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Stuart Kellogg Obituary
Stuart Kellogg, of Apple Valley, California, 63, beloved partner, brother, uncle, writer, artist, bibliophile, and rights advocate, died August 3, 2011.
He is survived by Fernando Torres, his partner of 26 years; his sister, Nancy Lightbody, and his brother, David; his nieces, Anne and Lisa Lightbody; and his nephews, Matt and Ben Kellogg. He was the son of the late George Dwight Kellogg, Jr., and Wynne Krementz Kellogg. Stuart was a cum laude graduate of Groton School and Yale College.
He was managing editor of The Journal of Homosexuality and editor of The Advocate, the human rights magazine, in the early 1980s.
In 1986, Stuart joined the Daily Press, where he worked until 2007. As a features writer, he wrote "A Dry Heat," a column about the extraordinary stories of the people of the High Desert.
He edited the books "Literary Visions of Homosexuality" and, with Hunter Lewis, "The Essence of Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics." He recently completed, with Sarah Baxter, his first novel, "Clarissa, or the Fun of Reading Other People's Mail."
There will be a celebration of Stuart's life at St. Timothy's Episcopal Church on St. Timothy Road in Apple Valley on Saturday, August 27th, at 11am. A reception will follow the service.
Donations in Stuart's name may be made to the Visiting Nurse Association of the Inland Counties, 12421 Hesperia Road, Suite 11, Victorville CA 92395, or the Transition Habitat Conservancy, P.O. Box 720026, Pinon Hills CA 92372.
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Memories and Condolences
for Stuart Kellogg
Freddie Bercovitz
August 25, 2020
Stuart gave me great confidence in my ability to write. He was very encouraging to a new writer.
Emily Sachs
August 29, 2011
Fernando: I am so very sorry for your loss. Though I was only worked with you both for a few months, you and Stuart left an enormous impression on me. You made a wonderful team together and made the Daily Press so much more welcoming as a result. Stuart was a tireless writer and tenacious about details. I'm sure he brought every ounce of that to battling his illness, as well. All my best.
Dani Fox
August 23, 2011
Stuart changed my life when he took notice of a poem I once wrote in high school and he interviewed me for his column when I thought my writing had no promise. I am thankful for having had the opportunity to encounter his warm soul.
Judy Jordan
August 18, 2011
What an incredible man! We loved his column in the paper. The first time he mentioned my name, I was so excited. His intelligence was astounding. Fernando, I'm so sorry. He will be missed by all.
Karen Yosten
August 18, 2011
Stuart made this world a better place. We are all better people for have knowing him.
August 18, 2011
Stuart was my fellow features writer partner at the Daily Press, a dear friend, and collaborator on our novel, "Clarissa, Or the Joy of Reading Other People's Mail." An extraordinary man, to say the least. We will never see his like again. Sarah Crowley Baxter, Lewistown, MT.
August 18, 2011
Stuart was my fellow features writer partner at the Daily Press, a dear friend, and collaborator on our novel, "Clarissa, Or the Joy of Reading Other People's Mail." An extraordinary man, to say the least. We will never see his like again. Sarah Crowley Baxter, Lewistown, MT
Karen Yosten
August 17, 2011
Stuart, you were the kindest, most loving and smartest man I've ever known. I feel so honored that your last words to me were "I love you." I love you too. Take care of Wyatt for me till I get there.
Peggy Watts
August 16, 2011
He was one of a kind. Wonderful, wonderful wit with a depth of understanding. Can't wait to read the great american novel
Patty Sprague
August 16, 2011
Stuart was a true gentleman! What a loving man and dear friend. We will miss you and your keen wit as well as your staunch support and many kindnesses. May perpetual light shine upon you. We know the angels are singing!
Our love and prayers for Fernando, your family and all your extended "chosen" family. May you be blessed with strength and the knowledge that many are praying for you at this time.
God Bless! Love, Patty, Steve, Katie & Courtney
Mary Lightbody
August 16, 2011
I met Stuart only a few times, when his sister married my brother John; his wit and way with words portrayed a caring man, who will be missed by all who knew him better than I, but also by those of us with a thinner thread of connection. My heart goes out to Fernando Torres, and to Nancy and David and their families, but also to the Apple Valley community. He made a difference, and will be long remembered.
Lora and Dave Chittenden
August 15, 2011
Dave and I were so sorry about Stuart's passing. We know how very dear he was and to this day miss his column in the paper. His way with words is rare in today's world and will always be remembered. Reading "A Dry Heat" always put me in a good mood! It was always fun to run into Fernando and Stuart in Phelan and brightened our day. Our deepest condolences on his passing.
Dave and Lora Chittenden
Kathleen Graciolett
August 15, 2011
A dear man with much feeling and care for all who had the privilege to know and work with him. He always had time for a chat with his wonderful smile and laugh (his laugh is something I will always remember). Stuart was my "go-to" "wordsmith" when I'd get stuck and without fail he always knew just what I was looking for..........Stuart left a definite mark in the high desert. For those of us who knew him personally we will think of him often as we gaze across the desert and see the Joshua Trees he loved. Rest well Stuart.
Bea
August 15, 2011
I count myself as blessed for having known Stuart. He was one of the few people who truly made this world a kinder, funnier, better place. Our loss is heaven's gain. Love to his family and especially his partner, Fernando Torres.
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