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THOMAS GIMBEL Obituary

GIMBEL--Thomas S. T., Jr.

Educator, Author, Disability Pioneer, 1985 - 2016. Son of Thomas S. T. Gimbel and Lesley B. Gimbel of Glen Cove, NY and brother of Peter B. Gimbel, Lesley B. Gimbel and Hope K. Gimbel. He died Thursday, July 14, of heart failure associated with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy. Thomas "Tommy" was a graduate of the Portledge School, 2003; Brown University, B.A., 2007; Harvard University, M.A., 2009; and, NYU, M.A., 2012 having concentrated on religious studies and comparative religion. He published the book "God's Words in Human Voices" in 2007, writing by blowing Morse Code through a straw- like tube attached to his computer. His yet to be published autobiography, "Muscleman," is in its last editing stages. Tommy was a faculty member at Portledge School in Locust Valley, NY, and a revered teacher of both modern and ancient languages. He was a director of Youth Ministry at St. John's of Lattingtown Episcopal Church, a teacher of Adult Bible Studies, and he gave several sermons. He was a recently ordained Christian Minister. Earlier in his life, Tommy and his brother Peter, were featured on the MDA Labor Day telethon. Tommy spoke at certain conferences for the Parent Project including internationally. While he still had use of his arms, he was a painter and cartoonist. Later, he used the internet to tutor students and compete at chess. Tommy Gimbel was an example of "can do" optimism even with very limited physical capabilities, in a wheel chair and requiring full-time breathing assistance from a ventilator machine. He had clarity of vision and purpose and an aura of welcoming kindness to everyone. His soft spoken wisdom from personal experience and Christian philosophy delivered with a sense of humor drew and inspired people. Many have reported that his observations and appreciation of life's gifts changed their lives forever. Contributions in Tommy's memory may be made to: St. John's of Lattingtown / Memory of Tommy, 325 Lattingtown Rd., Locust Valley, NY 11560.

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Published by New York Times on Jul. 24, 2016.

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Susan Livingston

August 22, 2016

We were saddened by this news. Prayers and love to you all!
Susan and Henry Livingston

Ethan, Sutton, and Heather Hinckley

July 31, 2016

Thank you to all for being such an inspiration and leader in the fight to cure muscular dystrophy. Your family is it true gift to everyone that you touched. We pray that each of you find comfort in each others company and warmth in your memories through such a sad time. You've shared amazing wisdom with us which is still invaluable many decades later. Please know your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Heather And Andrew Prine

July 25, 2016

What A Marvel ! So Inspirational ❤

Brian Principe

July 25, 2016

Please accept our condolences. I was news that has saddened us all.
The Principe Family

July 25, 2016

May the God of all comfort give you the strength and ability to endure the difficult days and weeks ahead. John 17:3

Commanderie de Bordeaux

July 25, 2016

Dear Tom and Lesley,
We learned with great sadness of the passing of your son, Tommy. We can only imagine how deeply his departure will impact you and how great the absence of such a talented and accomplished young man will be. We send you our deepest and heartfelt sympathies.

Donald Zilkha, on behalf of the Commanderie de Bordeaux de New York

Beth Horn

July 24, 2016

Alex Horn and family send love and condolences to Tommy's family. We miss him tremendously. We'll always hold a deep appreciation for his optimism, intelligence, warmth, and humor. He'll always be Alex's greatest mentor and dearest friend.

Tommy and Alex Horn at Portledge 2016 Prom

Horn Beth & David

July 24, 2016

July 24, 2016

My condolences to Thomas' family. May the God of comfort be with you all in your time of need.

July 24, 2016

In memory of the courageous and gifted son, Tommy, of old friends, Lesley and Tom Gimbel. I am sure his Maker will embrace him with pride.
With condolences for his loved ones.
Jim Marlas

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