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MOSS--Robert Joel. Our dear Bob left us peacefully on December 23rd at the age of 91. A man of intense intelligence and passion for life, he embraced the world as both a highly accomplished attorney and an intrepid adventurer. He cofounded the Manhattan employment law firm Moss & Boris, and was particularly proud of his work representing the Rhode Island State Troopers Association for over 50 years. Bob was known for his sharp mind and brilliance in business, and balanced his professional success with a love of family and an unmatched capacity for friendship. He was also an avid runner, covering miles of Central Park daily for over 40 years with the same tenacity he brought to all he did. He will be deeply missed by his beloved wife Diane, daughter and son-in-law Samantha and Boyd, and grandchildren Lila and Lou.

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Published by New York Times on Jan. 12, 2025.

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Louise shapiro

March 2, 2025

Dear Diane I was so sad to hear that Bob passed away I lost Marty a year and a half ago . I know how hard it is to lose your life´s partner. I have fond memories of all the good times the four of us had . We truly loved Bob . I´m sorry we lost contact with you. I wish you all the best at this difficult time Love Louise

Retired Lieutenant RI State Police

January 19, 2025

TO THE ROBERT MOSS FAMILY
The deepest sympathy to Diane Moss and Family. Members of the Rhode Island State Police will always be indebted for the efforts of Attorney Robert
Moss on our behalf. Robert was a true professional and a gentleman. My thoughts will be with him, may he rest in peace.

David M. Driscoll

January 17, 2025

Dear Diane and Samantha,

I met Bob the early portion of 1970 when I was President of the RI State Police F. O. P. Lodge #25. I along with others negotiated several contracts with Bob. Negotiations that over the years, brought the RI State Police out of the "dark ages".
We always had dedicated troopers who were deserving of the very best, it took Bob´s intellect, patience, and drive to let all Rhode Islanders realize how fortunate they were to have the RI State Police protecting them and their families. These traits which were hidden for too long, but were brought out with Bob´s excellent presentations.
I believe every person in life needs someone to talk to every now and then, Bob was my go to guy for many many years and he never let me down.
God bless you Bob, you will always be in my heart and thank you for all you did for the Rhode Island State Police Family.

Warmest Regards,
David M. Driscoll
R.I.S.P. Class of 1967 63-3
Past President and Treasurer of F.O.P. Lodge #25

Matthew C. Moynihan

January 15, 2025

Dear Diane and Family,

I wanted to extend my deepest condolences on Bob´s passing. He was a tremendous mentor to so many of us during his years working with the Rhode Island State Police. His impact on our lives and careers cannot be overstated.

Bob was not only a remarkable attorney and advocate but also the epitome of a gentleman. I often reflect on the many conversations we shared during contract negotiations, filled with wisdom, dedication, and, of course, laughter. He cared deeply for the members of the RISP, serving as our guardian and always guiding us to consider the bigger picture.

Bob´s legacy of professionalism, kindness, and unwavering support will remain with us forever. Please know that his influence extends far and wide, and he will always be remembered with gratitude and respect.

Thank you, Bob, for everything you did for us. Rest in peace-your legacy will carry on.

With sympathy,
Matthew C. Moynihan
RISP Class of '97

Lynn Boris

January 14, 2025

Dear Diane,Dick was with Bob for 54 years and loved him like a brother.After Dick passed,Bob was so kind and caring to me,calling me often to check up on my welfare.We had many a good laugh remembering funny stories from the early days of their law practice.I will miss him. He was a true gentleman.What a wonderful life he had and how blessed you were Diane,to have been able to share it with him.Please accept my sincerest condonences. Fondly,Lynn Boris

LYNN BORIS

January 14, 2025

Dearest Diane,As you know Dick was with Bob for 54 years and loved him like a brother.They shared many memorable times together.After Dick passed,Bob was so very kind and caring to me. He called me often to check up on me and make sure I was doing well.We laughed heartily remembering stories from the early days of their law practice.Bob was a true gentleman.I will miss him.What a wonderful life he had, and how blessed he was to have shared it with you ,Diane. With My Love,Lynn Boris

Billy Eckert

January 14, 2025

TO THE FAMILY OF ROBERT MOSS.
My sincere condolences to the family of Bob Moss. I had the pleasure of meeting and working with Bob in the early 1970´s while with the RI State Police. Just a true gentleman and professional. May he rest in peace and God bless.
Billy Eckert Retired Detective Lieutenant RI State Police.

Lynn Boris

January 14, 2025

Diane,Dick was Bob's partner for 54 years and loved him like a brother.After his passing,Bob was so kind and caring calling me often to see how I was doing and if he could he be of any help.His calls meant a great deal to me and his kindness,compassion and warmth were so appreciated.We had many hearty laughs remembering some stories from the early days in their law practice. You were blessed to have had Bob in your life.He was a true gentleman all the way. Please accept my sincerest condolonces. Lynn Boris

Joan Sacks

January 13, 2025

Bob was integral to my life for upwards of 55 years, and his absence will take time to absorb. Diane, Bob could not have had as happy a life without you, and Sam could not have had a more wonderful step-mom.
With love,
Joan

Gerard Donovan RISP,1972 Class

January 13, 2025

Bob guided us through some very dark times while representing the troopers of the RI State Police and we all should be very grateful. My prayers and condolences to his family and friends.

Richard Lemoi

January 12, 2025

I met Bob in 1971 when we formed the troopers association and started thr FOP lodge 25, he was a great man, Rest in peace
Bob you sure helped us out, o no

Major Anthony M. Pesare (ret.)

January 12, 2025

I first met Mr. Moss when I was a young trooper. All troopers respected him for his independence and legal expertise throughout my career. We always found comfort in knowing that Mr. Moss represented us. As a Major, I was part of the state's negotiation team, and Mr. Moss conducted himself with class and dignity. He was an unparalleled attorney.

Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. He was indeed one for the ages.

Ed Culhane

January 12, 2025

I was The RISP colonel who followed Col. Stone( one of Bob's negotiation adversaries) I had no previous history with Bob as I came from the NYSP as a newbie to the RISP. I met Bob at our first contract negotiation session. I found him to be a cordial, professional in every way.He treated me with courtesy and I did him likewise. I understood his position and I respected it and he did mine. We were able to work out differences as gentlemen and professionals. The Troopers could not have had a finer champion. I am sorry for your loss. He will be missed and long remembered.

Jim Beck

January 12, 2025

To Diane, and Samantha, and Bob's family. I first met Bob in 1971 when we first formed the troopers union. Words can't describe the work etchic and dedication he displayed in to the troopers, in words and deeds.He was definitely a Great man. RIP Bob, you deserve it.

Major Jim Rowley

January 12, 2025

To Diane and Samantha and Bob´s family:

I met Bob in 1980 when I became President of RI State Police FOP Lodge #25.
While I was in office, he guided us through the morass of negotiations and binding arbitration resulting in Blue Cross after retirement for all RI troopers! It still exists through today!
Bob always undercharged us for his services. He was truly our friend and not just an attorney!

God bless him!

Major Jim Rowley
RI State Police (ret.)

Colonel Steven G. O'Donnell

January 12, 2025

Please accept my sympathies and condolences for Bob's passing. I worked with Bob on Rhode Island Troopers Association contracts for many years. He was bright, engaging, and cared about his client. What struck me and others who served was Bob's passion for this agency's men and women. Rest in peace, my friend!

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