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WEINER--Stephen A. Stephen A. Weiner of Sands Point, NY passed away on August 1, 2023. He was born in Brooklyn to Joseph and Ruth Lessall Weiner on November 20, 1933. Steve attended the Horace Mann School, and graduated summa cum laude from Harvard College and cum laude from Yale Law School where he was Comment Editor of the Law Journal. Following six months in the United States Army, he began a 64-year law career. Steve entered the firm of Winthrop, Stimson, Putnam and Roberts (WSPR) in 1958 and departed from 1965 to 1968 to be Acting Professor at the University of California School of Law in Berkeley, where he also served as Chairman of the campus-wide Student Conduct Committee. He returned to WSPR as a partner and in its successor firm Pillsbury Winthrop Shaw Pittman, serving as Vice-Chairman of the WSPR Management Committee 1984 - 1997, and senior counsel and member of the Professional Responsibility Committee from 2002 to 2022. Upon reaching senior status, he returned to teaching. He was Adjunct Professor of Law at Brooklyn School of Law from 2003 to 2022, Special Professor of Law at Hofstra School of Law 2008 - 2013, Adjunct Professor of Law at Benjamin N. Cardozo School of Law 2010 to 2022. He was proud of the high grades awarded him by his students, a number of whom he maintained contact with after they graduated. Since 1998, Steve held a number of Judicial Appointments by the Supreme Court State of New York First Department, including membership on the Committee on Character and Fitness and as Special Master where he mediated over 300 cases. In 1998 the Chief Judge of the State of New York appointed him to the New York State Judicial Institute on Professionalism. Steve also was as arbitrator for the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority (FINRA) and was a Fellow of the American College of Trial Lawyers. While Steve derived great satisfaction from his chosen profession, his greatest pleasure was being with his devoted family - his wife, of 65 years, Mina (Rieur), their daughter Karen Goss and her husband Charles, their son James Weiner and his wife Amy; grandchildren Jessica Goss Tuorto and her husband Rich, Derek Goss, Griffin Weiner, Payton Weiner, and an extended family of in-laws, nieces, nephews and cousins. He was predeceased by his sister Elizabeth Vorenberg and his son Paul. Steve truly enjoyed his home, a wide circle of friends, traveling here and abroad, New York Times crossword puzzles and a weekly tennis game in which he participated until last year. A celebration of life will be held in October. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Port Washington Community Chest. [email protected]

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Published by New York Times on Aug. 6, 2023.

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Eleanor and Bob Juceam

November 7, 2024

Missing Steve's wisdom and energy; and his devotion to family. May he RIP.

Eleanor and Bob Juceam

Gabriel "Vince" Tese

December 13, 2023

I had Professor Weiner for Complex Civil Litigation at Brooklyn Law. He was a brilliant attorney and a truly great man who cared dearly for his family and often spoke fondly of them. I was fortunate to know that I wanted to be a litigator and Professor Weiner helped me get my first job in litigation at Deloitte LLP under a former associate of his in 2008 when the legal market was terrible. I really wish I had reached out sooner to let him know how he impacted me and helped me to follow my dream and become a successful litigator. I hope I can help others like he helped me.

Jack Levin

August 23, 2023

I had the pleasure of meeting Steve as an adversary in a very hard fought mergers and acquisitions battle in the mid-1980s. It was so intense that I had to testify about the matter, and Steve was my inquisitor. Out of that experience grew our friendship, which continued for many years. He was a gentleman and a mensch and a great lawyer. I miss him.

Sutton Keany

August 17, 2023

Steve was the first "young partner" to interview me when I was seeking to be hired as an associate by WSP&R in 1970; I had been with a firm in Puerto Rico since my graduation in 1966. He opened the interview by stating that he had significant reservations about hiring lawyers other than from law schools or judicial chambers. Direct, clear and crisp. Happily, Steve graciously overcame his doubts and let me slip by. I had many occasions to work under his guidance: always supportive, always scary bright, always sharply focused on the matter before us. As a law partner, he was always collegial, always generous in sharing his views, always a massive resource for his partners. I feel a certain gratitude I had an opportunity to cross paths with Steve.

Carrie Varrone

August 12, 2023

Dear Jess and family, I just found out about your beloved grandfather. Michael and I are very sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful man that touched many lives. I´m sure your family was very proud of him. Carrie and Michael

Ralph Noveck

August 8, 2023

Dear Mina - I was so sorry to read Steve's obituary. I remember those times we spent together so fondly, from that first meeting in Acapulco on our honeymoons to the tennis games in Westport and Sands Point and Steve's unfailing sense of humor. With most heartfelt condolences, Ralph

Martin Ozer

August 7, 2023

I met Stephen in the US Army after we both completed law school. Although we have not been in touch, I have followed his career with great admiration. My condolences

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