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Sylvia Matthew Obituary

1931 - 2020
A life so beautifully lived deserves to be beautifully remembered. Please join us to mourn the passing of Sylvia Yvonne Coakley Matthew (89). The oldest child of Wilfred Stanley Sr. & Naomi Merle Coakley of Lewis Street (both deceased), Sylvia was born in Nassau, Bahamas on January 14th, 1931.

From early on, she showed academic promise and excelled in school. After high school graduation, Sylvia then enrolled in The Bahamas Teacher's College to pursue a career as an educator. Sylvia then set the pace for the rest of her siblings when she left The Bahamas to enroll in Fisk University in Nashville, Tennessee. There, she pursued a Bachelor's Degree in Humanities and involved herself in the life of the university. She was a member of the Fisk University Choir and pledged in her beloved Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated, in which she remained an active member of this Sorority right up to her death.

She furthered her education by obtaining three Masters in education and library science and spent a year and a half at Brooklyn Law School. Sylvia spent her entire professional life as an educator in the NYC Public School System, in which she combined her love of teaching and sharing knowledge with her students. Over the course of her career, Sylvia served as the school librarian at Junior High Schools 35 and 57 in Brooklyn. In July 1996, Sylvia retired as a senior librarian from John Dewey High School after decades of dedicated service.

Post-retirement, Sylvia founded the Friday Night Book Club which met each month to read and discuss the book chosen for that month. She enjoyed it tremendously and in this way, she continued her love affair with books right up to the end of her life.

In addition to her activity in Delta Sigma Theta, Sylvia was a devoted member of her community and church. She attended the Union United Methodist Church in Brooklyn where she was a faithful and active member for more than 60 years. Sylvia brought each of her children a saving faith in Jesus Christ. She also served as a Member of the Board of Trustees, including serving a term as Chair. She led the United Methodist Women for nearly a decade, served as Superintendent of the Sunday School, and even after she retired from that position, she continued to teach a Sunday School class right up to the time of her death.

She is predeceased by her husband Dr. Robert Matthew, and Siblings: Alma Cartwright and Wilfred Coakley Jr.
She is survived by her children: Mr. Daniel (Deirdre) Matthew, Dr. Allan (Maxine) Matthew and Robin Matthew, Esq.
Grandchildren: Sumari & Juanita Matthew and Alana & Faith Matthew
Sisters & Brothers: Hyacinth Saunders-Burnside, Dorothy Coakley, Marina Sands, Dr. John (Tordis) Coakley, Wyatt Johnson, Stephen (Irene-deceased) Coakley, Ellen (Brian) Serville, and Hubert Sands.
Nieces and nephews. Grand nieces and nephews and many other relatives and friends.

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Published by New York Times from Apr. 24 to Apr. 25, 2020.

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Marie Lee

April 18, 2025

You were such a phenomenon trail blazer. A great leader, especially with the United Women in Faith. You are truly missed at Union United Methodist Church. I pray your soul continue to rest in peace.

Towana Scott

April 18, 2021

I have been BLESSED to have known such a beautiful person.❤ GOD BLESS HER SOUL and continue to uplift her family! I LOVE YA'LL! ❤

Sandra Bright

May 3, 2020

Mrs. Matthew was such an elegant woman. I met her when I was first hired as a school librarian in CSD 16, she was always professionally encouraging! May she Rest In Peace.

Valaria Murria

April 30, 2020

God bless you. SIP. Condolences to the family.

Christina and Wayne Russell

April 30, 2020

Take your well deserved rest Aunt Syl❤ Danny, Allan and Robin deepest condolences from Wayne III and me.

Carlette Jameson

April 30, 2020

Alannah and I are keeping your family lifted up in Prayer. Stay encouraged and let God continue to comfort you.

Tonce Cutler

April 30, 2020

To the Matthew`s Family our prayes are with you.

Tonce Cutler

April 30, 2020

May lord bless you and your Family.

Delores Phillips

April 30, 2020

I will miss our intuitive and worldly conversations surrounding travel. It is a comfort knowing, Sylvia was and will always be shining light looking down upon us all.

With Deepest Condolences,
Delores Phillips

Kevin Middleton

April 30, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Pamaler Wright

April 30, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dorothy Nash

April 29, 2020

Sylvia touched the hearts and minds of all that knew her. May the joyous memories bring you comfort during this time.

