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T.J. DUNPHY Obituary

DUNPHY--T.J. Dermot. T.J. Dermot Dunphy, of Far Hills, NJ, an innovative executive and philanthropist passed away on Monday, December 6, 2021 at Morristown Medical Center in Morristown, NJ. He was 89. Dermot was somewhat of a corporate maverick who, as CEO of Sealed Air Corporation from 1971 to 2000, was hailed by many as "a shareholder champion." During his tenure, Dermot popped a lot of stereotypical bubbles. There were no golden parachutes, poison pills, or shark repellants, no staggered board terms, no employment contracts for top management, and no executive jets or first- class flights. From the beginning, he felt that values and attitudes such as respect for the individual, honesty, and fair dealing were the building blocks of a well-functioning company. As he often said, "virtue is a competitive advantage." His philosophy was affirmed when Investor's Business Daily reported the value of Sealed Air stock appreciated 32,000% during Dermot's tenure, exceeding that of any other manufacturing company, in that 30-year period. His high school years in London were notable for Dermot's skill at rugby and a summer job doing manual labor. The latter resulted in a life-long appreciation for the challenge of physical labor and the satisfaction that comes from a job well done. Dermot went on to study law at Oxford University where he had a chance to meet some visiting Harvard Law students. From them he learned about business schools, which didn't yet exist in Europe. Having already figured out that he didn't want to be a lawyer, Dermot decided that going to business school was an opportunity meant for him. Showing early confidence and determination, Dermot applied to all sixty of the business schools in America, a mammoth task before the age of computers and printers. Harvard was the only school to offer a full scholarship -- what they called a "moral loan," no interest, no legal obligation, just an understanding that he would pay it back when he was able. Dermot never forgot this and paid his debt to Harvard many times over by funding a fellowship for minority students at Harvard Business School and two chairs, one at HBS and the other at Harvard's Divinity School. Following his first year of business school, Dermot and another HBS foreign student traveled the U.S., reasoning that visiting forty states and meeting people from all walks of life was more valuable than three months as a company intern. This adventure, the civil rights battles of the 1960's, and especially the assassinations of Martin Luther King and Robert Kennedy had a profound effect on Dermot which solidified his desire to help disadvantaged people not just by donating money, but by sharing his skills, knowledge, and business experiences. So, in 1969, Dermot co-founded the Volunteer Consulting Group whose goal was to link minority entrepreneurs with experienced executives who could provide crucial management assistance. The venture was such a success that it was an example cited by Time Magazine in its cover story, "The Do Gooders" on the emergence of the new American Samaritans. Several years later, Dermot, his wife Joan, and some Sealed Air employees adopted the sixth-grade class of an inner-city school in Paterson, New Jersey. The group promised that they would help the class through high school and on to college. The program achieved much better than average high school graduation and college acceptance rates. Dermot thought it inherently unfair that America's inner-city poor paid more and got worse quality food than their fellow citizens living in the suburbs. Addressing that problem, he funded the start-up and operation of a first-class supermarket in a part of Jersey City where no supermarket chain was willing to operate. Unfortunately, Dermot and his partner knew nothing about the supermarket business. The venture operated at a loss until 2004 when they essentially donated the business to a Cuban family with a successful record in supermarket operations. Happily, the new owners made the store profitable, and it became the anchor to a shopping center, a successful example of inner-city economic development. For Dermot it was in his words a business failure for him, but more importantly an economic and philanthropic success. As Sealed Air's sales, earnings and share prices increased, Dermot was recruited to serve on the boards of several publicly traded companies. These included PSE&G, Loctite, United Jersey Bank (ultimately acquired by Fleet Boston Bank), Rockaway Corporation and Formica. After retirement, Dermot founded Kildare Enterprises, a small private equity firm that looked to acquire and grow small to medium-sized privately held companies. Unlike most private equity firms, Kildare has used only pledged capital from Dermot and some of his friends, and not institutional funds. This allowed Kildare to take the time it needed to implement its own investment and management processes. As Dermot said, "I really enjoyed what I did at Sealed Air, and with Kildare. I have tried to build some little Sealed Airs." Dermot was born in Dublin, Ireland in 1932, the oldest of Philip and Marian Moore Dunphy's two children. Except for the war years, he spent his childhood in England. His father's decision to go to England as a very young man was a fascinating example to Dermot of the need to sometimes seize an opportunity despite the negatives. Dermot was blessed with much good fortune, especially his marriage in 1974 to Joan, "the love of his life", who in Dermot's words inscribed on her tombstone, "went to heaven" in October 2015. He also leaves to mourn his passing and celebrate his spirit, his wonderful children; Deirdre Dunphy and Madeleine Dunphy, children of his first marriage to Claire Richmond, and Siobhan Dunphy Rommel, a child of Joan and Dermot. Sadly, another much loved daughter of Joan and Dermot, Shannon Ramos died in 2013. Dermot is also survived by his terrific grandchildren -- Lucy, Quinn, Joana, and Sofia, and by his nephews and his stepchildren, with all of whom he had a close and loving relationship. Dermot made the most of his moment on earth. He will be greatly missed by his family and friends. When he was honored with the Harvard Business School's Alumni Achievement Award in 2001, he was aptly described as "a distinctive personality -- an unusual package combining intelligence, modesty, humor, and above all a deep humanity and regard for people as unique individuals." A Funeral Mass will be held at St. Elizabeth Church, 34 Peapack Road, Far Hills, NJ on Friday, December 10 at 11am, followed by burial at Holy Cross Cemetery, Basking Ridge, NJ. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the charity of your choice, in Dermot's memory. Services were made by Layton Funeral Home, 475 Main Street, Bedminster, NJ.

