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EDDIE SUTTON

1936 - 2020

EDDIE SUTTON obituary, 1936-2020, Tulsa, OK

EDDIE SUTTON Obituary

Eddie E. Sutton
March 12, 1936 - May 23, 2020

TULSA
Born on a farm in Western Kansas on March 12, 1936, to Orville and Beryl Sutton, Eddie Eugene Sutton left Kansas after high school and found his way to manhood and national recognition through basketball. But, as outstanding as his accomplishments in basketball were--and they were exceptional by any measure--his life encompassed far more because he brought the same laser focus, strategic vision, desire for challenge, and intense drive to succeed from the world of basketball to his roles as husband, parent, grandparent, and community leader.
As a high school senior in Bucklin, KS, he was recruited by Coach Henry Iba to play basketball at Oklahoma A&M. While in college, Eddie excelled on the court and academically; more importantly, he met his late, beloved wife Patsy of fifty-four years on the OSU campus and came to regard Mr. Iba as a second father. As a result, he remained at OSU for a year after graduation as a graduate assistant coach under Mr. Iba. While he earned his coaching stripes, he also earned a Master's Degree, and his new bride completed her undergraduate degree. In this seminal period, he had established the pattern of forging loyal, empowering relationships that repeated itself again and again throughout his life, ranging from players he first coached at Tulsa's Central High School to former President Bill Clinton, who became a friend while Eddie coached at the University of Arkansas and remained a friend until Eddie's death Saturday, May 23, 2020.
After earning their degrees, Eddie and Patsy moved to Tulsa, where he coached basketball seven years at Central High School and Patsy taught Home Economics. They started their family in Tulsa, bringing home eldest son Stephen in 1965. Middle son, Sean, born in 1968, joined the family in Twin Falls, Idaho, where, in 1966, Eddie had accepted the challenge of building a basketball program at The College of Southern Idaho, literally from the ground up: the college did not even have its own campus until 1968. But Eddie's teams built an 83-14 record. A fresh challenge beckoned in 1969, and the family left Idaho for Omaha, where Eddie took over the struggling basketball program at Creighton University. He led his Creighton teams to five consecutive winning seasons and a Sweet Sixteen appearance in 1974, his final season. His youngest son, Scott, was born in Omaha in 1970.
In 1974, Eddie once again took on a new challenge, and the family moved to Fayetteville, Ark., where Barnhill Fieldhouse had sawdust floors and portable bleachers. Eddie brought national prominence to his Arkansas teams and a new facility for their fans. His teams had an unprecedented record of 120-8 at home over eleven seasons, and a 77% overall winning percentage, a record for the Southwest Conference. Along the way, he took Arkansas to the Final Four in 1978, and also beat number one ranked North Carolina led by Michael Jordan. Today UA teams use the "Eddie Sutton Practice Gym".
During this period, he became one of the first coaches nationally to sign a team shoe contract with Nike footwear. He maintained strong ties with Nike throughout the rest of his career.
In 1985, he took over the basketball program at the University Kentucky, as only its third coach in the last fifty-five years. In four years at Kentucky, his teams had an 88-39 record, with three NCAA tournament appearances, including an Elite Eight appearance in 1986 and the Sweet Sixteen in 1988. He was named National Coach of the Year in 1986.
In addition to coaching and family, community life was important to Eddie. He regularly supported and lent his growing celebrity to causes he deemed important. Among other charitable endeavors, he supported Big Brothers & Big Sisters for many years, frequently served as celebrity emcee for the Stillwater Humane Society's Walk 'n Wag, regularly promoted Coaches vs. Cancer and, always, supported the Remember the Ten Run at OSU. Eddie was a member of First United Methodist Church in Stillwater, OK, and Life Church in South Tulsa, as well as a member of Sigma Chi fraternity, designated a Significant Sig.
