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THOMAS JEDLICKA Obituary

March 15, 1957 - October 10, 2013 OKLAHOMA CITY Thomas Richard Jedlicka, OKC, floated to Heaven Thursday, October 10, 2013, at 1:05 a.m. He was born March 15, 1957, to Gustav Traugott & Margrit (Mueller) Jedlicka in Omaha, Nebraska. He moved to OKC at a young age and graduated from Northwest Classen High School in 1975. On a full baseball athletic scholarship, he attended Southwestern College, Oklahoma City University, and graduated from University of Central Oklahoma in 1979. He began his teaching career in OKC schools, where, in January 1982, teaching at Webster Middle School, he met a cute, young blonde. It was a "love at first sight," made in Heaven. They became inseparable, going to softball games, McDonald's, and country-western dancing almost every night. In April, they became engaged, and on September 16, 1982, he married this sweetheart of his, Joanie Jezek. They made their home in OKC, being blessed with five children, Jyle, Jerek, Jaron, Jada, and Jacey. Joining their blessed family in 2011, they welcomed Alison; 2012, Bobby; and his last blessing in April 2013, his first grandbaby, Josie Jeanette. At the age of 18, he began umpiring, which he did for over 30 years. In recognition of his many years of support and dedication to excellence in Slow Pitch Softball, he was inducted into the Oklahoma USSSA Hall of Fame in the 2005 Umpire Category. His family shared in his sports. With this dedication and love of ball playing, the Jedlicka Family was named as "Oklahoma's Youth Baseball Family of the Year in 1996." Tom continued with his love of ball known as "Coach Jed" to his thousands of students, whom he coached for over three decades. From OKC schools, he coached at Mayfield Junior High and ended his career at Putnam City North High School coaching Boys Basketball and Girls Golf. During his coaching career, he molded young minds teaching history subjects without having to raise his voice. He had a distinct teaching ability, sometimes even standing on his desk - which for a 6'3" tall man was very funny. He lived his life loving his family and friends. He could talk sports for hours, even with strangers. He loved to sing, especially Elvis Presley songs. He could impersonate anyone or anything and was the best dancer ever. At his children's birthday parties, he was known as "The Simon Says Man." His family could always depend on him to make everyone laugh. He never met a stranger and everyone knew "Coach Jed." He could play many sports, usually always winning, especially in Ping-Pong, poker, golf, basketball, baseball, and scrabble. He had a heart of gold, never said a bad thing about anyone, a gentle touch and loving and caring heart. He had a remarkable sense of humor, always finding the good and positive in everything; even in bad situations, he always said, "it could be worse." Tom fought a courageous three-year battle with cancer, always saying, "I'm doing better than I should." Through all his treatments, he never complained once, was a perfect example of his strong faith in God that one day, when God was ready, he would live eternity in God's perfect world. He was preceded in death by his parents; brothers, Paul and Stan; and mother-in-law, Marge Jezek. He is survived by his sweet wife, Joanie; children, Jyle Jerry James, Jerek Thomas, Jaron Trey, Jada Jamae, and Jacey Joree Joan; granddaughter, Josie Jeanette; daughter-in-law, Alison; son-in-law, Bobby -- all of OKC; sisters: Bea, JJ, and Suzie, of OKC; Lil, California; and Rosy, Florida; brothers: Mike and Freddy, of OKC; and Donnie, Iowa; aunts: Hedy Muller, Iowa; and Elisabeth von Aarburg, Switzerland; sister-in-law, Marjorie VanDyke, OKC; and hundreds of cousins throughout the world. Visitation is Saturday, 3-5 p.m., and Sunday noon - 8 p.m. Services are at NewChurch Monday, October 14, 2013, at 10 a.m.

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Published by Oklahoman on Oct. 13, 2013.

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Brian Young

February 4, 2014

Sorry I just heard about the passing of Coach Jed. He really made sports fun for me. At Mayfield. You will be missed, thanks for the memories Jed. My heart and prayers go out to your family.

November 10, 2013

I am so sorry to learn of Tom's passing. I had the good fortune of being in the same class with him in the fifth and sixth grades at Cleveland Elementary in OKC. No doubt if there had been a state championship for recess sports in an elementary school division, we would have been contenders in soccer, German (kick ball) or nearly anything else with Tom on the team! As we grew up, I did not see him much, but I cherish the rare moments later in life when our paths would cross -- at the Czech Festival in Yukon, at a PCN v. PCW high school event, or at a slow pitch softball game. Tom truly was a special guy in this world. I am profoundly sad he was called away far too soon from his wonderful family and friends. I am also thankful for the good fortune to have known him. God bless.
~Michele (McCullough) Clark, Berryton, KS

October 19, 2013

Always a special guest at our home. Anytime, then and now.

