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Katie P
April 22, 2025
Happy heavenly birthday grand-pop! We sure miss your dancing feet down here! Love you always! Katie & Christian.
Sean Pontius
April 20, 2025
My grandfather was a loving and hard working man. He was motivating and full of hilarious jokes to always make the family laugh. and feel at home We miss his curly hair!!!! Go rest high on that mountain! Save some space or us!!!! God bless
---Sean Pontius
Cheryl Allen Pontius
April 19, 2025
Dad,
HAPPY 88th HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY!
You are missed as the patriarch of our family although you have passed the baton to good, faithful men that are here with us!
I love you and all our family who are celebrating with you in the great beyond!
Katie P
November 1, 2024
You are missed and loved grandpa! I miss your silly laugh & cowboy dances! Thank you for watching over us all. Love, Katie && Christian
Sarah Pontius
November 1, 2024
It´s amazing to think it´s been 17 years since that shocking call came in that you didn´t wake up. 17 years later and I can still hear your laugh! Give my Grandparents a big hug from me, and please keep watching over all of us! Rest in Peace, Grandpa!
Sarah
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 1, 2024
Been thinking about you, Dad.
You went to your new home 17 years ago today (All Saints Day).
Heard a song that reminded me of you-BORN COUNTRY.
Mom and I visited your resting place, so beautifully manicured, not a weed anywhere, and decorated by Denise and Kevin in bursting fall colors.
While there in the warm sun, we played Bocelli´s version of the Our Father and sang for you.
We try to honor the values that Mom and you taught your beautiful children as we live our lives.
Please continue being our guardian Angel, God willing,
and tell Ken´s Dad and Mom that we love and miss them if you see them!!
We love and miss you!
Love,
Your daughter,
Cheryl Allen Pontius
Katie P
April 20, 2024
Happy heavenly birthday! We love and miss you!!
Cheryl Allen Pontius
April 19, 2024
Happy 87th Heavenly Birthday, Dad/Grandpa/Papa Allen!
We love and miss you-curly haired, dimpled chin, left hander born in Fairfax (Osage County), raised in Dibble mostly, played basketball for the Blanchard Lions, joined Air Force at 17 with parents´ permission, earned GED, sent all first couple years paychecks to your parents to help them and Ned and Pug still at home EXCEPT $5, married a pretty Catholic Mainer, had 6 kids-FED, CLOTHED, SHELTERED, entertained 5kids, encouraged a good EDUCATION with ALL your children, worked successfully in fire fighting/security in the Air Force, during the Vietnam War, at Will Rogers, and overseas in Turkey, United Emirates and Egypt, helped pretty Melda raise Hazem who graduated from OU, loved traveling, was an OLYMPIC CHAMPION of the gift of gab, loved fishing, was the first family genealogist who shared family stories and family members with us, loved loved loved his grandchildren, shared wisdom, smiled broadly showing his teeth, danced with snapping fingers and bootie out, left us too young-age 70.
We celebrate the day God brought you into the world by way of Effie Lorene Irons Allen and Thomas Doyle Allen!
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 1, 2023
On All Saints Day, Thinking of you, Dad....
when your dreams were big and a wide road lay ahead of you!
We 5 kids (6, with our Angel baby Tommy) were but a TWINKLE in your eye back then!
As we joined you, much effort was given to raise us RIGHT and much encouragement given to honor family traditions!!
Mom and I attended Mass tonight for our loved ones who have gone before us.
We lit a candle in remembrance of you.
We find comfort knowing you are with our Heavenly Father and family.
We love and miss you and pray LIFE IS GOOD ON THE OTHER SIDE!
Love,
Your daughter,
Cheryl Allen Pontius
Sarah Pontius
April 19, 2023
Happy Heavenly birthday, Grandpa! I would have loved to spend more time with you here on earth, but I´ll settle for you being my guardian angel instead. Love you!!
Your granddaughter, Sarah.
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
April 19, 2023
Dear Dad,
On your birthday, Sean (your grandson) said he had an image of you and your Dad fishing to celebrate your 86th!
May you catch many fish together while spinning tales in the great beyond!
We love you!
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
April 19, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday celebrating the day of your birth 86 years ago to Thomas DOYLE Allen and Effie Lorene Irons Allen. Your mom told me that every one who saw you said you were the "prettiest" baby they´d seen with your big, brown eyes and curly hair. She sounded so proud of you, her baby!
This evening, your grandson, Sean, and I were sharing stories of you. His favorite stories that you told were the airplane travels and passenger ones.
We were laughing as we spoke on the phone.
There will be a Mass at St. Andrew´s today in honor of your life and Baby Tommy´s too.
We shall sing and celebrate.
As our guardian Angel, we appreciate your help as God wills!
We love and miss you dearly!
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 1, 2022
Hard to believe that 15 years ago, Dad/Grandpa, you went to live your new life.
I imagine you´re fishing with Uncles Estle and Ned and Grandpa Irons.
Mom, Denise and I visited your resting place, warm wind messing with our hair. We listened to The Judds sing, "Grandpa (Tell Me `Bout The Good Old Days)" in memory of your grandkids enjoying your stories.
I read to Mom and Denise the message I wrote on Blanchard, Oklahoma´s singing artist, Jody Miller´s Legacy.com.:
"During this sad time, I thought I would share a sweet story about Jody Miller. My father and mother were on a date attending her concert at an Air Force Base in England. The year was about 1969. While thoroughly enjoying her performance, my Dad said Jody took a breather to address her fans before her next song. She was chit chatting and my onery Dad yells out, "HELLO MYRNA!!"
She put her hand to her eyes to look out at the audience and responds, "okay, who is from BLANCHARD, OK?"
My Dad said, "Tinker Allen" and she was so excited and said, "I´ll talk with you later!"
(Jody went to school with my Dad´s younger brother, Wayne NED Allen).
She invited my Dad and Mom to stay after the concert to visit with TINKER from Blanchard and reminisce. Dad and Mom said that she was so down to earth and friendly! Whenever my Dad shared that story, he´d grin from ear to ear!
My father is now buried at Dibble Cemetery in the Allen family plot-He passed onwards, Nov. 1, 2007.
I imagine there were a lot of "country folks" to greet "Jody" in the great by and by-family, classmates, entertainers, friends and I´d like to think my Dad was one, grinning ear to ear!
Sending prayers of comfort to the loved ones of Jody Miller."
I am blessed to have been raised by a father with common sense roots and love for the family tree.
May you be at peace in your restful place, Dad!
I love you dearly!
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
April 19, 2022
Happy 85th, Dad, Grandpa, PaPa
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
April 19, 2022
Happy 85th Birthday, dear Dad!
We (Mom, Melda and I) visited your resting place in Dibble. The winds whipped at 25mph as we sang happy birthday! We also
played Battle Hymn of the Republic and Amazing Grace accompanied by bagpipes on the radio.
We shared how much we miss you and your helpful advice.