When he had the opportunity to return to his alma mater, OSU, in April 1990, he said he felt "like a little boy on Christmas morning". As he had done at Idaho, Creighton, and Arkansas, he immediately began working to improve and honor the fan experience of basketball. When Eddie arrived at OSU, the basketball program had been on a downhill slide; the facility, once the pride of the Southwest, was also showing its age. He went to work on both counts, leading his teams to thirteen NCAA tournaments in sixteen years and two Final Four appearances in 1995 and 2004. He also worked tirelessly to raise funding for an expansion of Gallagher-Iba Arena, speaking at every opportunity with students, civic groups, and fans in every possible venue to garner support for expanding the facility and his team. The result was an award-winning architectural design with greatly expanded seating and amenities, which preserved the historic arena that ESPN and CBS sports recognized as the "best atmosphere in college basketball". While at OSU, he coached seven All-Americans, fifty-two all-conference Cowboys, five Big Eight/Big XII Players of the Year and nine NBA draft picks. Today, the OSU basketball court is named "Eddie Sutton Court". Eddie remained OSU's greatest fan after his retirement and attended OSU basketball games whenever his health permitted until three months before his death. Despite all these accomplishments at OSU, the 2001 plane crash while returning from a game in Colorado left a void that would never be filled. With a broken heart, Eddie insisted on calling each of the affected families himself, as he felt it was his responsibility. Though Sean Sutton reflected that "there has never been a day that I have been more proud of my dad", this awful task took a heavy toll on Eddie. Moreover, he and the OSU community lost ten valued members of the basketball team and staff. Eddie said, "not a day goes by that I don't think about every one of those guys, because they were all great people."
It has been widely recognized as a remarkable achievement that OSU returned to the Final Four only three years later.
He succeeded so well at so much. He maintained his strategic vision and understood that losing a game here and there was part of any season. But losing a game, or even a season in basketball, is far less painful than publicly struggling with a battle against alcoholism. Still, he fought it with courage and spoke to students about it, stressing the importance of having addiction treatment centers on college campuses. Regarding his personal battle with addiction, Eddie once said, "There's a scripture that has sustained me through my adversity: 'All things work together for good to them that love the Lord.'" Eddie believed that he had seen the fulfillment of this verse, Romans 8:28, in his life.
Most writings about Eddie's life have focused on his accomplishments in coaching: first coach to take four different schools to the NCAA Men's Basketball Tournament and one of only nine to win 800 or more games in his career (806); named National Coach of the Year four times and Conference Coach of the year eight times; coached numerous All-Americans, All-Conference players, and NBA players; served as President of the National Association of Basketball Coaches in 1987-88 and, most recently, was elected to the Naismith Memorial Basketball Hall of Fame. His three trips to the Final Four link him to names like Phog Allen, Nolan Richardson, Bill Self, and John Thompson.
What many people may not know is how deeply he cared for his family. Someone who knew him well recently remarked, "I've never seen anyone love his family so fiercely." Eddie also cared deeply that his players achieve the higher education that their scholarships provided. He did not merely encourage them to complete their degrees, he made it a priority to see that they learned the discipline to study and to attend class regularly, right along with the discipline of practice. As one former player recalled, "He drove me the same way (he did in basketball) in my academics." Almost 90% of his players earned a college degree.
Many of his players remember the lessons Eddie tried to teach them to this day. Their words, in recalling the coach who helped form them as men over a fifty year career, define him clearly: "I had access to him when I was in the ninth grade and I have access to him right now"; "He was hard but he wasn't intimidating . . . You could tell he wanted the best for you"; "He became a father figure"; "On the floor and off the floor, he made me a better player, a better man. He made me a better husband."
In the end, like his own mentor, Henry Iba, Eddie Sutton was a man who commanded respect but earned enduring love and loyalty from family, players, friends, and many fans.
He was preceded in death by his wife, Patsy Wright Sutton, and is survived by his children, Stephen and Robin Sutton; Sean and Trena Sutton; Scott and Kim Sutton, along with grandchildren Stephen, Catherine and Caroline; Hunter, Spencer, and Parker; and Hallie, Lauren, and Maggie.
A public memorial service and celebration of the life of Coach Eddie Sutton will be scheduled at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to: Remember the Ten Run, 203 Whitehurst, Stillwater, OK 74078; or online at Remembertheten.com; or to Coaches vs Cancer, c/o American Cancer Society, 7645 E. 63rd St., Suite 105, Tulsa, OK 74133, Attn: Susan Erler, or on line at: https://acstulsa.ejoinme.org/coachsutton

