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Phyllis Smithee Obituary

Phyllis Ilene Logan Smithee went to be with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on July 22, 2006. She lost her courageous 4 year battle with cancer in her home in Oklahoma City. She was born in Perryton, TX on Jan 2, 1952 to Oliver Perry and wife, Lela Elberta Thiessen Logan. She graduated from Perryton High School in 1970. She attended VoTech in Liberal, KS, to be a draftsman and there met Alfred Ray Smithee on a blind date arranged by their pastors. They were married August 6, 1971 in the People's Chapel in Perryton, TX. They made their first home in Wichita, KS where Al was assistant manager of Woolworth's. The joy of her life was raising her sons. Adam, was born in Clarksdale, MS 11/2/73. Benjamin Paul was born in New Orleans, LA 2/2/ 77. During their marriage, Al's career moved them 12 times. They lived in KS, OK, MS, LA, NM, Denver, Seattle, Denver, Spokane, and finally Oklahoma City where Al is District Manager for Big Lots. Phyllis' interests were collecting dolls, cross-stitching, sewing, antiques and decorating her homes. She attended Crossroads Cathedral in OKC and was secretary for the Sunday school class taught by Al Smithee. She was a vital employee for Max Cates, MD for 6 years. She is survived by her loving husband of almost 35 years, Al Smithee; her sons, Adam and Ben of OKC; her parents, Oliver and Lela Logan of Shattuck, OK; her brother, Allen Perry and wife, Jaynie Logan of Highlands Ranch, CO; her sisters, Loretta Cates and Crystal Finley of OKC, OK and their spouses, Max Cates, MD and Doug Finley; her brother, Wesley Logan and wife Debbie of Perryton, TX; numerous nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins. Preceded in death by her grandparents, Willie and Ellen Jones Logan of Perryton, TX and Ben & Lydia Dobrinski Thiessen of Inola, OK. In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to Hospice of Oklahoma County, Inc. Service to celebrate her life will be held at Crossroads Cathedral, Friday, July 28th at 2PM.

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Published by Oklahoman on Jul. 26, 2006.

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Max Cates, MD

August 20, 2006

Phyllis was a wonderful sister-in-law. I had the privilege of getting to know her well since she was also an excellent employee for me for 6 years.



I miss her!

Crystal Finley

August 19, 2006

Phyllis was a beautiful person and the perfect Proverbs 31 woman. I miss her very much.



Your sister

Crystal

Lisa Winkle

July 28, 2006

Remebering Phyllis has always made me smile. She was always happy and positive. When I was young I was lucky enough to get to spend a couple of summers with Phyllis and Al and those I times I now treasure. She was a very special person and she will be missed terribly. My love and prayers to the family.

Sandra Godfrey

July 28, 2006

Phyllis and I were close friends during middle and high school in Perryton. We both have shared the same faith in God from childhood on to our adult life. We both married Christian Husbands and were blessed with wonderful children.

I am so sad that the trip I was planning to make to Dallas where Gloria, Phyllis, and I were going to meet to rekindle old memories of high school never happened.

To her family and friends, you are in my prayers. Phyllis was a wonderful person, great friend, loving mother and wife, and a blessing to the ones around her. Phyllis say hello to my loved ones in Heaven, and some day we will have that reunion that we never had on earth!

Ron Sutterfield

July 27, 2006

Every time I would come into the doctors office it was really nice to see your smile. You were always friendly and had an uplifted nature. I will always remember you and I miss you alot. My condolonces go out to the family.

Gloria Wagner Mayfield

July 27, 2006

Was so sorry to hear about Phyllis's passing. I had not seen her since we graduated from high school, but I have thought of her often. I know it is hard, but she is not suffering any longer, and is in a much better place. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Barbara Avery

July 27, 2006

Thank you for being such a strong loving individual, we will surely miss your smile and laughter.

JoAnn Sutterfield

July 26, 2006

I remember your smile when you would greet people at the doctors office. At that time I did not know you were so ill. I look back at it now and I see that your belief in God was carrying you through and giving you the strength to have that smile. I will always remember you for that and because of your belief ;it showed me and alot of other people, that God can help all of those in need. My condolences to all of the family.

Aunt Ann

July 26, 2006

My sweet Phyllis -- I'll miss you so much, since you've been promoted; but I know you are happy and healthy now. I'll look forward to laughing with you again!!!

Francie Bates

July 26, 2006

I am so sorry for your loss. Phyllis taught me alot in the short time that i knew her. She will be missed alot around here. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Jennifer Gregory

July 26, 2006

Adam,



So sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I will keep you in my prayers.



Jennifer Gregory

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Loretta

July 26, 2006

We will miss you so much!



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