I pray you are having good times with Melda´s brother, Willy, who recently moved on and with your sweet niece, Trina, too!
On this day of your birth, I send hugs and kisses to you!
Love your eldest daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Katie Pontius
November 2, 2021
We sure miss your goofy laugh and silly walk! I feel peace knowing you´re watching over us :) love you!
Sarah Pontius
November 1, 2021
I remember it was about this time 14 year ago when I waddled up to your house in a ketchup costume to wish you a Happy Halloween. Your grin welcomed me! I still miss your stories and your laugh. I love and miss you!
Sarah
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 1, 2021
Dad,
Remembering you and the passing of 14 years since you moved on.
I miss you very much!
I heard a line in a movie that a person lives in the stories he/she told.
I agree. You shared so many stories with us all and entertained us well.
As I remember and share them, I will keep your memory alive.
May God bless you dearest Dad!
Love,
Your eldest daughter
Sarah Pontius
April 19, 2021
Happy Birthday, Grandpa! I miss you daily! I know you’re my angel who helps guide me through this life, and for that I am thankful! I love you always!
Sarah
Katie Pontius
April 19, 2021
Happy birthday in Heaven grandpa! We love and miss you on the ground down here! Do a little dance up there while you watch over us ❤ Love love love, Katie and Christian
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
April 19, 2021
Happy 84th Birthday, dear Dad!
I started your day with a Mass celebrating your life as well as Baby Tommy’s too.
Mom and I attended; my first Mass since CoVid showed itself.
On this day, I miss having Aunt Bigon’s chocolate pie with you.
The meringue topped with a golden, royal crown holding one candle would make me smile.
You would have beamed broadly and enjoyed your birthday pie.
You always liked your gifts and were thankful.
I think of you as a gift which I am thankful for. A gift given to me by God to raise me and advise me. I listened more than not.
As Grandpa/Papa, your grandkids laughed with you and enjoyed your stories.
I wish we could celebrate together although I rest assured that you are in GOOD COMPANY!!!!!
May God bless you forever!
Happy 84!
Love,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 12, 2020
In honor of Dad/Grandpa/Papa who served and protected America, Greenland, France, England, and South Vietnam during the war. These countries and their people are safer for it!
Thank you on Veterans Day!!
Sarah Pontius
November 1, 2020
Grandpa,
I can’t believe another year has come and gone without you here. I still see your big grin sitting on your front porch when I go to visit Melda and Hazem on Halloween.
I hope you’re enjoying Heaven. Maybe you’re holding Snoopy, the comfort puppy our family gave Melda And Hazem after your passing. Snoopy has passed away now, leaving Melda’a arms, and hopefully now, in yours.
I had a dream about you the other day! Your hair was slicked back and long. You told me I was your favorite. I know you loved us all equally, but it was special to see your face again.
I love you, Rest In Peace
Sarah
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 1, 2020
In memory of our Dad/Papa and his life. Thirteen years ago, he moved on...he’s always loved, never forgotten. ❤
Cheryl Allen Pontius
April 19, 2020
Happy 83rd Birthday, Dad!
We pray you are celebrating with
multitudes of family and friends on
this day that you were born!
Grandma Allen said you were the
prettiest (yes, she said prettiest) baby
shed ever seen. Everyone fussed over
you! As you aged, you were a nice boy
too. Your cousins (one from Dibble and one from Fairfax) said so.
I believe that you brought the skills
from your childhood combined with
lifes lessons to be our provider, our
protector!
We thank you for trying to do your best.
Feel our love for you and joy for your
life!
Happy 83rd!
Love,
Cheryl Allen Pontius
Katie Pontius
April 19, 2020
Happy birthday to our funny, silly, happy grandpa up in the heavens! We love you and miss you down here. I know youre doing a happy jig up there while youre watching over us! Love you!
Love, Katie and Christian ❤
Dad's Clan
Cheryl Allen Pontius
April 19, 2020
Cheryl Pontius
November 11, 2019
Dad,
Thinking of you on Veteran's Day and wanting to express my gratitude from a grateful family and nation!
We honor your time in Vietnam and then Thailand as a representative of America's military, protecting our people there as well as their people during a dangerous phase of history.
Those memories haunted you at times!
May God bless all veterans and their military careers with peacefulness!
May God bless you our dearest Dad!
Love,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius and family
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 2, 2019
Dear Dad,
I attended Mass for All Saints Day today. We prayed for departed souls. This day would be the one where your soul moved onwards, Nov. 1st in 2007.
Twelve years later, our family moves forward, carrying you with us. Your teachings, your silly jokes, your love of kinship, your storytelling, your adventurous nature, your strong work ethics, your good night song.
I feel blessed that our Heavenly Father selected you for my Dad!
I feel thankful to have been raised by you!
I feel fortunate to continue your legacy!
Loving and Missing YOU,
Your daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Sarah Pontius
November 2, 2019
Well Grandpa, it has been been 12 years and one day since you died, and even though you haven't physically been with me through all the day to day moments, I still think of you. I picture your onery grin and unique walk and miss you everyday. I love you!
- Your granddaughter, Sarah
Katie Pontius
November 2, 2019
Grandpa. I know that you are always looking down on us watching us through life. Our happy moments and our not so happy moments, in each one, you are there smiling and holding our hand guiding us along. We love you so much and miss you!
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
November 12, 2018
Dearest Dad,
I am writing in honor of my father who served his country during peacetime and the Vietnam War in the United States Air Force. He was proud of his military career as were we all.
He supplied our family with an adventurous, comfortable and educational life!
Thank you, Dad, for chosing to serve your country that you loved and for living patriotism that I treasure!
May God bless you, all veterans and America!
With Much Love and Admiration,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Katie Pontius
November 2, 2018
11 years ago today you were called to be an angel. We love and miss you every day. I know you're protecting us and watching over us, smiling. Love and miss you
Katie
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
November 1, 2018
We visited your earthly resting place today. The weather was chilly and dull although the sun did join us later. Comfort kept us warm.
We ate lunch in Blanchard. I enjoyed beans and cornbread with blackberry cobbler to finish, all in your honor.
ELEVEN years ago, you were called onwards. I miss you daily, Dad and am reassured that there is a peace that passes all understanding, for you and for me.
Love,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Katie Pontius
April 20, 2018
Happy birthday grandpa!! I know you're dancing in heaven! And watching over us. We love and miss you!
Love you always, Katie and Christian
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
April 19, 2018
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Dad!
We would have celebrated with 81 candles on your favorite chocolate meringue pie (Aunt Bigon's family recipe).
You are celebrating in a different and better way!! ❤❤❤❤
We all miss and love you dearly!
Happy 81st, Ole' Glory!!