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Published by Oklahoman on May 27, 2020.

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September 18, 2020

My condolences.

Tabatha Barrett

June 30, 2020

So sorry for your loss. We enjoyed him a great deal while caring for him. Quite the character with words of wisdom.

Lori

June 5, 2020

This guy was super!! He gave us all a hometown small feel for famous! A great source of advice and he will be missed! Thanks Eddie for standing bin the gap!

Charley Gibbs

June 2, 2020

Taking the loss hard here, but finding comfort in the long life Coach led, the great accomplishments on the hardwood, and most importantly the many lives touched, mine among them...and I was just a 16-year-old basketball camper in the summer of 1984, sitting wide-eyed behind the basket in Barnhill. To my shock and awe, Coach Eddie Sutton even manned the snack bar and served me a soda between practices! So thrilled I was. Discipline. Dedication. Defense. Values instilled in so many of us over the years. Will miss you, Coach. You are one for the ages. My condolences to the Sutton family. Pig Sooooie!

June 2, 2020

Coach Sutton was my friend. He let me go on and on about my beloved UCLA Bruins! I begged to go coach there. Rest In Peace Coach and thank for being my friend,

June 1, 2020

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Steele

June 1, 2020

To the family of Mr Sutton I am sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. May God grant you peace and comfort.

Donis Pannell

May 31, 2020

With heartfelt sympathy and prayers the late Don and Bonnie Pannell and I, Donis Pannell, will always cherish the years of memories with Coach Eddie Sutton. To Stephen, Scott, Sean, and their families caring thoughts and peace. ALWAYS a Hall of Fame Coach, friend, champion to college basketball, and game changer for so many athletes and others. Coach Suttons Legendary Spirit will forever live in my heart.

May 31, 2020

Deepest condolences to the Sutton family, may God be with in your time of sorrow.

Arlen Clark

May 29, 2020

My condolences to the Sutton family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I always held a lot of respect for Eddie as a friend and teammate. OSU teammates 1957 & 1958 Arlen Clark.

Darrel and Sally Daniel

May 29, 2020

Thank you for being a good person, coach and definitely a good role for our athletes

May 28, 2020

My Condolences.

E.T. Scott

May 28, 2020

One of the greatest coaches in the NCAA level in basketball. Even through the turbulent times, you still shined bright in darkness. The 7th time was a charm, but disappointing you didn't get the opportunity to attend the ceremony. You made it to the Hall and you made it to the other side of the spectrum. Who got the last laugh? My condolences goes out to your sons, who has followed your footsteps in coaching and to the family. Will be missed, but never forgotten!!!

Marilyn Reed

May 27, 2020

To one of the greatest coaches that prepared me for life by instilling Discipline and Dedication. I'm eternally grateful that you accepted me to be your student athlete. You taught me that I didn't have to be the best to start, but I had to start to be the best.
U.S. Reed

May 27, 2020

Someone so special will not be forgotten. May the wonderful times remain in your hearts.

May 27, 2020

Condolences to the Sutton family. Thoughts and prayers for comfort during this very difficult time.

May 27, 2020

Our deepest condolences to the family. We pray that God continues to strengthen and comfort your broken hearts.

May 27, 2020

Heartfelt condolences to the Sutton family, so very sorry for your loss, may you find comfort and strength from God as you go through such a very difficult time.

May 27, 2020

My sincere condolences to the Sutton family. May the God of all comfort provide you all the strength to cope with your loss

Effie Smith

May 27, 2020

Deepest sympathy to the Sutton family. To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.

GERALD Stutsman

May 26, 2020

I met Eddie my jumior year in high school. I tried out for the basketball team but my skills were wanting. After the tryouts, I asked if there was anything I could do to assist him and the team. I join the team by becoming the team manager. What I learned from him was (look for the best in everyone). For those that knew him will him physically but will always remember him. My thoughts and prayers are with the Sutton family

Sue Wilkins

May 26, 2020

My Daddy, Bill Wilkins, (62 years old) passed away when I was 32 years old in 1988. My Mother, Marie Wilkins, (84 years old) passed away in 2015. One of the things I always thought about was the reunion of my Mother and Daddy after 27 years apart. That's also what I thought about when I heard of Eddie's death. Patsy only had to wait 7 years, but I'm sure it was glorious. I have shaken Eddie's hand a number of times because I took my son, Cameron, to quite a few basketball games at GIA during Eddie's coaching career. Back in those days, Eddie would stay after the game, along with some of his players, and we were able to go up to him and shake his hand. We also made sure to catch the game at the Myriad in Oklahoma City. Also, Eddie graced us with a speaking engagement in Yukon, Oklahoma which was and still is my home town and I learned how wonderful it was just to sit and hear his stories. This was during the time that Bryant Reeves had started his career at OSU and I still remember Eddie reminiscing about Big Country thinking that playing basketball in the City was in Sapulpa, not Oklahoma City, being from Gans, Oklahoma and all. He also spoke of flying to New York or wherever they flew was Reeves first time on an airplane. I'll always keep the time that he shook my son, Cameron's hand when Cameron was maybe 7 or 8 in my memories. Cameron had shaken Eddie's hand a few times before. While Eddie was bending down to shake Cameron's hand, Cameron asked Eddie, "Do you remember me?" And, Eddie looked in Cameron's eyes and said, "Well, yes, young man, I do." Now, we all know that Eddie shook countless hands of boys, girls, and adults and there was no way he could remember one from the other, but Cameron went away from that encounter floating on air because Eddie remembered him. Cameron is now 29 and still remembers that encounter. Eddie coached at OSU after my time because I graduated from OSU in May of 1977, but I as stated above went to quite a few of his games. My deep condolences to Steve, Sean, and Scott and their families. Your Dad was loved by many. Always have faith in God, Yourself & the Cowboys!

