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PAUL DUNCAN Obituary

Oct 1, 1940 - Sept 5, 2013 OKLAHOMA CITY Paul Crockett Duncan, Jr. was born in Oklahoma City, OK October 1, 1940. He was the elder son of Paul C. Duncan, Sr. & Kathleen Gail LaVonne Trammel Duncan. Paul was a graduate of the Northwest Classen Knights Class of 1958. He was President of the Honors Society and was a Faculty Award recipient. He graduated from the University of Oklahoma, where he was President of Pi Kappa Alpha fraternity. He received his Juris Doctorate in 1964 and entered private practice at Pierce, Mock, Duncan, Couch and Hendrickson, of Oklahoma City. In 1971, Paul entered service with the state of Oklahoma as the Chief of the Civil Division in the office of Attorney General Larry Derryberry. He served eight years, the last of which as First Assistant Attorney General. Paul returned to private practice from 1978 until 1990. He then returned to state service at the Oklahoma State and Education Employees Group Insurance Board. Paul retired from OSEEGIB as General Counsel to the Board in 2010. Throughout his professional life, Paul worked with his friend and Administrative Assistant, Charlene Williams. Paul was an avid duplicate bridge player. He was a Gold Life Master, served as Good Will Ambassador for the Sooner Unit of the American Contract Bridge League, where he was also President for a number of years. He enjoyed playing bridge a great deal and counted the local players among his closest friends. Paul continued regular participation with his favorite bridge partner, Suzanne Livesay, at the Oklahoma City Bridge Studio until his health prevented his participation. Paul's friends and family will most often associate him with his love of Oklahoma Sooner Football. He attended every home game from the time he was twelve years old until 2001, when family health problems caused him to miss a couple. He continued to attend home games whenever possible until this past year. Paul and Linda hosted a pre-game football brunch for over forty years and did their part to raise Sooner Magic. Paul is survived by his wife and high school sweetheart, Linda Carroll Nance Duncan; his daughters, Dr. Deborah C. May & husband John C.H. May, R.N., of Waukomis, OK; and Phyllis G. Lower & husband Douglas Lower, of Yukon, OK; and his brother, William T. Duncan & wife Diana, of Reston, VA. Pastor Jim Adams will officiate a Memorial Service Monday, September 16, 2013, at 10:30 a.m. at the Church of the Servant at 14343 N. MacArthur, Oklahoma City, OK 73142, with a brief reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent in Paul's name to the Muscular Dystrophy Association or to the University of Oklahoma General Scholarship Fund.

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Published by Oklahoman from Sep. 8 to Sep. 13, 2013.

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Amy & Dan Hodgins

September 20, 2013

My first job as a lawyer was in the AG's office when Paul was Civil Division Chief. I was very lucky to have had such a fine mentor. The Duncan family hospitality is legendary. Paul will be missed but never forgotten. Dan and I send our condolences to the family and wish them peace and comfort in memory of a life well lived.

Sheila Kennedy-Stewart

September 16, 2013

I have just learned of Paul's passing and simply want to say that Paul was truly a compassionate and loving man. Linda, Deborah and Phyllis , you all were at the heart of his life. He was so very proud of his family. I know for me, he was the best brother-in-law one could wish for and remained a friend throughout these many years. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you and also with Bill and his family. May God grant you peace in your time of this tremendous void.

Kay Karen Kennedy

September 16, 2013

My sympathy and love are sent to the Duncan Family. May God grant you comfort and peace during this difficult time.

Becky Myers-Kirk

September 12, 2013

This wonderful man saved my life and my children's. I had the honor to work for him when I was young and have never forgot his words of kindness and wisdom. I am deeply saddened for the family and for his friends. He had so many.You are forever in my heart.

Eric Bell

September 12, 2013

When we first started playing duplicate bridge in OKC Paul and Suzy were two of the most welcoming people we could ever have asked for. I am so sorry for your loss.

Judy Fugate

September 10, 2013

I was so saddened to hear of Paul's passing. He was brilliant with a wonderful sense of humor and so kind. My thoughts and prayers to his family and friends.

Steve and Kathy Swatek

September 9, 2013

My condolences to the family. We have known the Duncan family for many years. Paul and I attended many bridge tournaments together and, while we had some "disagreements", always remained close friends. He will be greatly missed by all. We only hope he finds a bridge partner as understanding as Suzy!

September 9, 2013

My prayers are with you all..You are family to me. Paul will be greatly missed by all who knew him. I have so many happy memories at the Duncan household, they will live in heart always! I Love you Linda, Phyllis, and Debbie!

Connie Jones

September 9, 2013

A really nice, kind man. He helped and advised me when he didn't even really know me. My love and prayers to and for his family.

Deborah May

September 8, 2013

Gonna miss you, Daddy!

Charles Perkins

September 8, 2013

My condolences to Paul's family.
I knew Paul, a nice guy, in PiKA at OU and alumni activities after I graduated in January 1959.

September 8, 2013

Have known Paul and Linda since High School and have been a guest in their house many times. He and Linda are true host and hostess as they always made you feel so welcome in their home. I and my children Greg, Steven and Jamie send our love to Linda and family as they did when we lost Jim. Jim and Paul can now play backgammon all they want, Ann Adams Gray

Rita Garnett

September 7, 2013

I have known the Duncan family for many years thru my cousin Charlene... Paul was a very unique person..and he will be greatly missed

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