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David Keen Obituary
David Jack Keen, 30, passed away unexpectedly Feb. 25, 2006.
Born in Akron, David lived in Ellet his whole life and graduated from Ellet High School in 1993, where he was a member of the Marching, Concert, and Jazz Band, and won the Louie Armstrong Award. He was owner of Percussion Specialist for the last five years and taught percussion at Brecksville Broadview Heights, Ellet, Wadsworth, and Copley High Schools, and at Woodsy's Music Store in Kent. He was a well-known musician and was a drummer for Waterband, a local group.
Preceded in death by his Grandpa and Grandma Keen, he is survived by his wife of 5½; years, Tonya Keen; mother, Pamela Keen; father, Jack Keen; father-in-law and mother-in-law, Nicholas and Brenda Triola; sister, Brittany (Josh) Logan; grandparents, Marge and Harold Stone; brother-in-law, Nicholas (April) Triola; and many friends and family members.
Funeral service Wednesday, 11 a.m., at Suffield United Church of Christ, 1115 State Route 43, Suffield, with Rev. Earl F. Roberts officiating. Burial at Restland Cemetery in Brimfield. Friends may call at Hopkins Lawver Funeral Home, 547 Canton Rd., Akron, Tuesday, 2 to 8 p.m., and one hour prior to service time Wednesday at the church. Memorials may be made to the family in care of the funeral home.
(Hopkins Lawver, Akron, 330-733-6271.)
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Blake.c.Logan
December 14, 2024
Hi uncle Dave I know I never met you but I would have loved to my mom(your sister) tells me all about you and says I'm a lot like you with my music taste and with my personality and my height haha but even tho I never met you I still miss you I've heard sooooo many stores about you like you and mom playing hockey you rolling down a hill and many more I'm playing drums and there's someone in my band that I think you would have loved I never met you but I get this strange feeling that someone's trying to watch out for us my mom said that you always wrote ur name out with ur first middle and last so I started to do it to my middle names a little longer so I just put C but I do it to honor your memory and I play drums because of you have helped me so much even tho your not her personality your here spiritually and I know you are because everything something happens that wasn't us mom always blames it on you and when she first said it I thought no way but over the years I have believe it more and more I like to think in every one of my concerts your right there sitting next to mom and grandma I love you uncle Dave.
Sincerely Blake.c. Logan
Rachel Kalizewski
February 22, 2022
16 years. I can´t believe it´s been that long. I have a daughter now. Even though she is young, she would have loved you and you would have loved her. Recently I´ve thought about you a lot more and miss the advice you used to give me. I could use some of that right now. I know you are watching out for me and always have been. I wish this time of year could be easier. And there always seems to be something that happens which leads it to being harder. I miss you constantly, and wish you could be here to watch my daughter grow, but I know you are watching her too. Keep bringing those thunderstorms because I always know it is you up there
Kaydence Triola (your niece)
August 6, 2021
Hi uncle Dave! I never got to met you but my aunt Tonya tells me you would have loved me. I love music too. I'm in choirs and am learning guitar. Classic rock is my favorite. I wish we could have met. If I only got to talk to you for a minute it would make my life so much better.I was and still am scared of thunderstorms and when I was little everyone told me it was you playing the drums and I still believe that today! My mom (April) was pregnant with me when you passed. It's been 15 years. I think about the bond we could have had almost every single day. I can't wait to meet you one day and jam out with you. Although you don't know me, I love you Uncle Dave. I love you a lot.
Rachel Kalizewski
February 24, 2019
Dave, its been 13 years and I know you are up there still keeping an eye on me. I wish you could be here to meet my amazing husband. You would have loved him. I wish you could be here to see how my life has turned around and what I have been able to accomplish over the past year. I know you would be so proud, and would have told me. Keep looking out for us up in heaven! I hope they have all the drum sets and percussion instruments your heart desires. I love you and still miss you! ❤
Joanne Beshara
July 13, 2017
Happy Birthday Dave
Donny
February 25, 2017
I miss you everyday brother. Vaya con dios my friend.
February 26, 2016
10 years have past, but you will always be remembered. Love and fond memories.
The Beshara Family
Rachel
February 25, 2016
10 years later and your death has still impacts me; in good and in sad ways. I wish you could be here so I could call you and tell you all the wonderful things I have accomplished this past year and someone to talk to through the bad times. But you already know all of it, I just miss your voice and laughter. I love and miss you Dave. No one compares to you!
Bobby Kalas
September 7, 2015
Dave I can't believe it's been this long. I was just thinking I have now surpassed how old you were when you were with us. And how if you were here you would rub every old man joke right in my face. Not having you here has really rocked my world still to this day. Which only means you did so much for me. I love you, I miss you.
Tracy Smuts
February 25, 2015
Remembering a great man who impacted the lives of so many of his students. Dave Keen, you are missed and remembered. Never to be forgotten. I am a better person, a better parent because you were and always will be my friend. Do what you love, love what you do. Always.
