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Treva Shaffer Obituary

Treva L. Shaffer MONROE, N.C. -- Treva L. Shaffer, 47, of Monroe, N.C., formerly of Akron, died September 26, 2011 at her home. She was born December 27, 1963 in Alliance, Ohio to Jim Thellman and Carolyn Byers. A memorial service to celebrate her life will be held on Saturday, October 8, 2011 at 5 p.m. at Grace Baptist Church, 704 N. Firestone Blvd., Akron, OH 44306. The family will begin to receive friends at 3 p.m. Treva is survived by her beloved husband of 21 years, Mark Shaffer; sons, Tod Moses and Nicholas Shaffer; mother, Carolyn Byers; father, Jim Thellman and his wife Jackie; sister, Rachel Stefano; brother, Bill Broyles; grandchildren, Alissa Moses and Kaiden Shaffer; her four-legged friends, Ryker and Ginger and her winged friend, Co-Co; and other relatives and friends. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to By Grace Alone Ministries, P.O. Box 472766 Charlotte, NC 28247. Arrangements are in care of Heritage Funeral Home, Indian Trail, N.C. Online condolences may be left at www.caringbridge.org/trevashaffer or on her facebook page.

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Published by Akron Beacon Journal on Sep. 29, 2011.

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Amy Dempsey-Railsback

October 8, 2011

I have many memories of Treva from when I was growing up. Rachel, Billy, and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss.

Dar and Barb Brown

October 7, 2011

Mark,Nicholas,Todd and Pat and Rhonda, I am truly grieving and praying for your family.. What a terrible loss for all of you.God Bless you all and mostly you Mark. Dar and Barb Brown and Family

Dianna Miller-Angelo

October 6, 2011

My prayers are with Trevas family and friends.. she will truely missed...

October 5, 2011

Sorry to hear about Treva. Our thoughts are with you. Susan,Ashlie,Tank Akron,Oh.

Keli Hanson

October 2, 2011

I miss you so much already but I will see you again. Thank you for being so special to my Mom and our family. I can remember you always being the first person there for my Mom whenever she needed something. You have such an amazing heart and we miss our Angel! Thank you for the time you did spend with us here. Love you always!!!!

Colleen Neubert

October 1, 2011

Mark and family I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have been praying for all of you, that God will be your strength in the days ahead of you.

Kati Gaskey

October 1, 2011

I love you, I always did and even more for the love you gave my mom!

Nancy Winstead

September 30, 2011

Mark and family. I was so sorry to hear of Treva's illness, and death.My thought's and prayer's are with you. Nancy[Moses]Winstead

Tracie (King) Henderson

September 30, 2011

Mark and family, I am very sorry for your loss.

Mandi Legros

September 30, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss, I have fond memories of Treva when i was little :) She was my mom's best friend and was always the nicest person and fun to be around. Keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers.Mandi Legros (Lisa Brady Carter's Daughter)

Amber Scarlett

September 30, 2011

WE LOVE YOU TREVA <3

Amber Scarlett

September 30, 2011

Although I didnt know treva that well. I feel like i've gotten to know her much better lately due to all the wonderful things people have said about her. She was my moms cousin and will be missed dearly by all.

September 29, 2011

Mark and family ,i'm so sorry to hear of Treva's passing .I have lots of good memories of Treva .She was a beautiful woman and so much fun to be with .My prayers are with your family at this sad time.ZoeAnn

Melissa Randolph-Bagal

September 29, 2011

So sorry to hear. Thoughts and prayers to her family and friends.

September 29, 2011

We were sorry to hear about Teva's passing. We have had her in our prayers. We will continue to pray for you, Mark, and the whole family. May Gods blessings be with your during this time.

Ryan and Janis Hetzer, Newton Falls, Ohio

Stacy (Richmond) Peters

September 29, 2011

My condolences to the family. I went to high school with Treva and remember what a lovely, friendly and kind young lady she was. I was shocked and saddened to hear that she had passed.

Denise Sheeley

September 29, 2011

Treva was an amazing women and will never, never be forgotten...we love you Treva and you will forever be in our hearts!!
Denise Sheeley and family

Ralph & Jackie Howe

September 29, 2011

So sorry to hear about Trevas passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this very hard time of your life...

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