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William Scaife Obituary

May 23, 1947 - September 8, 2011 OKLAHOMA CITY Sept. 8th, William M. "Bill" Scaife passed away of natural causes while biking at Lake Hef-ner. He was born May 23, 1947, in Glen Ellyn, IL to Margaret & Reid Scaife and grew up in a boisterous household with brothers, Bob, Tom & Dave. Bill graduated from Glen Ellyn H.S. and DePauw Univ. where he played football and participated in ROTC. He received his Master's Degree from Colorado Univ. Following in his father's footsteps, he was commissioned a 2nd Lt. in the USAF and began a career as an Officer with early assignments in flying units. In '79 he was assigned to the 552nd ACW at Tinker AFB as commander of the wing headquarters squadron. Bill and Charlotte Winsett Little met professionally through their careers at Tinker. They married on New Year's Eve in 1980. Bill became a weapons director on the 552nd E-3 aircraft and subsequently became a mission crew commander. He flew missions all over the world, had additional assignments in Saudi Arabia and Langley AFB, VA, and retired a Lt. Col. in '90. Upon retirement, Bill accepted a position in Saudi Arabia as a civilian contractor training Saudi E-3 aircrews. Bill returned to OKC after 2 yrs and he and Charlotte settled in to "normal" civilian life which for Bill meant no coat and tie. While Charlotte continued her career as a social worker for the military and VA Hospital, Bill worked at nurseries happy with his no coat and tie work attire. Bill loved plants, flowers and working in his yard. Anyone visiting the Scaife home knew a gardener lived there. Bill and Charlotte enjoyed vacationing in WS where Bill also pursued his love for hunting and fishing. Bill is survived by his wife, Charlotte; sons, Dan & Rick & wife Lisabeth & grandson William & Lauryn & Haley; brothers, Bob & Tom; and Charlotte's children, Lauren Greer & husband Jerry & Braxton Little & wife Nance; grandchildren, Charlee Greer Johnson & husband Micahel, Jerry Greer, Skyler, Heartleigh & Phoebe Little. Bill was preceded in death by his parents, & brother, Dave. Everyone who met Bill knew they met a friend. He had the unique ability to fit in anywhere, but made no pretense that he was someone other than Big Bill Scaife, who was bigger than life, loved his wife & family, loved his little dog, Schatzi, told a good story, laughed at a good joke, and always had a root beer for the little boy down the street. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Disabled American Veterans. Bill's family will be hosting a celebration of his life on Sunday, Nov. 6, 2011 at Smith & Kernke from 2-5 pm, where they will greet friends. The family wishes to express gratitude to those who helped Bill at Lake Hefner and called 911.

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Published by Oklahoman on Sep. 15, 2011.

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Tim Feemster

September 9, 2024

The man was amazing on the football field and a stand up friend to all of the players and coaches. Peace be with the family and all who knew him well.

Tim Feemster

September 9, 2022

The DPU football team members still remember your consistent contribution to our successes. RIP my friend.

Bill & Barbara Henry

September 9, 2020

You are remembered and missed, Bill.

Tim Feemster

September 9, 2020

It has been 9 years and I still think of Bill every time our Tiger football teams get together and many days in between because Bill played a major part in my most famous play as a DePauw football player. He snapped the ball to Dan Breckenridge to hold the ball for me to kick the winning field goal in the Monon Bell game in Crawfordsville in 1966. I remember it because the ball bounced back to Dan who got it on the tee and for some reason I hesitated in starting my kicking motion and that extra time allowed us to make the field goal and win the game 9-7. Wonderful memory. Thank you Bill. We still miss you.

Tim Feemster

October 31, 2011

As a former DePauw football teammate of Bill, I want to express the sadness of all the ballplayers who knew him. We will remember the Scaife stories with fondness.

Fred Rauch

October 21, 2011

I worked for "Snapper" in the mid-80s at HQ Tactical Air Command when I was a captain and he was a lt colonel. He was bigger than life, a kind and caring person. And, he taught me more about leadership than almost everyone else combined. Over the years I've heard his words coming out of my mouth.

Mike White

October 19, 2011

My sincerest condolences to Bill's family and friends. Although I hadn't seen Bill since the mid-80s, my memories of him are still vivid and crisp, as if I had lived them yesterday. It was an honor to have served and to have flown with him. He will continue to be the gold standard against which I measure integrity, dedication to duty, and professionalism - I hope to match his examples as I continue on my journey through life. I will remember him with great fondness.

Ron & Kathy Boyd

October 5, 2011

Ron and I are so sorry to hear about Bill. We send our sympathy to all the family.