Pam Keen
April 2, 2014
4-2-14 WOW it has been so long in some ways and so short in others. I DO MISS YOU SO! I have found this person and I would like nothing more than for you to know him and him to know you. Funny but his name is David or did you already know that. Of corse you do. I have really for what I think is the first time in my life fallen in love. It has not filled the hole you left but has helped may it easier. Keep watching over us all. LOVE YOU MOM
Paul Bromall
July 15, 2012
Happy Late Birthday Dave!!!! It's been over 6 years now and I still think about you everyday! I lost another great friend te day before your birthday and thought of how much this will hurt again.... I wish I could just come sit on the porch and drink a red stripe with ya and tell ya about all my thoughts..... You knew him, he was Mikey Lindsay from Blossom..... Well when you see Mikey tell him we all miss him for us and make sure he knows to watch out for you when your on stage! I miss you do much man someday we will meet again! Oh I forgot to tell you, I met an amazing girl I love very much, her name is Samantha and I'm sure you'd love her! She takes care of me and finally I have a feeling that has helped fill some voids in my life..... I'm engaged man! Never thought that would happen again but this is it! I'm going to ask Tonya if we can dance to your song Wonderful at our wedding! I hope you be proud of me at the man I've grown up to be.... I haven't always done or said the right things and god knows I'm sry but I can't change the past. Well luv you brother, ttyl!
February 27, 2012
To My dear son, This past week was harder than I thought it was going to be. Having all the dates match up just made it feel like 6 years ago. I do get the little signs you send to let us know you are watching over us, and they mean the world to us, but it still is not you. Nothing will ever be you, and nothing will ever be the same. I miss you and love you sooo. Mom
Donny Rogers
February 7, 2012
Hey Brother! It's going to be 6 years since we've been separated and I still miss you so very much! I miss that you haven't gotten to meet my little girl, Pamela, and that our kids (that I'm sure you and T would've had by now) don't get to play together while we hang out. This past Sunday the sermon was on friendship and the Pastor talked about how having a "true" freindship with someone you can completely be yourself with is one of the rarest things you could have in this life. I feel we really had that type of frienship and not having it has truly left a hole in my life. I just wanted to tell you that man and that not a day goes by that I don't think about you and about how much I miss that type of friendship. How I took it for granted. Still Love and Miss you brother! "PEACE"
D
Traci Anter
January 13, 2012
To Pam, Tonya, and the entire Keen Family, I know it has been more than 5 years since Dave passed, but I hope you know you are still in our hearts and prayers. Out of the sadness of losing Dave comes the joy of witnessing how much of him remains with our children. They carry him in their hearts, wear his name or quotes on their bodies, and sing, write and live the things he shared with them. I hope it gives you comfort to know he Dave lives on in soooo many ways and so many lives. God's peace to your darkest hours, and God's blessing to you for sharing such an amazing man with all of us!
Brittany Logan
July 22, 2011
Looks like no one wrote to you on your birthday this year. Sorry I'm so late. You would have been 36 this year. I miss you so very much. My David just turned 5 yesterday. He is so much like you. He asks about you and wants to listen to your music all of the time. He has gotten pretty good at the drums too. You'd be proud. Hopefully one day he can drum on your set. I love you.
Jimmy Popadak
February 26, 2011
?"Do what you love, love what you do"
You will always be in our memories, our hearts, and everywhere around us. It hurts so much that you have been gone for so long; yet we still thrive on your existence in us. We miss you everyday and wish we could just turn back time. I only knew you for two years, and you changed the way I think, do, and say. I love you Dave, and will never forget that day.
July 14, 2010
Happy 35th. Birthday Day Dave!
The Beshara Family
Rachel Mazzola
June 24, 2010
I am just writing because I was reading over all the comments on the page and thought that so many people loved Dave. It has been 4 years and to this day I still think of Dave. He was and still is one of my heroes in my life. Everyday it is hard for me not to think about calling him to tell him something good that has happened in my life. My lessons and drumline were the best things I had in high school. I still have dreams of memories and conversations me and Dave used to have. He gave me so much to live by in my life and I try my hardest everyday to follow them. I became a stronger person because of him and I miss him terribly. Dave you were the greatest teacher I ever had and no one ever topped that. I love you and miss you everyday of my life. Thank you so much for all you gave me and I hope you are rocking up in heaven with that big smile on your face :)
Pam Keen
July 14, 2009
Well My son another birthday has passed. No change in how much I miss you or the loss I feel. There are still so meny changes that cut directly to your loss. I continue to feel loss not only through you but through others that say they are not but are. Your death changed some people to the core without them seeing it. To loose ones self is almost as bad as your death. I am trying very hard to not let that happen to me, but I must admit it is hard work. Little David continues to show so meny of your traits. He says you come to visit him. I hope that is true he needs you as we all do. Love Mom
July 13, 2009
Happy 34th. Birthday Dave!
Love,
The Beshara Family
Pamela Keen
July 13, 2008
My Dearest Son,
Here we are again a 3rd birthday without you. I keep thinking this is some how going to get easier but it does not. I miss you more than I could ever put into words. Maybe this year was hard because this is the day of the week you were born on. Tonya put some plants from your yard by your headstone. I know how much you loved the home the two of you shared so I know this makes you happy. I know what your thinking if only we could control grandmas fake flower collection. I know to her it is showing her love for you so untill she is gone or can't go to your grave anymore I guess we will have to live with it. Her and grandpa take good care of your grave. Making sure it is always neat and trimmed. My heart is still not whole and I guess it will not be till I see you again. Love Mom
Beshara
July 13, 2008
Happy 33rd. Birthday Dave!
