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Jeff Graves Obituary

The Lord rescued Jeff from his battle with Leukemia on Wednesday, October 29, 2008. He was surrounded by family and friends. Jeff is survived by the love of his life, Mandy, and daughters Maddie and Emma Jeff's parents Dwayne and Pam Graves of Oklahoma City loving sister Laura Atterbury of Oklahoma City, and brother Nathan Graves of Del City, along with their families. Grandparents are John and Imogene Graves of Seymour, Texas and Betty and Troy Brown of Crawfordville, Florida. Along with many cousins, aunts, and uncles, Jeff is survived by the many people whose lives were touched by his presence. In lieu of flowers, Jeff asked that donations be made to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society of Oklahoma City. Services will be 10:00 AM Saturday at Vondel Smith South Colonial Chapel.

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Published by Oklahoman on Nov. 1, 2008.

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Anna & Pete Manygoats

November 12, 2008

We our sadden about Jeffs passing, he was a great friend to our son J.R.,and my husand Pete, that they work with at Daton Tire. We will miss him in our heart. Our condolence and sympathy and prayers to the family.

Cheryl Ross

November 4, 2008

I was sadded to hear about the loss of such a fine young man. I will keep The Graves family in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.

Brad McKenzie

November 2, 2008

Dwayne and Pam and Family,

I am so sorry to hear about Jeffery. Last time I spoke with you he was in Houston getting treatment. You and your family will be in my prayers. Keep your faith in God. I didnt hear about this until Nov1st at 11:30 am or I woulda been there. If there is anything you need please call me. 408-5035. I love you.

Brad McKenzie

LuAnn Doss

November 1, 2008

I remember Jeffrey when he was just a little thing and I baby sat him. He had such a gentle, loving spirit and always let 2 year old Katie be the boss of him! Our prayers are with you at this time and although we've lost touch over the years, you have always been in our memories. We love you, Daryl and LuAnn Doss

Diana DeSpain

November 1, 2008

The Graves Family,
We lift your family up in prayer and know The Almighty God is protecting and giving your family phenominal strength during this time in your lives. God knows our weaknesses and is there for us during all of this. Lean on him and he will carry your burdens and walk for you through all of this. It's amazing but he will, because he did for me during my two losses. I am so sorry Pam & Dwayne for your loss and will pray for your recovery process in the months ahead. Glen and Diana (Mallow) DeSpain. 405-706-3056

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