Love,
Your daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 10, 2017
Writing in honor of my Dad and his military career. While serving in the Air Force, he was stationed at Tan Son Nhut Air Base, Saigon, Vietnam. What his five senses experienced and what scars remained were known to him, rarely shared. Thank you, Dad, for bravely going to work daily in a dangerous war and performing your duties to the highest standard while constantly reminded of a wife and five children living without you back in Salina, Kansas at the Waiting Wives Base, Schilling Manor. You did safely return to our "Welcome Home" banner that we helped Mom color, decorate and hang to cheer you. Mom and you planned a family trip to Disney World in Orlando, Florida for us all to enjoy. We stayed with friends from a previous Air Force assignment, The Griffins. While attending their church service, someone at the altar banged something rather loudly and you fell to the floor laying flat in front of the pew. I looked down at you as you looked up and jokingly said, "Incoming". This one event put your war into perspective for me! Yessir!
You are no longer at war and enjoying a new life. Welcoming your baby sister, Delores, (Pug) home with you and your two brothers, Estle and Ned, as well as your parents is an image I treasure. The Allen family of Dibble/Fairfax/Blanchard is reunited. We pray for Aunt Pug's family who will miss her dearly since she left on Nov. 9th, and realize there will be a great reunion in the sweet by and by.
On Veteran's Day, I thank you for serving our nation and for teaching me to serve!
May God bless you!
I love you, Dad!
Your daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Katie Pontius
November 2, 2017
Grandpa,
We all miss you so much! We know you've got your cowboy boots on and dancing in heaven! I miss your big smile and goofy laugh! Love you so much, Christian and Katie
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 1, 2017
Dear Dad,
Today is a tough day for me. Remembering you leaving us to join the heavenly family 10 years ago was earth shattering. With time, God, in ALL his mercy, has calmed the sadness and encouraged me that you are fine!
Your sister, Pug, is in a tough way now. Bless her heart! She suffers with poor lung function and now a stroke, yet she tries to talk, smiles some and seems to understand. I've been visiting her and Melda went too. She said that if you were here, you'd be with your sister in the hospital, so she went for you. True, you would!!
There are MANY types of health issues among family members. Our God is helping and healing in his time and our heavenly angels are comforting us as well. I pray for continued healing for all and peace in each one's life as well as the strength to make changes and endure.
I am at peace with your passing a decade ago and realize it was the time to go onwards. Having you here for 10 more years of conversations, advice and good ole times like Ken and others have enjoyed with their parents would have been grand! I thank the Lord for the time we did have together and want ALL to know that my life was better with you in it. I miss you very much, Dad!
Today, I will visit your resting place, play some of your favorite songs and enjoy some precious memories.
Your legacy lives on!
I love you! ❤
Your daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Cheryl Pontius
June 18, 2017
As my day comes to a close, I feel a sudden wave of sadness after a lovely day.
Realizing we have been celebrating Father's Day, it dawned on me that I'm very much missing my father, my Dad today!
May God BLESS ALL fathers, here and with our Lord.
I love you and I miss you, Dad!
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Cheryl Allen Pontius
April 19, 2017
Dear Dad,
Writing to say Happy 80th Birthday today!
Denise (who says "hi" and misses you terribly), Mom, Melda, and I celebrated by bringing a Happy Birthday sign to your resting place and singing the birthday song to you.
We know you enjoyed it!
Afterward, we ate dinner at the Dibble Cafe. Delicious!
We ran into a distant cousin of yours'- Mary from the Ledbetter side. Her deceased husband's birthday is also today and she was at the same cemetery putting flowers on his grave. She saw us there and wondered who we were. Then we meet her at the Cafe and find out she went to school with you (Tinker), her cousin on the Ledbetter side and her classmate!
She said you were always laughing, telling jokes and mentioned that she still has your funny poem you wrote in her autograph book. She thought highly of you! Mary shared a story about you kids riding on a cotton truck and picking cotton. She said it'd get so cold that you all would crawl into the cotton bags to get warm. Ha!
She smiled when remembering how much your Mom and Dad loved to dance at the community dances.
Mary thought your Dad drilled her water well on her property.
She shared the history of your Ledbetters who came to Virginia from Wales in the 1600's. Her son is doing the research.
She was a pretty lady for almost 80...dark hair and blue eyes, lovely skin.
We talked for almost an hour, then exchanged phone numbers hoping to see one another again.
WOW! We were supposed to go to Dibble Cemetery today. There are NO coincidences!
Talking with your distant cousin made me feel so CLOSE to you, Dad!
I am blessed to have spent your birthday celebrating and remembering YOU!
Happy 80th dear Dad!
Love Always,
Your Daughter,
Cheryl Allen Pontius
Sarah Pontius
April 19, 2017
Happy Birthday, Grandpa! I have missed you dearly since you left this life. I still see your big grin and welcoming eyes when I look at my Mom, Aunts and Uncle. I know you would be proud of me, where I am today and where I have been since I last saw you. I know you were looking down from heaven when I shot a gun like Annie Oakley. I could hear you cheering me on as I hit my Coke can targets. You were flying with me when I skydived out of a plane, although you would have given me a hard time for it. I can only imagine that your sarcastic remarks would have been somewhere in between "what on God's green earth were you thinking" and "sign me up to go watch next time"! Hehe. I took a jet boat out from the Keys in Florida, but I ran out of gas and began to float too close towards Cuba. I could feel you laughing with me as the Coast Guard towed me back home to America. You see, Grandpa, I'm not really afraid to live. I know there will be blunders along the way. I'm sure that every now and then I may run out of gas in the middle of the ocean, but that's life! I think I inherited my spirit for living from you- the brave man who would run into a fire just so he could be the guy who puts it out. You gave me a zest for life! "The world traveler!" I still plan on going to Ireland one day, I'll sit in a pub and think of you. I still wish I would have taken you up on the offer to see the pyramids of Egypt, up close! I miss you, however, I can only imagine what you must be doing. I assume it's something adventurous and exciting! Until we meet again, and thanks for always watching over me.Love, Your Sarah
Katie Pontius
April 19, 2017
Happy 80th birthday grandpa!!! We love and miss you!! You would have been such a fun and positive influence in Christian's life. He says he loves you! I hope you're 2 stepping up in heaven today!! Happy birthday, we miss and we love you. Love katie and Christian
Mikaylee Allen
November 15, 2016
9 years and 14 Days. That's 3,299 days. Wow. Hard to believe we've all spent 3,299 days with out you, Papa. It's been a long time but the memories and love for you never fade, and they never will. I hope you're watching down on all of us and are proud of what we're all becoming, because I know I am. The accomplishments that the family has made are remarkable. Thanksgiving is coming up and it will be the 9th one spent with out you, but know that you will be with each and every one of us, in our hearts. We love and miss you dearly!
Paula Allen
November 12, 2016
Dear dad (tom).
We sure miss ur smiling face. Every day is hard and we think of u every day but we understand why u had to go. U would b so proud of everyone. I love and miss u much. Your daughter-in-law, paula
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 11, 2016
Taking a moment to thank my father for serving and protecting our country in the United States Air Force.