Love,
The Beshara Family
Colleen Weiler
February 27, 2008
I wonder if you know how many times you appear in my dreams. I can't tell you how much I miss you right now; how much drumline and just knowing you did for me. Adam and I talk about you all the time. He wrote a story inspired by you and I wish we could have shown you that calculator program made based on all of your famous quotes. The absurd amounts of snow outside remind me of that show where we had to load the truck in socks or barefeet because everything was so chaotic. I still remember how wonderfully the parents rushed to try to get us warm and taken care of. I just put pictures of drumline in my photo album and am realizing that it was one of the few good things about high school. We all miss you. Times are rough, but I'm trying to remember how much you believed in me...even when no one else did. <3 always
Pamela Keen
February 25, 2008
MY DEAREST SON, I have just completed the 2nd year without you. The people you loved most all got together yesterday and we had dinner. It was nice to be with everyone. This past week for some reason seemed sooo much sader. Maybe because the world just keeps on going on like you were never here. You were so important to so meny and made a difference in so meny peoples lives, something that not every person is able to do. Thank-you for all you gave me, your love,your attention, and most of all your smile. That smile always made my world feel safe, something I have not felt in 2 years. I miss you more than any words could explain. Love always Mom
Dave Dippong
July 14, 2007
Happy belated birthday i worked late last night so i couldn't leave a message but i just want you to know everyone is doing good and we miss you so keep watchin over us.
Brittany Logan (Keen)
July 14, 2007
Well, your second birthday not here has come and gone, and now my son is going to turn one. I still can't believe that I will never see you with him. And I hate that he is going to turn 1 without you. I hate that he was born without you. I miss you so much. And I love you more than you'll ever know. Or maybe you do know. I know that I will see you again someday, but that day is no where near soon enough. I wish that you were here. I wish I could call you. I wish that my phone would ring and it'd be you asking for a hair cut. Well, I just wanted to tell you that I love you and miss you. And Happy 32nd birthday. You were and always will be the best brother anyone could ever ask for and I love you so very much.
Beshara
July 13, 2007
Happy 32th. Birthday Dave!
Love,
The Beshara Family
Pam Keen
July 13, 2007
This is you seond birhday that you are not with me. I miss you sooo much. I am with Brit Josh and the baby today in hopes of making this day better. But really the only thing to make this better would be to have you with us. So much of this still seems so unreal and I wonder if it will ever change. I look at little Dave and see so much of you in him. The boys are getting together to do something special today . Well baby I love you as much as ever and miss you the same. Love you Mom
Theresa Rousculp (Daugherty)
March 1, 2007
It has been over a year since Dave's passing. I think of him often, and of Tonya and Pam too. I have many fond memories of the Ellet Marching Band so you will always be in my heart. I will continue to pray for you all. I know time doesn't make this go away but hopefully your memories will give your comfort.
Pam Keen
February 24, 2007
My Dearest Son, In 2 1/2 hours you will have been gone for a year. I hate so much of this life anymore. I miss you so much. You would be so proud your kids did so well in their compition tonight, but I know you were watching. Know you are always in my heart. Love You Mom
Nikki Hobbs (Crady)
November 29, 2006
To tonya and family,
I just now found out about Dave, I've been in Germany. I am so sorry for your loss he was a wonderful man. I only met you a couple times before you were even dating. I am so so sorry my deepest sympathies for you all.
August 16, 2006
To my son, Today is my birthday I miss you as much as I did on the day you left us. Nothing means the same anymore . We have a new David in our lives a new blessing. Brit is making a wonderful mom & I know she knows the love you can have for a child. Watch over us always Love mom
Joanne Beshara
July 13, 2006
Dear Tonya, Pam, Britt, & Josh,
Thinking of all of you today. We know today would have been Dave's 31st. birthday. He is always in our thoughts.
Happy Birthday Dave............
Peace and Love to all,
The Beshara Family
Tom, Joanne, & Andrew
Brecksville Broadview Heights Drumline
John Crandell
July 11, 2006
Tonya, Pam, and Britt,
I know this is going to be a really hard week. Not a day goes by that I don't think about and miss Dave. I know his birthday is in 2 days and I miss him terribly. He wasn't just a friend. He wasn't just a great teacher and drummer. He wasn't just a great husband, son, and brother. He was also my brother and in many ways my soul companion (sorry you had to share Tonya). I miss being able to call him up and share anything with him. Even the stupidest of stories. This year has been unbelievably difficult and every time I think I am ok I get another wave of emotions. I think I need a Klenex dispenser for my car. I just wanted you all to know that I am thinking of you and that you are not alone.
Peace brother. I am looking forward to seeing you soon.
Love,
John
Fry Family - Cpt. Michael, Constance, Jeffrey & Kimberley
April 18, 2006
To Tonya and Pam, No words can describe how quiet this world now how has become...but heaven is full of sounds fromt he grand drummer and friend most of us has come to know him. He always knew when someone needed a whole in the heart healed and always new what to say. But now he swisper in all our ears...just what he would say. I am honored to have known such a noble person...who gave all he could to make this world a more beautiful place and because of you ladies we wouldn't have got to know him or seen him smile. May you both know he will never leave me heart or please know I will always be thinking of the two of you and your families. Love to all of you, Constance (Jefferys) Fry
Myrtle
April 8, 2006
There will be a benefit concert in Dave Keen's honor April 22 4p-8p at Ellet High School....309 Woolf Ave., Akron, OH. Tickets will be $10 and all proceeds will be given to Tonya. Please pass this information on.
