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RICHARD BOUCHER Obituary

BOUCHER--Ambassador Richard Alan. Ambassador Richard Alan Boucher, a seasoned American diplomat, devoted father and grandfather, and mentor of the next generation of diplomats, died on June 27 of cancer. Richard was a true citizen of the world--fluent in Mandarin Chinese and French, but also proficient in German, Italian, Russian, and Wolof (spoken in Senegal and Gambia). During his 32-year career in the foreign service, Richard rose to the highest rank of Career Ambassador and became the longest serving spokesperson in the history of the U.S. State Department, serving under Secretaries of State Baker, Eagleburger, Christopher, Albright, Powell, Rice and Clinton before retiring in 2009. Richard's parents, Melville Boucher and Ellen Kaufmann met at Camp Ritchie, Maryland, during WWII. Richard was born in Maryland in 1951 and spent his early childhood in France (in his own words, he "was virtually a little French boy"). He grew up in Rockville, Maryland; France; Germany; and hitchhiked around Europe before he attended and graduated from Tufts University in 1973. Enchanted by stories of his grandfather (Hiram Boucher, another career diplomat), he joined the Peace Corps, spending two years in Senegal and a year with USAID in Guinea before joining the State Department in 1977. Richard met Carolyn Brehm, an international business executive who shared his love of travel and adventure, at the Canton Trade Fair in Guangzhou in 1980. Richard and Carolyn's loving marriage produced two children, Madeleine Brehm Boucher (married to Lane Sell) in 1987 and Peter Brehm Boucher (married to Whitney Westmorland) in 1991. He was the doting grandfather of Harry Boucher Sell, born in 2020. He also leaves his siblings, Douglas and Anita Boucher. He served as U.S. Ambassador to Cyprus (1993-1996) and U.S. Consul General in Hong Kong (1996-1999). Richard left an indelible mark on the State Department; even sixteen years later, his tongue-in-cheek guidelines for public speaking are enshrined as Boucher's "Words of Wisdom." A dedicated public servant known for his quirky sense of humor and ability to connect with people, he was much beloved and deeply admired by the many employees with whom he worked. After leaving the foreign service, he returned to the France of his youth to serve as Deputy Secretary- General of the OECD. After eating his way through the restaurants, boulangeries, and fromageries of France, he moved back to the States in 2013 to become a visiting professor, working to inspire the next generation of diplomats at several universities. Richard spent his recent years traveling, playing with his beloved grandson, Harry, and reconnecting with nature. He traveled the world with his wife, friends, and family: scuba diving in Indonesia, chasing the Northern Lights into northern Canada and Iceland, and hiking and tracking animals through his 100 acres of West Virginian woods. A celebration of his life is being planned for the Fall--details to follow. In lieu of flowers, Richard's family suggests a donation in his memory to the University of New Haven Model UN Program, or the Cacapon and Lost Rivers Land Trust.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 1, 2025.

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Leslie Hoge

July 17, 2025

Carolyn, you may not remember me, but we went to public school in the 60s. I´m terribly sorry for your loss; Richard sounds like a very special and impressive man. Leslie Turner

Lewis Dale

July 4, 2025

Carolyn, I´m very sorry for your loss. What an impressive career Richard had - and a life well led.

Cecile Dela Cruz

July 1, 2025

Carolyn- We are so deeply saddened to the passing of Richard. Our Deepest Sympathy and Condolences to you, and the whole family. Sending love and prayers.
Cholin and Cecile Dela Cruz

Ruth Greenspan Bell

July 1, 2025

The Board of The Mountain Institute mourns the loss of our friend and fellow trustee. Serving with him gave us all a small hint of the value he brought in service to the State Department and through it to our country -- impeccable judgement delivered with humanity and humor. Our love and sympathy to Carolyn and the family.

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