With the riots occurring after the Trump presidential election, I am reminded of the same behavior for the returning Vietnam War vets of which my dad was one. These brave individuals were not warmly welcomed as today war vets. I'm very happy times have changed and our war vets are honored and thanked upon return from any conflict. This is right!
Thinking about my father's return years ago from wartime and his feelings afterward, the whole thing mattered greatly to our family, to me and to him for the rest of his life!
Thank you, Dad, for teaching me the correct way to love my country and to participate in healthy, respectful ways. God bless our wonderful veterans and God bless you, Dad!
Love Always,
Your Eldest,
Cheryl
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 1, 2016
Nine years......
I'm missing you, Dad!
Doyle Pierson, Deb and Dawn's Okie softball coach and my friend, Elaine's dad passed on a couple weeks ago. His family is missing him too.
Please continue to guard and guide us from heaven's realm and maybe you can teach Mr. Pierson to do the same for his family.
Nine years. I'm missing my Dad......
Love Always,
Your eldest,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Cheryl Allen Pontius
April 19, 2016
Happy 79th Birthday, Dad!!! In honor of your birthday, Ken and I took your great grandson, Christian, to visit the OKC Memorial Museum. At age 4, he was interested in the work that the firemen did and was surprised by the room with the debris from the blast. We saw a photo of Jon Hansen in there and I hoped you were able to greet him with a bear hug into paradise! Maybe you are sharing a tale or two!
As you are aware, Niecie's health is doing wonderfully and we are all so thankful to our Lord! I'm also thankful for the seventy years we spent together, Dad! I have many memories to brighten my days! I have special songs like "Silver Wings" by Merle Haggard that we treasured. Did you sing Merle back home when he entered paradise on his 79th birthday this month? I would love to hear that. May God bless you, Dad, as well as Jon and Merle and may our heavenly family continue to guide us through life!
Lovingly,
Your daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 11, 2015
I'm writing in honor of my dad, a United States Air Force and Vietnam War veteran. He honored his country and family by serving and protecting! He was a southern man with southern charm and a wit that filled a room. He loved his fire protection work in the Air Force and gave our family a wonderfully fulfilling life!!!!! His respect for the military and its traditions was supreme. His eyes would weep when TAPS was played and his hand saluted the flag. Whether he rode on a helicopter, a tanker, a jeep, or a fire truck, Dad arrived ready to pull his weight and yours for the success of any mission. He was quite a veteran!
May we remember all veterans on their special day. May we also remember that America is still a land of opportunity! May God bless all veterans and their families! May God bless my dad and his family!
You are missed daily and loved forever,
Your daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Cheryl Pontius
November 1, 2015
While watching the World Series, I'm reminded of how much you enjoyed baseball/softball. You loved the game and your kids playing the game which they all did VERY WELL!!!!! Since you went onwards 8 years ago, there have been good and bad times. Some have been both.... Your Niecie with lymphoma (very bad) BUT her bravery, non complaining nature, perseverance, toughness, and faith would bring you much peace. Denise and Kevin continue to decorate, mow and weedeat your grave and keep it beautiful. Denise mowed the other day in her condition and I know she did it as a gift to you! Mom, Melda, Denise and I spent the most lovely day at Dibble Cemetery. The sun rays warmed us and there was little wind. We talked and listened to music. I played George Jones "I Don't Need No Rocking Chair" which was your motto! You enjoyed adventure and family times and we certainly MISS you at them, Dad! We all love you dearly and pray for you! You are forever in my heart!
Love Always,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius,
Eldest daughter
Denise Gibson
April 19, 2015
Dad:
Just wanted to write something on your Legacy page remembering what would have been your 78th birthday today. As I watched the 20 year Memorial service for the Oklahoma City bombing, I was thinking how ironic it is that you will always share this sad day with those innocent victims taken on that horrible April 19th 20 years ago. While the victims' families gather on the 20th anniversary to remember their loved ones, I sat at home remembering you and how different life has been without you here for almost 8 years now. We all miss you terribly and wish you were still here on this earth with us. I know in my heart you are ok and I also know that I will see you again someday. So on this April 19th, I just want to acknowledge what would have been your 78th birthday and remind you how often you are thought of. You will always be forever in my heart.
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius (eldest daughter)
April 19, 2015
Dear Dad,
Sending this message your way to wish you a very Happy 78th Birthday! As I listen to the bagpipes play during the OKC 20th Memorial Sevice for the Bombing of the Murrah Building, I remember your spirit. Your spirit of family, service, education, and compassion...Your LOVE is felt and we know you watch over us. We continue sending our prayers your way as we continue in our lives. Again, Happy Birthday, Dad! We love you! God bless you!
Cheryl Pontius
November 12, 2014
I write this in honor of my veteran dad who faithfully served his country in the Air Force and in the Vietnam War. As a 17 year-old, he left Oklahoma for his first assignment at Thule, Greenland in 1954. Dad said it was quite a shock and the winds were fierce and relentless!! After reading more about Thule, I understand. Geographically, it sits less than 1,000 miles south of the North Pole, about 700 miles north of the Artic Circle and a hop, skip and a jump from Russia which is the reason Thule was established for our protection. The base opened one year before dad arrived and was built by the US Navy out of Norfolk, Va as Operation Blue Jay. The men lived on the ships and worked in July's midnight sun until quarters were built. The project is said to be second in grandeur to the Panama Canal. And my father arrived after this complex project was completed to provide fire protection to pilots, their planes and the rest of the very cold base. Thule sits at sea level and has some of the highest winds on earth at sea level. Dad confirmed this. From there, he landed at Bangor Air Force Base, Maine now Bangor Airport, where he soon met my mom, married her and started our family journeys all over the world for over 21 years, including a year of war in Vietnam and Thailand. Again, thank you dad for teaching me to love my country, salute our flag and carry on the patriotic traditions to my family. Happy Veteran's Day to you and all veterans of the good ole USA!!
Love always,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Cheryl Pontius
November 1, 2014
My dearest, precious, loving dad,
Living seven years without you makes me very sad,
But comforted in knowing you are peaceful and glad,
And that you were a well meaning and generous father, blessed with you being the best I could have had,
Missed daily, enormously, not a tiny bit or tad!!!!!
Celebrating your life, Dad!
I love you forever!
Your eldest daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Cheryl Pontius
April 19, 2014
Happy 77th Birthday, Dad!!!! I hope you and Aunt Beverlee Savoy are having some fun conversation since she has joined you! I keep you close in my heart everyday. I love you forever!
Your eldest daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Mikaylee
December 27, 2013
Hey Papa. Merry late Christmas. I found pictures the other day from my birthday with you in them. brings back some memories. I wish you could be here with us, but everyone passes at some point. I love and miss you dearly.