Thank you.
Crystal & Barry Greathouse, Ann Gallagher, Glenn Colbetzer, Liz Goforth
April 6, 2006
Tonya, Pam and Brittany....We just want you to know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Take care,
Ronnie Kenndey
March 20, 2006
Tonya,
Angie and I want you to know that we are consantly praying for you and hope that God will give you peace. We couldn't even begin to imagine the pain and hurt you are going through, but please always know that we are here for you, in anything we can do to help, whether it be a shoulder to lean on, or to lend an extra ear to talk to. We are here always. We love you. We didn't have the pleasure of really getting to know Dave, but every time we did see him, he always had a big smile that could warm anyones heart. He truely will be missed by all who knew him.
With love,
Ronnie & Angie Kennedy
Steve Mautz
March 18, 2006
This is what Dave is to me... He's one of the best drummers I have ever heard and played with and one of the best friends I have ever had. He will always be with us and we will always be with him. We will see each other again but until then, always cherish your friends and family everyday.
Brittany Logan
March 7, 2006
Where to start....My brother was the greatest man that I know. My whole life he was either protecting me, raising me, or just loving me. I couldn't have asked for a better brother. This whole thing still doesn't seem real. Everytime I think about never seeing him again I wish that someone would tell me that it was all a big mistake and that he's ok. I just wish with all of my heart that I had more time. More time to tell him how much he means to me, more time to listen to his stories, and more time to laugh with him.
Mom, I wish so much that I could make our pain go away, or that I could bring him back because I don't know how to be without him. But I know I can't and that this is just something that we have to get used to. You keep saying that we'll get through this and I know you're right, it just seems so impossible. Anyway, I just want you to know that I love you and that you are the best mom. I know Dave and I weren't always the best people to live with, but in the end, we both love you with all of our hearts and that will never change. I'm just so thankful that you and I have become the good friends that we have. I don't know what I would do without you.
Tonya, you are the best sister in law that I could have ever asked for. I'm so glad that you and David finally found your way to each other, and I know that he loved you with all that he was. I just want you to know that you're my sister no matter what and I love you. Nothing will ever change that. Thank you for making my brother as happy as you did.
John, Donny, Glenn, Adam, and Paul, My mom, Tonya and I are so thankful for all of you and for all that you've done. You are my brothers and I love ya.
Dave, I'm going to miss you so very much, you're beautiful smile, those big blue eyes, that sense of humor that always made me laugh, and the hugs that always made me feel better. I hope that I can be half the person that you were, and I hope that I can make you proud. I love you David.
MANDY BRAMER MONEYPENNY
March 7, 2006
PAM AND FAMILY MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYER ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS. MAY THE GREAT MEMORIES HELP YOU THROUGH THIS VERY DIFFICULT TIME.
michelle thompson
March 5, 2006
Pam,what can one say? I'm sending my deepest sympathy to you and the family. I was so shocked upon hearing this news. One thing I will keep close to my heart is the childhood memories I shared with David. He will never be forgotten. God bless him and love him forever. Michelle Bramer/Thompson
Dave's Mom
March 5, 2006
To our Friends, To just say friends seems so understated after the past week. All the love and caring that was shared with us was truely overwhelming and wonderful. I never knew pain could be so physical till last week. I am very blessed that the relationship I had with Dave was so wonderful and grew with every sinlge day. He was always opening doors wanting to take in everything that was new or different, even if it turned out to be something he didn't enjoy he would see the good parts of it. I am very blessed that he loved to share everything with me, never ended a conversation without saying I Love You.
To Tonya
My son loved you with all his being. You made him complete. No mother could ask for more for her child. That kind of love can never leave nor be taken away. Know I love you as do Brit and Josh .
To My Boys
I Know you are here for Tonya, Myself, and Brit, and I will admit I am counting on you. Dave and I would often talk about how small our blood family was but how big are chosen family was. I love you boys and I know that you were hand picked by Dave.
To My Son.
My heart is so broken at thie time I am unsure of what to do next, but I know I must keep going forward. I know what you would expect from me and I am trying very hard to do this. Keep holding our hands through this please.....Love You Mom.
diann davis
March 4, 2006
Pam and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I was shocked and saddened at this news.
March 3, 2006
Mrs. Keen - Our heart pour out for you in this time of sorrow. You and your family will be in our prayers. We are sure Mr. Keen will be watching over you and will be next to you always. God bless - Shaun, Frances, Derrick, Justyce, Shaun, Patience, & Terrance Smith
Nick Triola
March 3, 2006
To my daughter, and the Keen family, Words can not begin to express the sorrow I feel. When Tonya, and Dave became husband and wife, I didn't loose a daughter, but gained a son. David, and I shared many great times these past five and a half years, and I only wish I more time time to tell him what a great addition he was to our family, and to thank him being a great husband to Tonya. My life has been forever enriched by knowing him, and I will miss him forever.
My prayers for Tonya, Pam, Brit, Granma, and Grampa, that GOD will bless you, and grant you peace will go on for the rest of my life.
