 27, 2012

Thank you for all the laughs. You will forever be remembered. RIP Mrs Diller

Carolyn Gagliarducci

August 27, 2012

May God Bless You Through His Golden Gates.

Sue Loughery

August 26, 2012

Your sweet smile and that catchy laugh will be the great reminder of the humor in the best form. You've left us laughing and at the SO's we shared tears. Thanks for being a part of my life.

Patricia Yeates

August 26, 2012

Remembering all of the laughs and your fancy GoGo boots. You will be truly missed. RIP and I know you will have God, and Jesus rolling with laughter. Thank You for the best entertainment.

beemer

August 26, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Thank you for the joy and laughter you brought into our lives.

Mark Ryan

August 26, 2012

She made comedy out of the absurdities of life without being rude, obnoxious or obscene. She demonstrated the art of comedy that is sadly lacking in "contemporary" humor. Thanks for the fifty years I've laughed with you.

Lisa Dornhecker

August 26, 2012

FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS!

Tracey Thibault

August 25, 2012

As a small girl I remember hearing my mother laugh a laugh I didn't hear often. as a grown up i understand now what she was laughing at.Phyllis Diller and Carol Burnett. Thanks for letting me hear an unnatural side of my mom.I was suppose to be in bed sleeping, but how, when my mom admitted peeing her pants with laughter. Say hi to my dad Mrs. Phyllis. thanks for all the wonderful childhood memories.

paul Robson

August 25, 2012

Sure are going to miss you

Cathy Cook

August 25, 2012

Thanks for the laughs Phyllis, I never missed an opportunity to hear your stand-up. You were so dear for making us all laugh, so how come I feel like crying right now? I'll miss you, see you when I get there.

Vicki Reid

August 25, 2012

I just love her and always have and always will ... she makes me laugh and makes me happy ... so long Phyllis time to make everyone in heaven happier too xo

V. Scott

August 25, 2012

We lost one of the funniest women in the entertainment world. I also grew up watching Phyllis Diller, and was fortunate to see her live at a USO Show with Bob Hope in Tripoli, Libya (Wheelus AFB) where my dad was stationed in the early 1960's. RIP Phyllis.

Rosemary Perez

August 25, 2012

Phyllis you brought joy to are heart you made us laugh and even cry you are a wonderful person. hhaaaaahahaha i will never forget that laugh you will always be remebered and truly miss:(

gregory bell

August 25, 2012

Well Done Good And Faithful Servant Well Done Come And Take Thy Rest Well Done Well Done you will be missed thank you to your Children for sharing your lovely Mother with the world she made the World laugh and the Star have Shined a Little Brighter for us while she was Here and Shined Little less Brighter with her Passing R.I.P Phyllis Diller.

Nina Gray

August 25, 2012

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

DIANE

August 25, 2012

WHAT A TERRIFIC COMEDIAN, SHE WAS THE VERY BEST. SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. WE LOST HER ALSO

cheryl martin

August 25, 2012

thanksphyllisformanylaughthroughthe years

T Y

August 25, 2012

Praying for your family. She is a beautiful person and will be missed by all. She made everyone smile and laugh. God bless you and your family.

Barbara Havlik

August 25, 2012

R.I.P. Phyllis, we will miss you terribly.

Wanda Henry

August 25, 2012

So sorry to hear of Phyllis Diller passing, she will be remember by all who loved her. To her family and friends May Jehovah [God] be with you all at this bereaved time.

J F

August 25, 2012

PRAYING FOR UR FAMILY...YOU MADE US LAUGH ALOTS...TY FOR THE MEMORIES

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