With Sympathy,
Dorothy Nash

April 29, 2020

I will miss our insightful conversations regarding travel and worldly affairs. Sylvia was a great woman and will be truly missed and always remembered.

With Heartfelt Condolences,
Delores Phillips

Towana Family

April 29, 2020

Ms. Matthew was a BEAUTIFUL spirit ❤. I've always admired her elegance and grace from the time we were introduced. I'm sending my deepest heartfelt condolences to Maxine, Allan, Alana, Faith and the entire Matthew family. GOD BLESS YOU ALL. BIG BIG HUGS. ❤

June Mulvaney

April 29, 2020

Rest in peace Sylvia. I miss you very very much

As you, I stay in the CENTER of things which are lovely AND of good report. We were both honoreg guests at Olivette's daughter's FAMILY Wedding...

Joseph Taylor

April 28, 2020

May Your Soul Rest In Peace, Dear Long-Time Family-Friend.

Olivette Taylor

April 28, 2020

Let There Be Light... Our Beloved Sylvia Coakley Matthew's Enlightening and Illuminating Light Springs ETERNAL. LOVE & LIGHT!

In light of this significant time and paradigm shift, my attire honor the dignity your livestreamed Celebration of Life dictates ~ Hat, Gloves, PEARLS

Olivette Taylor

April 28, 2020

BLESSED are we who mourn, for we are comforted ~ recognizing the divine "intergenerational" impartational and inspirational gifting of you, Cousin Sylvia!

As you enter the enfolding embrace of the Heavenly Realm's PEARLY GATES of JUBILEE with your lovely smile, let it be affirmed, acclaimed and proclaimed unto others, that I, my newly-wed daughter and late mother recognized that you were (and shall forever be) an invaluable irridescent "Pearl of Great Price"!

A Virtuous LADY OF SUBSTANCE. A Lady Petite in Height and TALL IN STATURE. A Lady of INTELLECT and INTEGRITY.

On behalf of my late Mother, Gwendolyn (nee Pinder) Taylor and our family (both here and abroad ), dearly beloved SYLVIA COAKLEY MATTHEW, in honor of our shared lineage and legacy, you remain FOREVER CHERISHED, FOREVER LOVED.

I love, adored and admired you. LOVE IS THE TIE THAT FOREVER BINDS. Olivette

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Lillian Morrison

April 27, 2020

A true friend and she will be greatly missed. I will always be thankful for the time we spent together watching "MSNBC", I would ask if that was the only channel she could get, she said NO, but it's the only one I like to watch. I loved her dearly, she will always have a special place in my heart. Rest my friend in the Saviors Arm.

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Willie family

April 26, 2020

Aunt Syl, you are with your Lord and Savior, passed from this life into eternal joy and peace! We take comfort in that. John 3:16

Wendy Thompson

April 26, 2020

Aunt Syl, Im so thankful that you were in my life. Thank you so much for all of the love and support and just for being there. Ill miss you always...

Beverley Kirby

April 26, 2020

May you rest in peace , and thanks for all the knowledge and encouragement you gave to me about the UMW.,

Marina Coakley -Sands

April 26, 2020

Sylvia was the eldest of nine living children. She took that distinction seriously and was most loving and attentive to the needs of her younger siblings. She excelled in school activities as well as extra curricular and she never wavered from her strong belief in her God and her family values. She was a loving and dedicated Mother and Grandmother who instilled in her children sound Christian values. She will be sorely missed by her immediate and extended families. May God have mercy on her dear soul.

Rosita

April 25, 2020

My condolences fellow Fiskite family

Richard & Marie Lee

April 25, 2020

It is with profound sadness Marie and I Express our condolences and our heartfelt sympathy to the Matthew family in the loss of their love one, Sylvia Matthew.
Words are inadequate right now to Express how we feel about this phenomenal woman, a woman of God who loved her church, her community, and most of all children.
She was a kind, gentle and caring woman who was very sympathetic and courageous as well.
We will truly miss her.

Dont think of her as gone away,
Her journey's yet begun,
Life holds so many facets,
This earth is only one.

Just think of her as resting,
From the sorrows and the tears,
In a place of warmth and comfort,
Where there are no days and years.

And think of her as living,
In the hearts of those she touched,
For nothing loved is ever lost,
And she was loved so very much.

ALLAN MATTHEW

April 24, 2020

To the best Mom, your middle child, could have ever hoped to be blessed with. Take you rest, we loved you dearly but God loved you best.

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