GOD speed David until we meet again.
Brenda Triola
March 3, 2006
When someone like Dave touches your life, and becomes not only your son-in-law, but a true friend, you never expect to have to say good bye. There will always be an empty place at our table, and a hole in my heart. HE ALWAYS BROUGHT LAUGHTER INTO OUR HOME, by always finding something funny about every situation. His smiles, laughter, and love will always be missed.
Tonya Keen
March 3, 2006
Dear friends and family,
You outpouring of love, compassion and support has been totally amazing. A simple thank you does not seem to be enough but it is all I know to say.
There is one word I want every one to think of when they think of my husband and that word is: GREAT.
He was a great son, grandson, brother, cousin and nephew.
He was a great friend.
He was a great teacher.
He had great passion and love for others.
He was a great musician.
Above all else, to me he was a great husband and my best friend. He was my love and my life. He touched my life in a way that I will never be the same with out him. He will be greatly missed by all who new him.
To David,
All my love, all my life.
Your loving wife,
Tonya
Becky Bunce Deeken
March 3, 2006
Tonya, childhood is so far away now, and yet your pain is with me and my thoughts are of you. I am truly sorry to hear of your loss. May you find peace and comfort in your family and those around you. many sypathies, Becky
Ryan Perry
March 2, 2006
To Daves family, I know what the expereince is like. I lost my father on October/29/05, and I think about him everyday. It isn't easy, but he is stil here. Whenever you feel a chill on your skin, or hear a song that is related directly to him, it IS Dave.
From one fan to another...
Dave, Dream Theater Rules
Adam Smith
March 2, 2006
Good bye to my best friend.
To someone who was more like a brother than a friend. I don't even know where to start. You can see how long it took me to be able to even write anything. You made me promice a while ago that if anything ever were to happen to you that I would watch over evryone, you know damn well I will. I have reminded them of this alot! You have touhed so many lives, that was obvios just looking around the funeral home and church. All the high school young adults that were there loved you so much. I hope you know what a diffrence you made in their lives.
To Tanya, Britt and Pam I don't think their is anything I can say that I havent already said. You have alot of Sons and brothers watching !!!Know that I love you all very much and will be with all of you forever.
Go Browns!!!!!!
PEACE MAN!!!!!!!!!!
Chris Petrasek Kat Ikerd
March 1, 2006
As two of the many folk who have had the opportunity to see Dave at his finest, our thoughts are with Dave's family and friends. We knew him not only as a wonderful drummer, but as a sincere, kind soul.
Mike Shaub
March 1, 2006
To all the Keen Family,
Dave Impacted my life, and the lives of everyone around him. He inspired me not only in music, but in life. He tought me not to sweat the small stuff, and to charish every moment. I have so many found memories of Dave, i could go on forever! Dave always had a way to get things done, and make you smile at the same time. Dave is also the reason that the Ellet drumline is, was, and will always be sucessful. I love you Dave, and will miss u greatly!
Mary & Lance Pearce and family
March 1, 2006
Dear Tonya and all family:
Truthfully, there are no words at a time like this.
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that even though I have not kept in touch since the "PWLC" days, I am only an email or phone call away. If you need anything at all. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much Love,
Joanne Yarnall
March 1, 2006
Tonya and family,
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. You are in my prayers at this most difficult time.
Joanne Yarnall
Christopher and Carla Sunyak
March 1, 2006
Tonya,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Nathan Tice
March 1, 2006
Tonya,Pam,And Family. My deepest sympathy at this time. I will always look back on the time i spent with dave. I will and do miss him. Love to you all
Benjamin Czarnota
March 1, 2006
Dear Keen Family,
You will all be in my prayers in the coming times. It was an honor to know, write songs with, and perform with Dave. He was a wonderful man. May God grant him eternal rest.
With my deepest sympathy,
Benjamin
Shelley Sparhawk(Buchs)
March 1, 2006
Dear Tonya,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am honored to have known Dave all these years. From the younger years at Windemere, to Halloween parties, to the Blossom Music Center days(and backstage gossip), to seeing Last Call, and finally at the class reunion where we were able to catch up one more time. It seems like you guys were always around. I will cherish those memories always....
Danny Soulier
March 1, 2006
My deepest sympathies go out to your family. I hope you find comfort in this difficult time. I spent a good hour talking with Dave the night before his passing. He was such a good guy, busy doing the things he loves and enjoying every minute of it. He taught me some great lessons during the short time I've know him.
Alan, Karen, Corey & Rhiannon Stambaugh
March 1, 2006
To Dave's family: we were shocked and sadden to hear about Dave. Our thoughts and prayers are with all. I'm sure he is auditioning for the rock and roll band in heaven.
Renee Meyers
March 1, 2006
Dear Keen family,
I feel blessed to have known him. He was such in inspiration to so many kids. And was such a great man.
I will never forget the jokes that made us laugh so hard during a day of "band camp" fun. I was always so impressed how those kids looked up to him and did so well for him.
He will always be remembered.
Sincerely,
glen byler
March 1, 2006
Very few times in my life have I ever been close to speechless. . . and when I got the call Saturday morning from Adam, until this very moment. . . Tuesday night (or Wednesday morning if you will) after your calling hours, I have yet to find the words to describe what we all lost.