Cheryl Pontius
November 11, 2013
This message is to honor and to remember the brave, loyal American veterans buried in Dibble Cemetery, Oklahoma. I am thankful our country has a day dedicated to those who serve, protect and defend America. My dad, Tom "Tinker" Allen, experienced the war zones of Vietnam and Thailand. We were blessed he returned home to us!! Not all did and their names are lovingly engraved on a beautiful stone wall in Washington, D.C. Other relatives such as dad's brother, Ned and Uncle Homer served too and I am appreciative. My grandfather and Uncle Estle were great patriots and I learned a lot from them. These veterans and patriots who now rest in peace exemplify great Americans. I love you all and miss you dearly!! I want to thank my sister, Denise, and her husband, Kevin Gibson, for remembering our family veterans by displaying flags and flowers on their graves. We all are thankful for your devotion and labor of love!! We remember your dad too, Kevin, who served our country in two military branches selflessly and who loved his country. May he rest in peace in Resthaven Cemetery in Oklahoma City.
Cheryl Pontius
November 1, 2013
My Dearest Dad,
Six years ago, life for me changed when you were pronounced gone at the Moore Medical Center which the May 20th tornado destroyed. It is gone, you are gone....no physical presence but there are lasting images in my memory. Memories of my dad who helped my wonderful mom raise me. This stubborn, opinionated child who also learned to love deeply, respect, honor God's laws, and appreciate with thankfulness. Peaceful doves still appear to remind me of your and God's love for me and I smile at their appearance. Your brother, Wayne "NED", has joined you now. I pray you three brothers are having fun with Grandpa and cousin, Bob Irons, fishing and telling tales. Halloween night was very fun with your great grandson, Christian, dressing as Alfalfa from Little Rascals, one of your favorite shows. Our Gang was like our family...composed of soo many different yet precious personalities sharing mischief and fun. You would have laughed and grinned at his amazing resemblance. Halloween night was the last time I spoke with you six years ago. If I could predict the future and I knew Nov.1st you would no longer be with us, I would have spent all night reassuring you of how great a dad you were and how thankful I am that you helped guide me!!!! We would have shared stories while belly laughing and sang your favorite songs like Waylon Jennings "Good Hearted Woman". We would have prayed together. Your prayer for Ken after he had his surgery for heart stents was beautiful and your tears sincere. It is one of my many precious memories!!! Most of all... My precious memory is YOU, DAD, YOU!!! I love you forever!!!!!
Until we meet again,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Cheryl Pontius
July 21, 2013
My heart tugs without you here. In the toughest hours, a dove appears and I feel the comfort of our Heavenly Father and you !!! Love,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Ken
November 20, 2012
I heard an old Don Williams song that reminded me of you. The lyrics “I guess you would say we are going to be what we are going to be, I can still hear the soft southern winds in the live oak tree. So what do you do with good ol boys like me? “Well if you were here what would I ask of you... what advice would I seek? Could you understand? How could you, when so much is offered and so much is squandered? My dad is my hero and the man I go to for wisdom. But you offered a different viewpoint. The boy from Dibble whose personality was burned and set like iron by Oklahoma's blistering summers and frozen winters knew only one way to look at life and who would many times start giving advice with "I may not know much cause I'm just an ol country boy from Dibble Oklahoma” It's a country boy's way of seeing things. Life for you was black and white and never grey. So when I try to find peace and try to understand the folks I love the most I guess I just have to listen, maybe God provides answers in the soft winds blowing in those same southern trees…
November 19, 2012
Dear (tom) dad,
Today is November19th, 2012. I didnt get to write to you here on your birthday but I did post on facbook.It was a really hard day that day,it was also our dogs (Tommy Tinker Allen)birthday. I thought about you alot that day but mostly I thought of your children amd how it been 5 years since you left us but the pain does'nt seem to be getting better.Every day I look at your son and see more of you in him than I ever thought possible. I see your girls and I know when they look at him, They see you too. He talks like you, looks like you and he is even getting your build.you would b so proud of all your kids,They have really done te best that they can over your death. They are strong, loving and caring and you helped make them who they are. Im so sorry I did not send Mikaylee to you more. She talks alot about you, U should see her she is a wonderful softball player just like Mike but she has been around Katie and Sarah alot in the last year so I think She might turn out to b a Girley Girl. Lets Hope She never wanted to comb her hair before. Enough of that. we love and miss you every day. R.I.P.
Mike, Paula, and Mikaylee
November 16, 2012
WE are going to miss you for Thanksgiving again this year but u are always with us.. we love you. R.I.P. Mike, Paula & Mikaylee.
November 12, 2012
Dad:
I am putting this comment that I originally tried posting on Facebook early morning of 11/1/12 but because I did something wrong, it didn't post correctly and apparently no one (besides Kevin and I) were able to read it. Here is what I intended to post on FB 11/1/12:
5 years ago today I lost the "other" most important man in my life, my dad. I still miss him every day but know he is alright and that I will see him again one day. Just remember that physical things are nice but the MOST important thing in life is your family (with the exception of God of course). You have to make the most of the time you have on this earth because you never know when it will be your time to go. I want to thank the most important man in my life today, Kevin for his support during my difficult time dealing with my dad's very unexpected death. He helped me get through it while dealing with the loss of his own dad 5 months earlier. Thank you Kevin for loving and supporting me. Thank you dad (and mom too) for sculpting me into the person I am today. Forever in my heart dad! Love Denise
Now that I'm in your Guestbook and since today is 11/12/12, the actual "observance" day for Veterans Day (which was actually Sunday), I want to take a minute to tell you how proud I always was of you for not only the time you served in the Air Force (21 years), but especially for the time you served this country in the Vietnam war. We (your family) could never understand what you went through while over there but definitely knew it changed you forever when you came back. I truly regret that I didn't tell you this many times while you were alive but now that your gone, I want you to know this now. I'm REALLY PROUD of you dad, and thank you so much for the many, many years you gave to this country we call America. You are, and will always be my hero. I love you, miss you dearly, and you will always be "Forever in my Heart".
Love Always,
Denise
November 12, 2012
Dearest Dad,
I am writing on this SPECIAL day devoted to all VETERANS whose dedication and sacrifice is forever appreciated. These patriots left homestates, families, friends, and all they knew for the larger picture, the greater good.
I am especially thankful for your honorable service in the United States Air Force, Civil Engineering Squadron, Fire and Rescue Department for over 21 years. Dangerous missions spent in Vietnam and Thailand during the War, at McGuire AFB and the attached Missile Site in New Jersey during the Cuban Missile Crisis and of the multitude of fires and rescue incidents will be your military legacy.
I wish to express my deep affection for the courageous veterans in my life starting with you, Dad, and including Ken, Poppa Lou, Jim Savoy and Pontius, Uncle Ned, Kenneth Kerr, Uncle Homer and our living WWII Veteran, Uncle Edwin Savoy. Lovers of their country and a job well done!
GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!!
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
November 1, 2012
Here we are...5 years later...still tough not having your wise, fatherly presence in our lives.
I celebrated your life today by watching your memorial video, then Ken and I watched, then Sean, Ken and I watched, then Katie, Sean, Ken and I watched while your 1 1/2-year-old great grandson, Christian, danced. (He sticks his bootie out whilst bouncing on his knees; you would LAUGH.) Sarah is visiting in Scranton, Pa or she would have watched too. We were remarking how similar Sean's appearance is to your's. We chuckled at some of the photos of your various expressions.
