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FREDERICK MARKS Obituary

July 8, 1933 - October 19, 2012 OKLAHOMA CITY Frederick R. Marks was born on July 8, 1933, in Greenwood, South Carolina, and passed away on Oct. 19, 2012, in Oklahoma City. A Korean War veteran, Fred proudly served in the U.S. Navy 1953-1957 as a Fire Control Technician II aboard the U.S.S. The Sullivans with his brother Cecil, a shared experience he treasured, and the U.S.S. Hanson. After his Navy service, Fred found his true passion in aviation, working for the Federal Aviation Administration for over 35 years. During his time with FAA, Fred served in a variety of technical and management positions in Atlanta, GA; Orlando, FL; FAA Washington Headquarters; Frankfurt, Germany; and Brussels, Belgium, before being assigned to the Mike Monroney Aeronautical Center in OKC in 1967. He loved his work and the many lifelong friends it generated. Fred was an avid outdoorsman and gourmet cook. In his free time, you were most likely to find him doing something that involved a pole, gun, boat, bottle or grill. His favorite place on earth was a little slice of Heaven called Beavers Bend. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather and friend. He met his wife, best friend and fellow adventurer, Kathleen O'Meara Marks, in 1981 while she was working for the OKC Chamber of Commerce and he was International Liaison Officer and director of student services at the FAA Academy. They celebrated their 30th wedding anniversary with family and friends in March 2012. Fred was a proud and loving father of four daughters: Theresa Allen, OKC; Barbara Jones, husband Keith, OKC; Karen Willis, husband Tyler, Springdale, AR; and Whitney Price, husband Jerrod, McKinney, TX; and grandchildren, Chelsea Sims (Wes), Katie Allen and Owen Price. He is also survived by family in Florida: brothers, Cecil Marks (Norma), and Bill Marks (June); Elizabeth Velez (Jose), Tegan Perotta and Draco Velez; brothers- and sisters-in-law: Clarence and Pat Schmidt, Caldwell, KS; Maggie Miller, Edmond; Rita and Dale Mullins, OKC; Dr. Michelle O'Meara, Tulsa; Gordon Bender, and Fred and Kay Bender, Wisconsin; German "son," Uwe Arnold (Bettina) and family, Oberursel; best buddy, Jeff Hall and wife Chris, OKC; and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his beloved first wife of 25 years, Dolores Bender Marks, mother of daughters Theresa, Barbara and Karen; his parents, Theresa Strickland, Walter Marks; and sister, Theresa Massey. Many thanks and appreciation to his incredible team of doctors and nurses, including Dr. Mark Bodenhamer and the critical care nurses at the OK Heart Hospital. It can be said of Fred, "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith." 2 Timothy 4:7. Viewing will be at Smith & Kernke N. May on Monday, October 22nd 9 a.m. - 6 p.m., followed by an Evening Prayer Service at 7 p.m. A Memorial Service will be held at Epiphany of the Lord Catholic Church, 7336 West Britton Road, Tuesday, October 23rd at 11 a.m. Graveside services, with military honors, immediately following at Resurrection Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Disabled American Veterans.

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Published by Oklahoman on Oct. 21, 2012.

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Cindy Norman

August 4, 2013

Kathleen and family,
I just found the news today when searching to catch up with you. There will never be a loving man, family man, friend and just plain lovable person as Fred. Love you!

Trish Cuttone

October 23, 2012

God Bless you and comfort you at this time.

Nancy Burke

October 23, 2012

Dear Kathy and Family,

I've only known Fred for a short time, but his memory will remain in my heart forever. Fred was a kind, loving husband, father, and friend. I enjoyed my time with Fred and Kathy at the reunion in Waterloo, IA, and our many phone conversations. May God bless you always and may you find peace and comfort in your fond memories of your time together. Deepest sympathy to Fred's brothers Cecil and Bill and their family

October 23, 2012

TO KATHy & family we are so sorry to hear of your lost fred was a great man and a great friend. always look foward to seeing him at the reunions. our love goes to all the family. "frank fair winds and following seas" bill & mary Galarneau U.S.S THE SULLIVANS ( DD 537 )

Peggy Porter

October 23, 2012

Thoughts and Prayers to Kathleen and all of Fred's family and loved ones.

October 22, 2012

Theresa,Kathy, & familes,
Fred was such a joy and a an inspiration to me while I was in OUCD as a dental hygiene student. I would have never made it without his wit! Our prayers are with yoy as you celebrate his life remembrance. I pray your sorrow will become fond memories when you need them most.
Mary Carol & Jay Belt, Marla & Ethan

Josh Chavez

October 22, 2012

Fred, i will miss you very much. You were the greatest neighbor and friend anyone could ever have. i will always remember you.

Hal Burke

October 21, 2012

Please accept our Deepest Sympathy and prayers. May God hold Fred, Kathy, and his family in the palm of his hand and lovingly shine upon them.
Fred was a good man and we'll miss him dearly.
Shipmates Forever,

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