I hate the fact that adulthood often means growing up and further away from your friends. Jobs, mortgages, children, responsibilities all too often rob us of the simple things, including friendships, that bring us the greatest joy.
I hate the fact that I will never again pick up my cell phone to hear Dave's voice at the other end.
I hate the fact our last Brown's game together turned out to be a Christmas Eve Massacre!
I hate the fact that dreams and goals held by Ma Keen and Brittany and Tonya will never be met now that Dave has gone.
I hate the fact that all of us are left to wonder how this is fair, and how someone who gave so much and had so much more to offer can be taken from us in such a manner.
Despite all that, I love the fact that I had the chance to know Dave.
I love the fact that I could call him friend, and even more so, the fact that he called me a friend.
I love the fact, as brief as it was, his time with us has given us all precious memories to hold on to.
To Ma; As I hugged you tonight, you tried to console me and tell me it was going to be okay. You told me you needed to be their for your boys. As I told you then I'm telling you now, you did your job. Now, it's our turn to be their for you.
To Brittany; Dave was so much more than just a brother to you. As an only child I can only imagine the bond you two must have had. the love, the admiration, and let's not forget the aggravation! I know this time is difficult for you but I know you will make it through for several reasons. First of all, your complete stubborness! Even as we looked at the pictures tonight and you joked about how you would sit in the middle of his wrestling game so he couldn't play it because he wouldn't play it with you, I noticed the strength necessary to see you through this most trying of times.
Second, while Dave was taken away from you, I can see how much has been given to you in your husband. In just a few, brief conversations, I can see his love for you and determination to be your strength when you have none. As difficult as this will be, I'm confident you have someone that is more than able and willing to see you through.
To Tonya; There are few moments in my life that I can consider worse than seeing the pain on your face today. The pain and sorrow I felt these last few days pales in comparison to what you must endure.
As the days and months slowly pass, I hope you can begin to see how blessed you and Dave were to have each other, as brief as it may have been. May your mourning turn to fond rememberance as life's daily tasks throw little reminders your way. I pray for the day you can sigh and grin instead of cry at the thought of his smile, his unmistakable smirk and infectious laugh.
It's hard to see now, but I know you also have the stength. Who else could put up with sitting next to me in band for all those years? You have a wonderful family through both blood and marriage that won't let you face this alone.
I also pray the coming months will cause you to amend your definition of the word "friend". Forget what you know or think. May the love and support you are about to experience transcend anything you believed possible and lighten your burden more than imaginable.
As his wife, soulmate and best firend, there's no question you have faced the greatest loss. As your "friend", I hope you also realize, you've had the tremendous and absolute pleasure to share your life, and experience David in a way that none of us never will.
Your friend,
Glen
Ron Graham
March 1, 2006
Mr. & Mrs. Keen, Tonya Keen.
Dave will be missed. Dave and I marched together in the University of Akron's drumline. He was a very special person. I know he touched the lives of many of his students.
Laura Smuts
March 1, 2006
Dave was a wonderful teacher and a great friend i was with him this past saturday and all morning even though he wasn't feeling well... the drumline and our show was his main concern. i looked forward to lessons because it was the time i got to talk to dave with out any other distractions. it was the only 30 minutes every week where i was the one who had him to myself to talk with! he always wanted to know what was goin on in your life and how your day was, Dave was an all around amazing person you should be so greatful that you had him! i'm so sorry for your loss i can't fathom what you must be going through it is painful enough loosing such an amazing musician but i son, brother, or husband, i can't even imagine. In the little amount of time dave was with us he taught me so much and i am so greatful to have been blessed to have known him! He truely was one of a kind, Thank you for sharing him with us! My heart is with you these next few days and i am praying for you! just remember that dave loved you... and he left us doing what he loved the most.... teaching and playing percussion... thats all he could have asked for!!!
Much love in your time of great need!
-Laura-
Hanhold Family
March 1, 2006
Dear Keen Family,
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of Dave. He will be truly missed by all of us at Copley High School Marching Band. My son is a tuba player but everyone knew and admired Dave's talent with the drumline.
The Hanhold Family
Vince, Nina,
Michael, Brian and Stephen
Copley High School Marching Indians
David Dippong
February 28, 2006
I was lucky to know Dave as a teacher and a friend. I couldn't tell you how much he has impacted my life. He taught me to do my best and that even if i didn't know it I had great potential. He did what he loved and he helped each and every one he knew be great. He taught us to love what we did and I believe I am a much better person for have knowing him. I miss him and give you my deepest sympathies in this hard time. He had the spirit of a drummer that not only fueled him, but had also fueled every one around him. I know that most of my friends would never have gotten this far in drumming without him. His spirit lived in his drum and it lives within all of us. I hope I can inlfuence people someday in the way he influenced me. And I hope his legacy will live forever.
Chris & Jodi (Boring) Davies
February 28, 2006
Dear Keen Family:
You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this time. We have a lot of fond memories of Dave. He touched so many lives and he will be sadly missed by all.
Barbie Bomer
February 28, 2006
Dear Keen family,
I know I didn't know Dave personally all that well, but I did know of him well. He was one of Glen's (my Godbrother/Cousin) best friends. Which in turn makes him part of my extended family. He was a very talented and incredible person! He will be missed dearly. My heart and prayers are with all of you.