I miss you every day, Dad. I am so appreciative that you were concerned for us, even in adulthood and married life. I enjoyed your wit and intelligence, your fun loving nature.
I wish we could discuss the global issues that are surrounding us and toss opinions around the living room. I wish you could encourage Katie, Sarah and Sean with common sense advice from a grandpa. I wish you could "horse around" with Christian. I wish you could pat Denise on the back for her promotion at work...you would grin from ear to ear. I wish you could visit Ken at Station 1. I wish you two could get down to the business of discussing fire dept bull. I wish you could have held my fishing pole while reeling in my BIG catfish from Lake Liberty. I wish you could cheer Mikaylee at softball games and help Joseph in his college considerations. I wish you could joke with TJ and Marcus. I wish you could see the magnificent Devon Tower your son surveyed from basement to cloud touching top. I wish you could visit Kevin and bring him something yummy to eat after his recent back surgery. I wish you could spend another holiday at Dawn and Dale's comfortable home. I wish you could wrap in one of Paula's quilts. I wish you could ask Rick what his claim to fame is. I wish you could show Debbie how proud you are for her volunteering to nurse your brother as he heals in Miami. Can you imagine him without nicotine and good airflow? I wish you could have a no nonsense discussion regarding mom's back and nerves with her. I wish you could witness how well Hazem is doing at OU in his degree plan and how well Melda is managing in all her loneliness. Although I could keep wishing, my GREATEST WISH is for your eternal peace in the loving arms of God our Father forever and ever. AMEN!!
I love you always,
Your eldest daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
P.S. I wish you greeted your cousin who you held in high regard, Chuck Kerr, into the heavenly family. You two have Vietnam in your souls.
Mikaylee
April 19, 2012
Happy Birthday papa. It seems like just yesterday I was sitting on your lap and u were making all of us laugh. I miss those days....... I love and miss u dearly.
Paula
April 19, 2012
Happy birthday daddy Tom. We miss and love u very much. The kids are all growing so fast. I wish u could see Mikaylee. She plays ball just like mike always did. Heart and soul. We think of u everyday, today being one of the hardest days to get through. We love u lots. Mike, Paula, Mikaylee and Tink.....
Mikaylee Allen
April 14, 2012
Hi grandpa. I miss and love you and wish i could hear your voice. Katie has a little boy that you would love. I know your watching over us. We wish you were here with us dearly. Love you papa.
Love always,
Mikaylee
November 2, 2011
For my Dad who I miss every day,
I wish I could see your teeth-bearing grin and hear your silly observations of human behavior again. Boy, I could use a good laugh right now. In May, we had a big event that would have produced a giant smile on your face, the birth of your first great grandson, Christian Allen (his middle name given in honor of the family name). His beautiful smile brings joy in our hearts. It would have been fun watching you play together..possibly "Little Rascals". God bless you, Dad, as another year rolls on.
Love Always,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Nov. 1, 2011
November 1, 2011
Dad,
Since today is the 4th anniversary of that terrible day that we lost you, I felt the need to spend some time at your grave. Cheryl, Debbie, Kevin and I went to Dibble after I got off work and spent about an hour there just talking about you and some of the good times we had. It still brings me a certain comfort when I visit your grave and I just feel so at peace. While it's true that time helps heal the pain of any loss, it certainly hasn't made me miss you any less. I still think about you often and always will.
One of my greatest gifts I have ever received was one from Kevin in Christmas of 2007, the first Christmas after we lost you. It's an oval locket with a picture of you inside and on the outside it says: "Forever In My Heart". I wear this locket often because these words are so dear to me because that's exactly how I feel, you will always be "Forever In My Heart", and although we aren't able to be together right now, I know you are always with me.
Well another year has come and gone without you here. On this 4th anniversary, I just want to express how much I truly miss you, tell you again how much I love you, and say again, I look forward to the day we will be together again.
Love Always,
Denise
November 1, 2011
Me and Christian wana tell you we love and miss you!
LOVE Katie & C
mikaylee allen
October 25, 2011
love and miss u very much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *kiss kiss*
April 21, 2011
Hi Dad,
I know it has been a while since I have gone down to Dibble & visited your resting place however I want you to know that I think about you daily and miss you every day! I especially thought about you on April 19th knowing that you were probably celebrating your birthday with your family up in heaven. I hope you enjoyed your gathering with everyone and I know you and Estle probably did some fishing and relaxing.
Also, as today is April 21st I'll be sure and wish Cheryl a Happy Birthday from you. I know if you were here you would be celebrating it with her. Those were always specials times for us all.
We miss you very much and wish you didn't have to leave us so early and unexpectedly. My only comfort is knowing that you are with our other loved ones in heaven and enjoying the beauty of it all. I hope you all have a Happy Easter this Sunday.
Love and miss you very much....your youngest daughter....Dawn (Dawnie) Hugs & Kisses!!!
Katie Pontius
April 20, 2011
I Love and miss you grandpa and happy late birthday.
Katie pontius
April 20, 2011
Happy late birthday grandpa. I love and miss you.
April 19, 2011
Happy Birthday, Dad!
Today we celebrate the day of your birth. You would have been 74. I will miss eating Aunt Bigon's chocolate pie that mom baked decorated with the crown candle holder with you. Denise, Kevin, Ken, and I visited your resting place at Dibble Cemetary. There was a sense of comfort and peace. I pray you celebrated in a glorious manner. Again, Happy Birthday to a wonderful Dad and Papa who is missed every day!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love Always,
Cheryl Allen Pontius
April 19, 2011
Happy Birthday Grandpa!
I hope you are having a Nice birthday party up there in Heaven.
Love, Sean
April 19, 2011
Well today is April 19th and would have been your 74th birthday. Kevin and I are going down to your grave after work today to do the mowing and probably put down the Easter banner (since Easter is the 24th this year.) There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you and miss you terribly. However, now when I do think of you, I remember the good times and your crazy jokes, and even though it still hurts, it's not like before. I know in my heart you are okay and that you are just waiting for the rest of us to join you when the time is right.
Until that time dad, enjoy fishing and spending time with other family members that have gone to be with God because I know that's where you are and where I'll see you again some day. Happy Birthday dad.
Love Always,
Denise
mikaylee allen
March 21, 2011
propably up their fishing in heaven. i miss you and you miss me and were a happy family.love you Mikaylee
March 11, 2011
your probably up there fishing in heaven.love and miss you, papaw. Love,Mikaylee
November 6, 2010
Nov.5,2010
After 3 years since my Dad's funeral, I want to write an appreciation for two special people. Thank you for the manicured grounds and beautiful seasonal flowers for the entire Allen family plot, my loving sister, Denise Allen Gibson, and her compassionate husband, Kevin Gibson. Your generosity, labor and love is evident in the peaceful surroundings you have created. I know the angels are smiling!