Cori McAlpin

October 15, 2013

I feel blessed to have had Coach Jedlicka as my teacher at Mayfield Jr. High. He is one of the few teachers that made an impact on my life. He was a fun, kind and genuinely cared about his students. Thank you for sharing this wonderful man with so many students. May God give you comfort in your time of loss.

Joanie

October 15, 2013

I will always love you forever, you are my sweetie, my life.

Andy Casey

October 14, 2013

Every time I think of Jed a smile comes across my face. I was lucky enough to get to play softball and umpire with Jed. He always made the ball field a fun place to be. I never had to worry about things getting out of had on his field because he had such great people skills. I know that he is no longer in pain and in a better place but I am going to miss that smile that he always had on his face. To the Jedlicka family, know that you are in Jan and my prayers as you face this difficult time.
God Bless,
Andy Casey

Mindy Fuzzell

October 14, 2013

Joanie,

I just wanted to let you know that I will be forever grateful to Jed for his kindness to both of my girls when they were at PC North! He was a positive part of their high school experience.

October 14, 2013

To Entire Jedlicka Family,

My heart and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. I too just like so many others have such wonderful memories from Taft and NWC. May you find peace in knowing that he is no longer suffering and that Tom was truly a great individual.

Christy Fanning Reed
NWC Grad 1977

October 14, 2013

Joanie, you probably don't remember me from Classen, but we graduated together. I saw this in the paper yesterday, and wanted you to know that you and your children are in my prayers. I use to run in to you at the Czech Festival yearly, and you always were so warm and friendly. Again, you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Betty Benningfield White

Bill LeGrand

October 14, 2013

Tom was a great athelete and fantastic person to play golf with. They don't make them like that anymore. He always brightened my day up.

Teresa Bailey Green

October 14, 2013

To The Jedlicka Family....
I went to school with Jed and Rosie, and always thought you had an amazing family..Am glad to see that Jed carried on the tradition. What a great guy, always having fun playing baseball at NWC, would see you at the softball park or on the golf course later on and it was the same ol Jed. You and your family are in my prayers and now you are pain free and living the high life.
Peace be with you....
Teresa Bailey Green
NWC grad 1977

Wendy (Nix) Frederick

October 14, 2013

So sorry for your loss. I was in Coach Jedlicka class at Mayfield in about 1983. I remember him being a great teacher. I remember how much he liked the Nebraska football team at the time and sometimes he would give us extra credit points for knowing the score of the game from the previous weekend. I am sure he touched many kids lives over his career.

Brian Nix

October 14, 2013

Let me add to the long list of lives Coach Jed impacted. He was one of my favorites. I had the opportunity to play JH golf for him and always ran into him at the golf course. He had a way of always making you feel special and I will never forget him! Looking forward to re-connecting one day in The Kingdom!!

Sherri Pryor

October 14, 2013

Jed was one of my favorite umpires at Northside Sports Complex. He was always laughing and smiling and truly enjoyed being there. I will miss Jed tremendously. RIP Jed.

Cynthia Bishop

October 14, 2013

Coach Jedd;
I will always remember him as being a chipperly funny guy, that loved the 70s, and did not think there was a woman out there who could change her own oil or like to listen to David Allen Coe. I remember sitting in his Panther Time with my fellow students, and he looked through my Ipod and played You Never Even Called Me By My Name by David Allen Coe, one of my mom's tunes, and sang along to it. I was in the 10th Grade, and now I have to graduate and he will not be there to see me graduate. So maybe he is looking down at me putting this confession of a wonderful person in his Guestbook. Not just a Coach, not just a Dad, and not just a Teacher; He was Coach Jedd. When he came in the room, he lit it up. And when he left, the room got darker.
We love you Coach Jedd! Everbody loves you Coach Jedd. And you are awful handsome in that picture.

Wendy Pate Thomas

October 14, 2013

I grew up with the Jedlicka family,Jed(as I knew him played on Softball teams my father coached and Janet (JJ)played softball together. He was always a happy guy brought a smile with him everywhere. Blessings to your family and may your star shine on us all. Wendy Pate Thomas

October 13, 2013

So sorry for your loss. JJ you and you family are in my prayers.

Rebecca Coleman

October 13, 2013

To Tom's family we offer our condolences. With heavy hearts we say a prayer for all. I was blessed to teach with Tom at Mayfield Jr. High.

Debi Bays

October 13, 2013

Jed never met a stranger. That kind smile of his entered a room and everyone wanted to be near him. Every time I saw Jed he never had a bad word to say about anyone and he always mentioned his family and his blessings...Love ya Buddy.