God Bless,
Karen Kyle
February 28, 2006
Pam and family,
I am so sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you and your entire family.
Joe Mueller
February 28, 2006
Dear Mrs.Keen and Tonya,
Dave was only my teacher for one year, but during that year he pushed me to be the best I could be.
Were lucky to have known Dave, and he will always be remembered by me and all of BBHHS drumline.
Roger & Donna King
February 28, 2006
Pam, We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers during this difficult time.
God Bless you all!
February 28, 2006
Mrs Keen & Family
We are so incredibly sorry for your loss. From what we have heard Dave had many passions...the drums, music, his students, his family and friends, but we know his true passion, and that was loving Tonya. The smile she has on her face when she talks of him LIGHTS up the room. I truly believe that they were made for eachother. Mrs Keen, we miss you and are always here for you. Your family will continue to be in our prayers, and we know that will be seeing that smile again soon because Dave will always be in our hearts.
Miss Koroshazi & Room 101
Jackie Lemmo
February 28, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Andy Huffman
February 28, 2006
Keen Family,
My deepest condolences go out to you. Dave was a great friend, even though I didnt know him for that long. He got me started teaching very early, and helped me get on the right track. He will be missed.
Kendra Grimes
February 28, 2006
I am so sorry to hear about Dave. What a great loss for so many people. I only spent a year as part of his perc line at Ellet, but I remember him as a wonderful teacher who had a great sense of humor -- and infinite patience for those of us who were never going to be "real" drummers. My heart goes out to his dear friends and family and to all the many students whose lives he touched.
Konnie McAllister
February 28, 2006
Tonya and Mrs Keen, Our heartfelt thoughts are with you. What a wonderful husband and son you have shared with everyone Daves life has touched. His sense of humor will be missed as much as his love of music and the kids whos lives he has changed forever. To see you all together at football games and drumline performances, it was easy to see the love you all share. It was an honor and privilege to experience Dave, the man, the teacher and kid in us all. In time I hope it will help you to know just what an influence he had on all whom he touched. Our prayers and thoughts will be with you for a lifetime. Joey, Konnie and Joe McAllister
Glenn Colbetzor
February 28, 2006
I still cannot believe it. I'll will truly miss him. His smile, his laugh, and his presence. He had a great love of life. He had an enormous influence on me, and brought out the best in me. The memories I have of Dave, behind his kit, at rehearsals, before and after gigs will always be among the best moments of my life. He loved what he did and it showed. Music, and the world, share in your loss. My thoughts are with you all.
The Eder Family-BBHHS Band Members
February 28, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Keen family today and in the difficult days ahead. We hope your memories of Dave will be of great comfort to you. His music will continue on...he will forever be in the hearts of the many people he taught and loved.
Julie Christensen
February 28, 2006
For the entire Keen family-
Dave's impact of complete dedication to all his percussion programs will be impossible to replace. I will certainly miss his enthusiasm while standing next to him on a practice field or up in a tower. Please take care! Many prayers of comfort.
Brook & Jeremy Farmer
February 28, 2006
Tonya and family- We are so deeply saddened by the loss of Dave. He was and forever will be a phenominal friend and musician. We cannot begin to feel your loss, but know that you and yours are in our thoughts and prayers always. May you find comfort in knowing that he is making beautiful music with the Lord. We love you sweetie!
Krysten Kaiser
February 28, 2006
Dave I couldn't even begin to thank you enough for everything that you have done for me. You were an amazing drummer/musician, and an even more amazing person. You'll be so greatly missed by everybody that you ever came in contact with. We love you!
Copley Music Boosters
February 28, 2006
Dear Keen Family,
The Copley Music Booster organization offers their deepest condolences to the entire Keen family.
Dave had a true gift and most importantly he shared that gift with every student he had the pleasure of teaching. His memory will live on through them.
John Crandell
February 28, 2006
Tonya, Pam, and Britt
You are all in my thoughts and prayers and you are not alone in grieving for Dave. You know that you are my family and that I loved David as if he was my brother. He was my best friend for over 16 years and I can’t imagine life without him there. We talked just about daily sharing funny stories, golfing, drinking, or playing play station games frequently until the wee hours of the morning (sorry Tonya). He was there through some of the most difficult times in my life and I for him. No one knew me quite like David did.
After training throughout the Midwest for the past 12 years I was looking forward to returning home for so many reasons. Family was the key to coming home, and David (and the Keens) are part of that family. Dave and I joked around and shared our hopes and dreams together including anything from owning a golf course some day, having Browns or Cavs season tickets together, or about having our kids play together.
I know that Dave didn’t always make things easy for the three of you over the years as he was prone to getting into little arguments and squabbles along the way as that was who Dave was (as Donny so eloquently described). But it was me who he talked to and confided in after those little “discussions” and at the bottom of it all was his immense and devoted love for all of you that stood out.
He was the friend and teacher to so many people and children. He brought light into a sometimes dark world just like his laugh would light up a room. He could tell the stupidest stories (usually involving us) over and over again and yet everyone would hinge on his every word as if it was breaking news. As painful as this is for the three of you, take solace in knowing that you are not and will not be alone in your grief. And for every time that we cry, just remember one of the funny stories involving Dave (and I know that there will be an abundance of those) for that is what he would want us to do. He would be the first to laugh about the stupid things we had done and the first to make a toast with a cold beer.
