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SELMA WALTZER Obituary

WALTZER--Selma Sterler,

90, passed way on March 8th. The beloved wife of the late Jack A. Waltzer for more than 50 years, she was the loving mother of Dr. Wayne C. Waltzer, Paul B. Waltzer, Lori W. Bernstein and Alice S. Cohen. She also leaves behind her nine adored and adoring grandchildren and her dear sister Lillian Falk. Known for her exceptional hospitality and culinary skills, she was also a graduate of C.W. Post College, a hospital volunteer, an accomplished painter and sculptor and she performed as a cast member of the Gilbert and Sullivan Light Opera Company of Long Island. Her ever present positivity, warmth and loving spirit will be greatly missed. Contributions in her memory may be made to the American Heart Association.

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Published by New York Times on Mar. 10, 2015.

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Robert Sterler

March 4, 2025

Every time Halloween comes around I think of my dear sweet aunt Selma and her birthday.

Jill Kaufman

March 20, 2015

For Mrs. Waltzer... For all the Waltzers, Love from Jill Kaufman

Jill Kaufman

March 20, 2015

Alice, I just went looking for your contact information, and saw that your beautiful Mamma has died. I am so sorry for your loss. So many memories of your family and your house on Belmont Drive. And I leave you with one of both of your parents. It's dinner time. We are sitting down, and Jack says: "Selma, this is a beautiful piece of meat, a beautiful piece of meat." And she, in my memory, just smiled. Maybe beamed. They were both forces of nature and charasmatic. Love love, Your Jilly

Barbara Tal

March 14, 2015

To my Waltzer Cousins, Shalom,
Your Mom was a loving and warm auntie to me throughout my childhood and adult life. I remember that so well. I know that you will remember her always with the love and kindness of the wonderful Mom she was.
All my love, Barbara
Joel sends his heartfelt condolences as well.

March 12, 2015

To the entire Waltzer clan.. remember your loving mother with all the warmth and beauty that she embodied. She was a lovely and gracious woman who always treated me with sweetness. I send you all my warmest hugs and much much love. Michele and family

Phyllis Goodrich

March 11, 2015

My Dear Aunt Selma,
You were a great influence in my life. You were an example of what the higher calling of overwhelming beauty and great abundance could yield. Your heart and your family always came first. Personally, I received a gentleness and disciplined creativity that I was privileged to adopt. I love, admire and will miss you.
Foreverly,
Phyllis

Pam Falk

March 11, 2015

Sweet Aunt Selma, a true beauty inside and out. Your gorgeous smile and sparking eyes lit up the room - and all of our hearts. We love you warmly and dearly - may you rest in peace.

March 10, 2015

Darling Aunt Selma, rest in peace & thank you for bringing so much joy & love into the lives of so many of us who will forever love you. Always Diana

Robert Sterler

March 10, 2015

Dear Aunt Selma - you will be missed and loved always - Robert

Steven Falk

March 10, 2015

RIP Dear Aunt Selma, your good deeds, kindness, and many fond memories will live on in all of us. You were a truly sweet & good person. We love and will miss you. Condolences from all the Falk family.

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