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Frederick Kuehner Obituary

Frederick E. Kuehner, 71, of Oklahoma City, died Tuesday, May 19, 2009, after a long and courageous battle with lung cancer. Frederick was born April 1, 1938 in St. Joseph, Missouri to Fredrick W. and Margaret (King) Kuehner. He attended Lafayette High School. He then worked as an apprentice for John Kamble Sheet Metal Co. He was a veteran of the U.S. Army (1956-1958), having served proudly in the 82nd Airborne Division, Fort Bragg, NC. In 1958 he was untied in marriage to Retta Maye Weigart at Carnigie Baptist Church in St. Joseph, MO. In 1969 he and his family moved from St. Joseph, Missouri to Norman, Oklahoma. He retired from General Motors Corporation in 2002 after 23 years of service to them. Other places of employment during his working career were: Unit Parts Company, Beaty's Warehouse, Swift and Company, Burlington Northern, Chicago Burlington and Quincy Railroad. He was preceded in death by his parents and one daughter, Rona Linn (Kuehner) Chafey, who was killed in the Oklahoma City bombing. Also, two brothers, William and James Kuehner of St. Joseph, MO. He is survived by his wife Retta M. Kuehner of Bethany, OK children, Benny Kuehner of Oklahoma City, Jenny (William) Bechtold, Wichita Falls, TX grandchildren, Derrick Kuehner, Wichita Falls, TX, Misty (Treavor) Pound, Homestead, FL, Nicky Chafey, Bethany, OK, Malorey and Samantha Bechtold, Wichita Falls, TX son-in-law, Raymond Chafey, Bethany, OK great-granddaughter, Emily Pound, Homestead, FL one sister, Mrs. Betty Lou Poling, St. Joseph, MO one sister-in-law, Betty E. Kuehner of St. Joseph, MO with many nieces and nephews and scores of friends. The Family will be greeting friends at the funeral home from 7 PM - 8 PM Thursday. Funeral Services will be held at 10:00 AM Friday, May 22, 2009 at the Rose Hill Burial Park Chapel, with interment to follow. Arrangements by Chapel Hill Funeral Home, Dignity, 8701 NW Expwy, OKC, 721-3182.

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Published by Oklahoman on May 21, 2009.

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Peggy Poling -McPherson

June 1, 2009

Aunt Retta, Jenny, Ben and family, I am so sorry that I was unable to attend the funeral. Even though we were not as close as we should have been all of you have never been far from my thoughts. My prayers go out to all of you. I Love you all.

Michael Gale

May 26, 2009

Retta:Sorry to hear of your sorrow,in Frederick's passing. He is now with God,in Heaven,and in our prayers. Michael and Barbara Gale,of Bethany.

May 26, 2009

Dear Jenny & family:

I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

May 26, 2009

Jenny & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know that this is a difficult time for you and your family, just know that I am thinking of you and my prayers are with you and your family.

Janetta Street

Jane Simmons

May 24, 2009

Dear Jenny, Bill, Derrick, Mallory and Samantha; I am so sorry to read about the loss of your dad/grandfather. May God give you, and all your family, comfort and peace during these tough days and may the wonderful memories of your dad help you get through the sorrow you are feeling today.

Joyce Pair

May 24, 2009

Dear Jenny,

Please accept my sympathy in the loss of your father. A parent's passing overwhelms us, and such a loss creates an unforgettable sorrow in our hearts. My own dear mother has been gone nine years as of yesterday, and I miss her daily. I know your love for your father will exist always.

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