Bless you both,
Cheryl Allen Pontius
November 2, 2010
Nov.1, 2010
THREE YEARS AND MISSING YOU, DAD! Your love is always strong in my heart! I thank God for our precious memories and for YOU! You are MY SUNSHINE!
Love Always,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
November 1, 2010
3 years has gone by and I still miss you so much! I will always love you. Love, Sean.
June 20, 2010
Happy Father's Day to my dad who I miss every day and especially today. As time ticks onward, I pause to think of you and the wonderful father you strived to be. Your adventurous spirit allowed me to experience life in many ways. Your dedication to family encouraged me to KNOW and to LOVE my relatives. Your work ethics in caring for your children came from an unselfish and a generous nature. On this day dedicated to thank dads for all they do to bring happiness to their children, I would like to say, "WELL DONE, DAD! MISSION ACCOMPLISHED!"
Tomorrow, as I sit in the scorching heat at your grandson's American Legion baseball game, I will think again about how much you would have ENJOYED traveling to watch great ballgames in cities both small and large all over Oklahoma. I will think of the ice chest full of drinks you would have supplied to the guys to keep them hydrated. I will think of the laughter we would have shared.
Happy Father's Day to a champion of a dad! I pray for your happiness and joy in THE BIG LEAGUE of God's ETERNAL KINGDOM!
I love you!
Your eldest daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
April 19, 2010
Its hard to believe that you have been gone for so long. Just know that I will always love you grandpa. I hope your birthday was wonderful up there in heaven. I'm sure it was.
Love, Sean
April 19, 2010
Dad,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
On the 15th Anniversary of the Murrah Building Bombing, I want the world to know that another important event happened on this day too..your birth. You would have been 73 years old. I remember your call from Egypt after word traveled to you about the Oklahoma City explosion and the nervousness you felt because you did not know which federal building was targeted. Your "NIECIE" worked in a federal office as your sister,Pug, did too and your Debbie was pregnant at the top of the Kerr McGee building. You were scared! When you found out your 2nd and 3rd daughters and your sister were fine, you HAD TO RETURN to your state and the bombing site to PAY YOUR RESPECTS. That plane ticket must have been one of the most expensive ones ever, although you did not care. You arrived to check on your family, the firemen, the city, and your state. Today is a SPECIAL DAY TO CELEBRATE THE LIVES THAT ARE SEPARATED FROM OUR DAILY LIVES. From Bombing Victims to a Beloved Dad,Grandfather,Husband,Father-in-law,Brother,Uncle,Cousin,Firefighter and Friend,I shall always remember this day where 168 people became our family and ONE BABY WAS BORN TO BE MY FATHER! I LOVE YOU FOREVER, DAD! Have a piece of Aunt Bigon's chocolate pie for me!
Your daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
November 30, 2009
Hey, cousins, gosh it does not seem that he has been gone for 2 years, think about all of you alot and the good times we always had. Tincy
Janet Holliday
November 29, 2009
I have been keeping up with Tom's guestbook since the day it started. As I stated before I never knew Tom personally. However, I knew all you kids....and Mom. My heart goes out to each and every one of you. Denise, you have been my personal friend for many years and it breaks my heart that you all have to endure this pain. WOW - what a man, I so enjoyed the memories told at the funeral but that was nothing to what I have read from all of you in this book. What a man and what a father!!! I am sure times were not always perfect but how many people who could say even half the things you all have shared about this wonderful guy. It tears me up just to read them. I remember how excited Denise use to get when daddy called her from Cairo. I loved to here her tell me stories about the things he had been doing. She was always so proud. However, she was just as proud of her Mom and was soooooooo glad when she moved back from Hawaii. I am sure your dad is grining from ear to ear just as his buttons pop with pride from the wonderful words that you all have written.
Remember - he is always in your hearts and is "listening for your voice" so keep talking cause he will listen.
Love and Prayers,
Cheryl Pontius
November 2, 2009
My Dear Dad,
I have felt a strong desire to write in your guest book on the 2nd Anniversary of your "moving on"...Thursday, November 1, 2007. Life has not been the same without you. I miss your solidness.. your silliness.. your graciousness.. your guidance.. your common sense. Stopping by for a lunchtime visit to say, "Howdy" or sharing informative phone calls cheered me. Yes, gas did soar to $5.00 a gallon, internal unrest by the common folks did surface, some college professors have tried to pollute young thinking, and BOLOGNA STILL TASTES GOOD ON WHITE BREAD. Visiting your resting place with Ken, Katie, Sarah,and Sean on your 2nd Anniversary was serene. We knelt for a prayer and listened to your song, "Battle Hymn of the Republic". I reflected on a belief from the Amelia Earhart movie where one can be transported to a simple and safe place where all things are comprehendable. I know you are there! God Bless You, Dad!
Love Always,
Your Eldest Daughter,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
Denise Gibson
November 1, 2009
Hi Dad, it's me again, Denise. I was just laying in bed trying to fall asleep when I realized it just turned midnight and is now 11/1/09. Kevin and I went to your grave on 10/31 to do the final mowing of the family plot for the season. I had to do this on 10/31 because on the 1st, I'll be on a plane flying to Washington, D.C. for some training and unfortunately, knew I couldn't be at your graveside on the 1st. I spent some quiet time just sitting on the ground next to your grave and even though some people might not understand this, I feel close to you there even though I know that's just the place where your body is at rest. Although I phycially can't be at your grave on the 1st with other family members, it's kind of ironic that later today, I'll be on a plane 35,000 ft. in the sky and will again, be able to experience your presence, but this time, it will be your spirit. I'll picture your face in the clouds as I look out my window and I'll smile when I see the beautiful sun rays that will seem so close, almost close enough to reach out and touch.
Dad, I miss you still so much and even now as I'm typing this message, tears are running down my face. I know God had his reasons for taking you when he did, but I'm still having trouble accepting it. I know eventually I will but until that time comes, I just have to deal with it the way I know how. That is why I had to write this note since today is the 2nd anniversary of your passing. I know in my heart you are okay and you're in Heaven with other family members, that makes me feel better. But I guess I'm somewhat of a selfish person because I want you back with us so bad. We all miss you so much and talk about you often especially at family get togethers. As for me, I will close now because I need to get to bed. I just couldn't go to sleep without writing this message to you from my heart.
I love you dearly and will continue to miss you until such time that we meet again.
Love Always and Forever,
Denise Allen Gibson
Cheryl Pontius
October 30, 2008
Dad,
I have tried to write several times. I found myself unable to do so until now.
If someone were to ask me to think of the happiest time of my life, I can respond with an abundance of answers: Living in Maine, England, New Jersey, Kansas, New York, Oklahoma and traveling around most of the other states...Exploring castles, museums, parks, mountains, caves, beaches, waterfalls, campgrounds and cultural traditions...Marrying Ken...Graduating from college...Teaching in elementary school...Raising Katie...Raising Sarah...Raising Sean...Experiencing the growth of eighteen nieces and nephews.