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Published by New York Times on Dec. 9, 2021.

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David Lawson

December 19, 2021

I first met Dermot in the mid 1980s . I was a young investment analyst doing research on Sealed Air. I was so fortunate to be able to interview him and he was so gracious with his time. In my 40 years in the investment business I have never met any company executive who gave me such a high level of confidence in their ability to operate their business for all stakeholders: shareholders, employees, suppliers, and the communities they operated in. Dermot is the definition of Leadership. My sympathies to his family and friends.

Karl Zimmer III

December 18, 2021

I am saddened to hear of Dermot´s passing. He was my champion during a challenging time, and I valued our friendship and his guidance. We served on a Board together and visited each other´s companies and shared experiences to help our organizations grow and be more successful. He was an exceptional person, a visionary leader, and a pioneer in business strategy. He will be missed.

Rick Zielinski

December 14, 2021

After I joined the company in Danbury in 1987 as a mere lab technician, Dermot made it a point to welcome me aboard personally when he visited us. I will never forget his crazy plaid pants at the Christmas party every year. A fine, polite gentleman, and I'm sorry for the family's loss.

James (Chip) Carroll

December 14, 2021

My deepest sympathies to Dermot's family and friends. This world has lost a man that we need today. A brilliant man filled with compassion for others. I always looked to him as a mentor and had the privilege to work with him on both the "I have A Dream" mentor program and opening the store in Jersey City.

I will greatly miss him!

Tom Gersey

December 13, 2021

I joined Instapak in 1974 and had the pleasure of meeting Dermot shortly after we were acquired by Sealed Air later that decade. My relationship with SAC lasted an improbable 40 years. He was an incredible businessman while always nurturing a kindred spirit. What a wonderful human being to know and learn from. So many owe so much to Dermot for how he improved the human condition. Whether it was a business situation or a community service project he always left it better than he found it. Thank you for what you did for me and for my family. Job well done young man, job well done.

Joe Reeder

December 13, 2021

I joined Sealed Air in 1980, Iremember Demot as a great leader that cared greatly about not just the company but the employees on the front lines.

Ross Morrison

December 11, 2021

My sincere condolences. I worked for Dermott for 14 years as President of Sealed Air Canada (1979-1993)and my respect and admiration for him was without equal. He was a wonderful and inspiring teacher and at the end of the day there was no one better to share a cocktail with and to enjoy his marvellous sense of humour. He will be missed.

Billy Liles

December 11, 2021

Dermot allow us to have a worship service before a national meeting and I had the privilege of preaching. It was a thrill for me that he really enjoyed the service.

The Gavagan Family

December 10, 2021

What an amazing and humble man. Lucky to have known him though for a very short time. Always cheerful, and seemed to live a happy life. Well done you good & faithful. God's speed.

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