Michelle Rowland

October 13, 2013

When I think of Tom Jedlicka, or Jed as I called him, as did most everyone else, I think of a man who was great for kids. He was especially great at teaching subjects like health or the successful transitions class, because he had life lessons to share. He could teach any subject to any student really.
When I think of him as my colleague, I remember the many times he made me laugh, and the many offers he made to teach me how to golf. He told me I'd go further in my career if I'd learn. I will always regret that I didn't take the time to learn how to golf from him.
When he was going through his cancer treatments, he was assigned to teach service learning, His office was right outside of mine, so I would see him every day he could show up to work. Sometimes I would hear the advice he'd give, and I would swear he talked to each kid like he was their father. He managed a straightforward approach tempered with care, but in the end they knew they had been addressed. Often there was little I needed to add by the time they sat before me.
We'd talk about the kids, how school was changing, how he was doing with his treatments, whatever was newsworthy, the sculpture Austin Hayes gave me that sat in my office, and about our kids and our spouses. My goodness, how he adored his kids, and how he made my daughter feel a special bond with him too. That was pure Jed magic, and I saw him work that magic with so many kids. I was thrilled when he was able to get back into the classroom to teach because that meant he was winning his battle with cancer. I can't tell you how many times I prayed for him to be healed.
I last saw him when he came up to the school. He was with Joanie, and I could tell what a toll the continued battle was taking on his health. It didn't affect his spirit, at least if it did, it didn't show. He was still Jed. He gave me a big hug, and what we laughed about, I can't recall, but I do remember he asked about Danielle.
I've missed him since he retired, and I was glad he took the time to be with his family. I was just glad and honored to be a part of his North family.
Praying for his family and sending my love,

October 13, 2013

Jed, You will be missed. L. Kelch

Jeff and Gerri Jantz

October 13, 2013

So sorry for your loss. Coach Jed was an awesome individual. He was such an encourager to our son while he attended Putnam City North. He will be greatly missed.

Shonda Walkup

October 13, 2013

I was one of many people fortunate to know Coach Jed. Having Coach as my history teacher at Mayfield was honestly the only history class I ever enjoyed. He was so proud of his kids. Everytime he spoke of any of you, his face beamed. We all learned a little bit about Czech history as he proudly told us who was royalty in that years parade float. I am deeply saddened for your loss and offer my condolences to each of you. The world has lost a great man, and heaven gained another amazing angel. I pray for each of his family and friends to remain strong in faith and love of Christ. Always remember that he loves you all and is watching over you. Rest In Peace, Coach.

Sharon Hall

October 13, 2013

I have many happy memories of working with both of you at Webster. Tom truly touched the lives of many and I know he'll be missed. I will keep you & your family in my prayers.

Kesha Lewis

October 13, 2013

the COOLEST history teacher ever!!! RIP Coach Jed

Ross Gwinn

October 13, 2013

My heart goes out to your family, Jed. You will not be forgotten.

Michael Johnson

October 13, 2013

U will be truly missed coach Jed.

October 13, 2013

Joanie: We were so sorry to hear about your Tom. Our sincere sympathy and prayers are with you and your family. May perpetual light shine upon tom. Sincerely Paul and Laverne Stejskal

Tiffany Dixon

October 13, 2013

You will be greatly missed. Love you bunches

October 13, 2013

Joanie and family-
Our sympathies and prayers are with you and your family.

Lisa, Justin, Jared, Jason & Katie Kuntz

Jan Feuerborn

October 13, 2013

Joanie and family--
My heart hurts for you all. I knew Tom all through school and he was a dear classmate, loved by all. So sorry for your loss. Jan Fesler Feuerborn

Marija Maros

October 13, 2013

People like you only come once in a lifetime. I had the pleasure of having you as my History teacher at PCN. God Bless your family...

Brian Sloan

October 13, 2013

Love you Coach!!

Natalie and Sherrie Wesberry

October 13, 2013

Dear Joni and family,
You have Natalie and my most sincere condolences. Tom was special in Nat's life.
We are so grateful that he was there for her when her Dad couldn't be. As Natalie said 'he will have some good company up there'. We ask for God's healing for all of you.

Mike Rogers

October 11, 2013

We grew up on 24th street together had a lot of great times will miss him.
Mike Rogers

Fuzzy

October 11, 2013

Jed has been a very special friend for many years. I had lots of fun and have many "remember the time Jed......" memories playing softball and umpiring together. I'm glad he's no longer in pain and comforted to know he's in heaven. I'm confident Jed brought a smile to God's face with some funny remark when he walked through the pearly gates. Jed will be remembered and missed by the many of us whose lives he touched.

Amanda

October 10, 2013

I am so sorry for you loss. It was an honor to be a student of his, he touched so many of our lives. My family will keep you in our prayers during this difficult time.

Carolyn Davis

October 10, 2013

Our deepest sympathy during this time. You all were so blessed to have him as a Husband, Father and Grandfather. He will truly be missed. Our prayers are with you all and we are here for anything that you need. Love, Dale and Carolyn Davis and Trey, Jenn and Jesse Vobornik

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