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TOEPFER--Susan J., Mother of Kate and Nick, and wife of Lorenzo Carcaterra, died on Christmas Eve after a long battle with lung cancer. Susan was a passionate reader, lover of theater and film, and devoted mother, wife, and friend. Her great love of art, life, and entertainment drove Susan as she rose through the ranks of the New York Daily News and People Magazine before founding her own publication, Quick & Simple Magazine, through Hearst. She later returned to her roots as the Entertainment Editor for More Magazine. She once wrote, "waitress money in pocket, typewriter in hand, I came to New York from Ohio to make my living as a writer." More than that, she lived a life rich in love, laughter, friendship, and new experiences. Everyone who knew her was better for it, and she will live on remembered by those who loved her most.

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 29, 2013.

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Julie Sanders

January 8, 2014

I first met Susan when I was a teenager in the '70s and she worked with my father, Jack Sanders, at The Daily News. She was the hippest, coolest person I'd ever met and I wanted to be just like her. She befriended me, kindly taking me with her to rock concerts and letting me stay with her in the city. When she and Lorenzo married, I was in the wedding and my dad gave her away.

We've lost touch over the last ten years or so and I was shocked today to discover her passing. She was a wonderful friend to our family and someone I always admired. I just wanted to express my grief at hearing this sad news.

Warm wishes from Julie and Louise Sanders to Lorenzo, Kate and Nick—we are so sorry for your loss.

January 1, 2014

I knew Sue for some 24 years but was not close to her at all. Knew her family much better, she seemed to be a very nice person. Her husband Lorenzo was always comical in discussion. I wish him and the children blessed memories of their mother.

terrie m. williams

January 1, 2014

One of the MOST special, genuine, loving, caring spirits on the planet..blessed to have called her a friend. will miss her gentle soul in the natural for ever forever. she has a special place in my heart.

Vicky Mary

December 30, 2013

It was wonderful having Susan as a good friend in high school in Cincinnati. We were nerdy together, reciting Shakespeare and being in the Book Club. But her innate wit and good nature let her transcend into adulthood and achieve so much. Including her wonderful family of whom she bragged in her letters. Peace be upon you, Susan.

Mary Reinholz

December 29, 2013

Susan was creative and funny and always helpful to writers, including this one. She had a shrewd understanding of people and the very tough business in which she attained much deserved success.

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