He will always be with us no matter where he goes.
Love,
John
Mary Shaub
February 28, 2006
Tonya, Pam, Brittney:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Dave had an impact on both Michael and Thomas. He gave Thomas the confidence he needed with the drums by having him come up from the middle school to play in the pit during marching season. I will never forget watching Dave teach Thomas the congas at band camp! We love you all and please know that we are there for you anytime you need us.
The Shaub family
Bob, Mary, Michael and Thomas
Terri Neff
February 28, 2006
Our hearts are broken, and we are so sorry for your loss. We have 3 sons who have been in the BBH marching bad; one of them, Eric, is currently on the drumline.
It was obvious at the High School Saturday what an INCREDIBLE difference Dave Keen made in the lives of these young people. The one word that we heard over and over that day was "love." He not only taught his craft, but he taught kids about the little things and the bigger things in life. He started every lesson by asking kids how their day was, and he connected with kids by showing them just how much he loved his work. Dave truly lived his philosophy of "do what you love and love what you do." What a GREAT example for our young people!!
Pam and Tonya, our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time. Please find solace in knowing that Dave's legacy lives on in the hearts and minds of the hundreds and hundreds of students Dave taught.
God bless you,
The Neff Family: Dan, Terri, Scott (BBH '04), Ryan (BBH '06) and Eric ("Bell Boy" drumline '05-'06)
Christopher Barbaro
February 28, 2006
We are very sorry for your loss. Allthough I did not know Dave very well as a person, I did know him through our passion for teaching...and drum-offs. Music always brings people together as a family and that includes creating brotherhoods between groups. Here at Amherst, we feel your pain.
Deb Drobnick
February 28, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. This vast circle of musical friends will get you thru this time
Chuck Wright
February 28, 2006
Tonya, and the Keen Family
My heart goes out to you in this time of need. Dave touched so many lives through his music and teaching young muscians how to love music. Dave was a very good friend, and I am so upset to hear of his lose. When heartache adn dispare occur, turn to god and trust in him
Crystal Claar (Compton)
February 28, 2006
Pam, Britany, and Tonya
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. David was a great guy, and a sweatheart. He'll be missed by all who loved and adored him. You're all in my thoughts and prayers.
Joann DuPree
February 28, 2006
Mrs. Keen,
I am sorry to hear about your loss. May you feel the warmth of God's arms encircling you and your family in his love.
Nicholas & April Triola
February 28, 2006
To our sister,
No words spoken or written will take away the pain. But we want you to know that when you need to lean you can always lean on us. Tonya, when you feel lonely, always know that we will be there with our arms wide open!
As I sit here all I can remember are wonderful things about Dave. After a big holiday dinner, with 6 of us sitting around the dining room table and Dave always had a joke or a story that would have us all laughing. He literally lit up a room.
He was an exceptional man with an amazing talent and the impressions he left in our hearts will be etched forever. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to get to know such a special person.
We love you so much and want you to know that if you ever need something whether it is now, a month from now or ten years from now, we will always be here for you.
All our love,
Rick Davidson
February 28, 2006
The music Dave left behind will live forever. Rock on Dave!
Colleen Weiler
February 28, 2006
There were three important things I learned in high school: motivation, dedication and passion. Not only did Dave insist on these from his drumline members, but he also demonstrated them everyday. He never took away the jokster in any of us...he embraced it and molded it into something that could be used to make our group cohesive. And we will always have him to thank for helping us form another family, and eternal friendships. He was never abstracted from his students. Dave was our friend, someone we could connect with and be genuine with. If for no other reason, because he was always so completely genuine. He was the only teacher who I really felt believed in me. He gave me a chance when others doubted me and at the very least, he gave us all the best experience of our lives. I know Dave's still keepin it real; he's good at that. He can't be forgotten, he'll always be loved. And we'll always be motivated, dedicated and passionate.
Ed Hayes
February 28, 2006
Dave, you were a huge inspiration to me and many other students. I will always remember your kindness and dedication.
Jeff Wessel
February 27, 2006
It is impossible to express how sad we are right now. We were lucky to have known Dave. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
-The Wessel Family
Heidi, Jeff, Jason (Drumline 04-05-06), Henry, and Jack
Ed Towne
February 27, 2006
Tonya and Family,
Although I was never directly in contact with Dave, I could definitely tell what an impact he had on the lives of all his students. He was a great role model for all of the kids in drumline and I know he was just passing on what he loved to do as a musician.
My deepest sympathies,
Ed Towne, BBHHS Tuba class of '06
The Johnson/Capezzuto family
February 27, 2006
Our sympathy to Dave's wife and family. It is such a shock to lose someone so young. Dave taught both Tara and Jeff in Percussion, Marching Band, and Indoor Drum Line. It was a highlight of their H.S. careers. A special THANKS to him for all he did for the percussionists at BBHHS!! They will always carry a part of him with them...
Debra Heidbrider
February 27, 2006
Pam, Brittany, Tonia and the Keen Family...Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this most difficult time of your life. I'm sure that Dave is in heaven and playing his drums for all the angels to enjoy. May god bless all of you.
Amand Dobias and The Heidbrider Family
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