Jan Hughes

May 26, 2020

May the memories carry you through this very difficult time.My condolences to the family. May God fulfill his promise of binding up the brokenhearted. (Isa 61:1.)

LeeRoy

May 26, 2020

So sorry for your for the family of Eddie. What a loss to the family and many basketball fans. Eddie will be missed.

Jan Hughes

May 26, 2020

May the memories carry you through this very difficult time.My condolences to the family. May God fulfill his promise of binding up the brokenhearted. (Isa 61:1.)

Jim Brodnax

May 25, 2020

Did not ever meet coach Sutton, my wife is an alum from Okla State. While I did not have the height to play college basket, I admired CoachSutton I watched his career and was sadden greatly when he left Ark. Razorbacks. In my opinion the finest human being and finish coach that ever lived. Coach Sutton leaves a great admiration for his love of his fellowmen and his mark on college basketball, my
Only wish was to have been able to play for him. Great man

May 25, 2020

Such a bright light in the game of basketball, and in our world. Rest in Peace, Coach.

Keith Newsom

May 25, 2020

Coach Sutton the BEST! As a young coach I attended my first coach's clinic to hear Coach Sutton speak.
I sat on the very front row of the conference room. Alone. All other coaches sat in middle and towards the back. I will never forget Coach Sutton up on the stage. Looking down at me on the front row by myself Coach told the crowd "to be successful, you will have to do things you don't want to do". I didn't feel alone anymore. I felt confidence busting in me. I went on for the next 30 year's to be a successful coach. Thank you Coach Sutton! A great man.

May 25, 2020

Our condolences and heartfelt prayers go out to the Family and Friendster of Coach Sutton. May the God of tender mercies and all comfort be with you all. We know that you all
are so very proud of the legacy he left, touching the lives of many!

SM, Jackson, MS

Stephen Sullivan

May 25, 2020

I was a student trainer on Coach Suttons first team at Arkansas in 1974. He was a terrific coach and a class individual. Prayers & condolences to Coach Suttons family. May he Rest In Peace and let perpetual light shine upon him.

A. Ritchie

May 25, 2020

My parents always spoke so fondly of their friendship with Eddie and what an incredible person he was. He will be greatly missed.

Neighbor

May 25, 2020

My deepest sympathy for your loss. There are no words that can ease the pain of losing someone so beloved. May you find comfort and peace in knowing that your loved one is in God's memory, because those who fall asleep in death are precious in his eyes. Psalms 116:15

May 25, 2020

Mr. Sutton,
Rest with the LORD and the Heavenly Body of Saints and
Angels. You had a wonderful
coaching career and admired
Greatly. Condolences to family, friends, EVERYONE you coached, and everybody that loves you Sir. Now it's time to rest.

Coleman Crawford

May 25, 2020

In a word, legend.

randy sharpe

May 25, 2020

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Vic Bulaich

May 25, 2020

Definitely the best coach to never take a team to NCAA Final 4 game, a Naismith protégé !

BRY

May 25, 2020

Please accept my sincere condolences to the Sutton Family, May the God of comfort mend your grieving hearts with tenderness and loving kindness as you cope during this very difficult time with Gods strength. Thank you for Eddies contribution to the Basketball League.

Michael Eppler

May 25, 2020

Eddie was my coach at Central High School in Tulsa from 1961-1964. Through him I learned a lot about life and basketball. I will never forget He and Patsy, one of the most beautiful ladies I have ever met, in both physical and inspirational terms. Eddie, himself was extremely handsome and fun loving. They were a perfect couple.
He has been a father figure to me ever since we met. I am sure most, if not all, of his former players feel the same way about "Coach Sutton". I will never forget him as a wonderful addition to my life! I made a High School All American Team, for both Basketball and Academics because of Coach Sutton.

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