September 28, 2011

Good officer, aviator, instructor and friend. Always fun at the AWACS reunions. One or my roomates at Langley for 4 months in 1986. I'll miss him.
Bob Crawford

Craig and Carol Johnson

September 25, 2011

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Craig was a roommate and fraternity brother of Bills' at DePauw. We talked often with friends about the stories and fun they all had together.

May your memories fuel strength to continue to love life, friends and family.

With Sympathy,

Bill and Barbara Henry

September 23, 2011

Bill's passing leaves a large void in our neighborhood. As a new neighbor on the block in the mid-90's, I first met Bill while standing in the driveway. Bill drove his pickup into the drive and introduced himself by handing me a beer from the cooler. I enjoyed his friendship since and regret his passing. Barbara and I will miss his Santa Hat at Christmas parties and as he delivered Poinsettes around the block. He enjoyed pranks with the neighbors. He did not stay in the house to wait for the doorbell to ring on Halloween night, he sat in the driveway to distribute treats and enjoyed talking to kids. He was always willing to help his neighbors. His deep-fried turkey will be missed at Thankgiving. I will miss Bill's insightful redress of the Sooner's shortcomings during OU football watch parties. Yes, Bill's passing leaves us with a large void. I raise an O'Doul's to salute Bill's memory as it lingers in our hearts.

Eric & Beth Crabtree

September 19, 2011

Charlotte...Eric and I send our most heartfelt condolences. We are so very saddened by your loss. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Our prayers are with you and your family. Much love...

Fred Bridger

September 17, 2011

Gayla and I send our sincere condolences. Scaifer was one of the good guys, and my life is the better for having known him. Glad we were able to visit in Aug! Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Charlotte.

Jim aka 'Ivan' Tom sic '69

September 17, 2011

Scaifer was a tremendous teammate on several excellent DePauw football teams 1966-68! Would not back down from anyone. As a defensive end I always knew I had my 'back side' covered by Bill! Truly missed!

Lisa Mullen

September 16, 2011

I was there at Lake Hefner that day along with other people trying to help him. It saddened me that day because I knew it would be hard on the family he left behind. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. It sounds like he was a great man.

Doug McAlister

September 16, 2011

Scaifer-what a beauty! A great friend and heck of a linebacker- there are probably some former Ball State, Butler and Wabash running backs who are still sore from Saturday afternoons with Bill. I' very sad, but honored to have called Bill a friend and fellow Tiger!

Jesse W. Shanks

September 16, 2011

I made the first entry and forgot to sign my name. I am glad to see so many responses for such an outstanding man. Even through I disliked the Bears, he was always kind about the Redskins.

Jon Wilson

September 16, 2011

I am shocked by the news of Bills passing. I flew with Bill on the AWACS in the 80s, and he was a great leader and mentor. I learned a lot from Bill. God bless him and his family in their time of sorrow!

Jack Slagle

September 16, 2011

Very good man. I truly enjoyed living life with Bill. I will hold his memory close and will on special occasions remember him by speaking his name out loud and by celebrating his life. "Ole Milwaukee"

Jimmy Patterson

September 16, 2011

I'm shocked and sad. As a junior officer flying with Bill, he made a huge impression on me that never left.

Warren Onken

September 16, 2011

Bill was a fun loving fraternity brother, your worst nightmare if you were trying to catch a pass against him, Best Man at my wedding, and friend. I attended his retirement from the Air Force and understood why the NCO’s loved him so. Rest in peace my friend, I will miss you so much.

Larry Bunting

September 15, 2011

Bill Scaife was one of a kind. A generous, loving, mountain of a man. Always a smile on his face I was so blessed to know him and hang out with him. Serving with him and flying with him on the mighty E-3 AWACS was pure pleasure and fun. I learned a lot from him, and shared the advice he gave me to others. He loved my family, my wife and my son Eugene. Bill was incredibly skilled at his profession and an even better human being. Like many others who were touched by this wonderful man I will miss him, here's a toast to you brother Bill 'here here'

Kim Farrell

September 15, 2011

It was a pleasure to have worked with him at the nursery in OKC. He was a fair and decent man and I respected him greatly.

Steve Pope

September 15, 2011

Hadn't seen Bill in over 40 years and hadn't spoken to him in the past 3 years but his friendship burns as brightly in me today as it did as fraternity brothers in the 60s. Because once a friend of Bill Scaife, ALWAYS a friend of Bill Scaife.
I miss you, my friend.

Jim Yoder

September 15, 2011

Bill was a great college friend. I saw him last when I visited his home in Puerto Rico in 1973. We had a great time at the beach, officer's club and at his house. I wish I'd seen more of him since then.

Clarence Dempsey

September 15, 2011

We will miss you Bill.

September 15, 2011

I will always remember him as a kind and caring man. He was a natural leader who got the best out of his people and himself on every assignment. There were not many that I have known that compare to Bill.

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