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JACK POINTER Obituary

February 14, 1945 - March 27, 2017 NORMAN Jack Dempsey Pointer, Jr., of Norman, passed away Monday, March 27, 2017. He was born February 14, 1945 in Tulsa, Oklahoma to Jack Dempsey Pointer and Elwanda (Reiger) Pointer. He grew up in Skiatook, Oklahoma having graduated from Skiatook High School in 1963. He attended Oklahoma Military Academy on football scholarship and then completed his undergraduate degree at Central State College (now University of Central Oklahoma) in Edmond also on a football scholarship receiving a Bachelor of Arts degree in 1967. In 1970 he received Juris Doctorate degree from the University of Oklahoma College of Law. He was married to the love of his life Linda Miller on May 28, 1966 and they made their home in Norman where they raised their 3 children, Brandon, Jennifer and Jeffrey. Jack was a very proud and loving father. He never missed a chance to tell his children how proud he was of them and was very involved in their lives. He also was very proud of his grandchildren and loved them dearly. He was very active in his children's athletic teams as they were growing up. He coached many kids throughout the years and will always be remembered for being able to balance the role of a tough coach with a fun coach, and that leadership impacted each of the kids he coached. Jack worked in the public sector in various capacities for two years after admission to the bar, after which he had a successful 45-year private practice. He was also in involved in Oklahoma's petroleum industry for many years beginning in the 1970's. He served as a director of the Oklahoma Criminal Defense Lawyers Association since 1991. Throughout his tenure as a director he has achieved several distinguished awards including the Clarence Darrow Award and the Lord Erskine Award. He also proudly serves as a member of the Federal Criminal Justice Panel. Jack never turned down the opportunity to help a fellow lawyer in need, and enjoyed mentoring young/new attorneys. He will be remembered for his commitment to the defense of the accused and doing so with the utmost integrity. Throughout his legal career he garnered the respect of not only his clients, but also members of both sides of the bar, and the judges that he appeared in front of regularly. He was preceded in death by his parents. Pointer is survived by his wife of 50 years, Linda; his sons, Brandon and wife Julie of Edmond, and Jeffrey and wife Hisato of Japan; his daughter, Jennifer Austin and husband Jeffrey of Norman; granddaughter, Sydney and grandsons, Noah, Samuel Dempsey and Jack; cousins, Jerry Malzahn and wife Lyla of Texas and Gus Malzahn and wife Kristi of Alabama. Funeral Services will begin at 2:00 p.m., Monday, April 3, 2017, at Victory Family Church, 4343 N. Flood Avenue in Norman. Memorials may be made in memory of Jack Dempsey Pointer, Jr. to Autism Oklahoma, Second Chance Animal Sanctuary or your charity of choice. Online condolences may be shared at: www.HavenbrookFuneralHome.com

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Published by Oklahoman from Mar. 31 to Apr. 2, 2017.

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Kathy & Harry Garrison

April 3, 2017

We were so sorry to hear of Jack's passing. We knew Jack when we were in Norman many years ago. Our son Fred went to school with Jeff & they played football together in elementary school. He was always there for the boys & would take them under his wings when needed. I will always remember After we left Norman watching the tv with the coverage of the OKC bombing & seeing Jack helping out wherever he could. I remember the last time I saw him after going back to Norman he gave me a Big teddy bear hug. I pray that the family can have peace at this time and know that friends will be there when you need them.

Dennis Adams

April 2, 2017

We both transferred to CSU the same semester. Great memories of Jack at CSU. My condolences Jacks family.
Dennis Adams

Tera McNeal

April 2, 2017

My prayers to the family for peace and comfort. Mr. Pointer was the best trial attorney I had ever seen. He was the most likeable guy. I'm so thankful I had the privilege of knowing him professionally.

March 31, 2017

Please accept my sincerest condolences. May God and your fond memories bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Ms Porter

So many fun memories of Jackie in highschool. Sympathies to your family.

Billie Talbott

March 31, 2017

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4343 N. Flood Avenue, Norman, OK 73072

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