If someone were to ask me to think of the saddest time of my life,
the overwhelming answer would be the day you "moved on", Thursday, November 1, 2007.
Living without your presence: your wide smile, your silly jokes, your very good advice, your country boy style has been tough. I seek and find comfort in family, memories and music. You speak to me in the lyrics of songs. Alan Jackson's "Small Town Southern Man" has a line that says, "his greatest contribution is the ones you leave behind." I feel the pride you have in me, Denise, Debbie, Dawn, Mike, Hazem and
your grandchildren every day. You, a kid from tiny Dibble, Oklahoma, encouraged a strong education, taught enduring work ethics, showed generosity to the less fortunate, told stories with the ease of a Greek orator, supported all youth activities, made us fishermen, laughed with teeth exposed, danced to the steel guitar as fans applauded, learned about other people, shared wisdom, promoted protection, training and safety in the fire service, served the United States of America in the Air Force, protected freedom in the Vietnam War, laid the foundation of my faith, embraced life and loved deeply.
As your oldest child, I want the world to know that I thank you for being a wonderful father. You may have doubted yourself with your onery nature and firey temper, but we always knew where we stood. There was no quicksand. Passion motivated you. We knew you wanted the best for us, even when we wanted less. Good character was important as well as faith, family and country. Raising five children must have been very challenging. You took responsibility by the horns and kept the herd moving. Thank you for loving us so much!
Dad, I miss you every moment. I thank God for blessing me as the daughter of Thomas Dean Allen. The only thing that separates me from you is the time until we meet again! The legacy you built will stand the test of time. NO ONE CAN TAKE YOUR PLACE!
Love Always,
Cheryl Ann Allen Pontius
P.S.
I'm okay with inheriting my curly hair from you... heehee!
Carol Irons
May 26, 2008
To all of Tinker's Family,
Just wanted you to know how often I think of your Dad and the great visits Bob & I had with him. When the T.V. announces storms in the area I think of him, as he always called to check in after the weather cleared. When there is a fire in your area, I think of him because he always had a comment on the fire or the way it was fought. Now it's fishing time again and he'd be up to try out some new ponds. Always good memories and I hear the fishing is wonderful in heaven. Aunt Biggon, Grandpa Irons, Estel, Bob and
he must be having a great time! I always think of all of you too. I know you miss him still, but have some wonderful memories to keep him in your heart always.
Love you all,
Cousin Carol
Marawan kamel
April 25, 2008
Dear Tom,
Till this day we are all deeply saddened by your death.I have placed your picture with melda and Hazem in my living room so I can feel you presence every day. We all know that you were a remarkable man in so many ways, and knowing you personally as I did for many years , I am well aware of the diffrence you have made in our lives and the lives of so many others. When melda and Hazem were in cairo a few months ago it just wasnot the same any more with out you. You will always be in our thoughts , I just wanted to wish you a happy birthday where ever you are.
Denise Gibson
April 24, 2008
Dad:
I meant to write something in this Guest book on your birthday (4/19), but I just couldn't do it then. My life just hasn't been the same since you were taken from us so suddenly. I know as bad as the pain and emptiness is for me, it has to be worse for Melda and Hazem, as they miss your companionship terribly because they lived with you and saw you every day. We all went to your grave last Saturday in honor of your birthday and although it is difficult knowing that your body is in that grave, I find comfort in going there and just spending some quiet time with you and telling you what's been going on and letting you know how much I miss and love you.
Spring is now in full bloom and in a way, it makes the reality of your absence even more noticeable. I know if you were still here on this earth, you would be going fishing now. I pray that even though you can't fish now with Mike and all your son-in-laws, that you are fishing with Estle and Bob in your new home. Pretty soon the Monument we had made for you will be done and ready to be placed on your grave. It is a beautiful and permanent reminder of how much you meant to all of us dad, and I know you would be proud of it. If I didn't tell you enough when you were alive, I want to tell you now what a wonderful dad you were to me. You taught me so many things and I know that is why I am the person I am today, because of the values I learned from you and mom.
I pray everyday that you are at peace now and worry-free and happy in that special place called Heaven. I find comfort in knowing that you are not alone...that you are with other family members that were taken from us as well. I look forward to the day when I will see you again when God decides it is my time to go. Until that time though, I will continue to miss you with all my heart. Take care and be happy.
Your Loving Daughter, Denise
Dawn Walker
April 21, 2008
Dad,
We missed you very much on your birthday this past Saturday (April 19th). We all went out to visit you and sing you HAPPY BIRTHDAY and give you a special birthday banner. I know you were not with us in body but in spirit and it was very comforting. We all miss you very much and I hope you had a good birthday party up in heaven.
Love you lots & miss you - Dawn
Dawn Walker
March 24, 2008
Dad,
I just wanted to let you & everyone know that I have really been missing you a lot since you left us. We had Easter at our house yesterday and hid the Easter eggs again like last year with the money in them for the kids. It was a really enjoyable time. We also made the ham the way you always liked it and everyone thought it turned out great. I know last year you really enjoyed the Easter at our house when all the kids and grandchildren were hitting the softballs in the yard. I thought it might be too hard to have it at our house again this year but I'm glad we did. Everything turned out really good and we said our 'family prayer' (that we used to say when we were kids) before eating dinner. I know you were with us in spirit. Love you lots and missing you always - your youngest daughter, Dawn.
Don & Lorraine Nunn
March 6, 2008
Our times on and off from Dow Air Force Base and at the Beaulieu farm will always be a part of us.
Your Friends,
Don & Lorraine
Arnie Messer
January 21, 2008
To: Tom Allens Family And Friends. I'm sorry it has taken me so long to sign the Guest Book, but what can one say about a person that was more like a brother than a friend. Tom and I became friends in the mid 70s at Plattsburgh AFB in N.Y. When things got tough for me, I could always depend on Tom to give me guidance, offer me help and be there when needed. I was very lucky to have had his knowledge behind me in many of my endeavors. I was proud to call him and his family my friends. May God Bless him and look after his family through the years ahead.
With fondest memories
marawan kamel
January 12, 2008
Tom was a very special person to me and to all my family and as a token to Tom , I will be visiting him and his family next summer in Oklahoma. We were very touched by the film made for his tribute. He was truly a great man .
marawan kamel and family
James Mullins
January 11, 2008
To the Allen family
Our condolences to the Allen family on the death of your husband and Father. I have personally known your Dad for over fifty years. I first met Tom in January 1955 in Bangor, Maine Dow AFB. He was truly an outstanding Fire Protection Supervisor. The diversified and demanding duties require a highly trained and technically qualified person in which he fullfilled to the upmost. His initative and dedication to complete all assigned duties within all fire protection programs was remarkable. He will truly be missed.
James D Mullins, Chief
Federal Fire Protection Division
Pearl Harbor Hawaii Ret.
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