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1934
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Martin Desilets Obituary
April 17, 1934 - November 1, 2024
Lieutenant Colonel Martin (Marty) G. Desilets, a decorated U.S. Air Force veteran and devoted family man, passed away peacefully on November 1, 2024, at the age of 90. Born on April 17, 1934, in Springfield, Massachusetts, Marty dedicated his life to serving his country and his loved ones.
Over the course of Marty's distinguished military flying career, he earned numerous awards and accolades, including the Bronze Star, the Meritorious Service Medal with Oak Leaf Cluster, the Air Medal with three Oak Leaf Clusters, and the Air Force Commendation Medal, among many others. He was a combat veteran, having bravely flown the B-52 on more than 80 missions during the Vietnam War. After his military service, Marty continued his passion for flying as a pilot for the Kiewit Company.
Marty is survived by his beloved wife, Helen Desilets; his children, Tad Desilets and Lisa Laughery (Doug Johns); his Son-in-law Perry Herrmann; his Niece Sue Krautbaurd; his nephew John Desilets; and his grandchildren, Matthew Olsen (wife Rebekah and daughters Pippa and Daisy), Adam Olsen (Molly Dean), Max Mulleneaux, and Stormie Desilets. Marty's love for his family was evident in the annual two-week Florida trips he organized during his grandchildren's childhood, fostering memories they will cherish forever.
Marty lived his life in service to his country and his family. He also volunteered with the VFW, driving fellow veterans to medical appointments until he was no longer able. Marty ensured his loved ones, especially his wife Helen, were well cared for and prepared for the future. His legacy of love, service, and dedication will forever be remembered by those who knew him.
Graveside services will be held on November 27th at 1:30 p.m. at Omaha National Cemetery, where Lt. Col. Martin G. Desilets will be laid to rest with full military honors, a fitting tribute to a life dedicated to serving his country with distinction and pride.
-Photos Credit to Look Magazine | sixtiessurvivors.org. James Hensen (1967). Bill Ganzel (2008).
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EILEEN DESILETS
March 10, 2025
Dear Helen and family , I am so so sorry for the loss of Marty. I have such good memories of all of us in Solana Beach and having fun. Harry and I so loved your visits to Calif , and I really hope if you come to Calif , I will see you. Marty and Harry just always made laughter and good times , Then going to see their Mom in Florida. Lt Col Martin, will always be in our hearts and memory. He is with
his brothers and Mom. Love to you Helen Eileen Desilets
Bill Bonitz, Lt Col (USAF, Ret)
November 27, 2024
My condolences to Marty´s family. It´s been decades since I last saw Marty when we bumped into each other in the Old Market. He lived across from my parents in 1970s and also worked with my wife at SAC Headquarters. He was such a nice, friendly man and am grateful that I knew him.
Bill Bonitz, Lt Col (USAF, Ret)
VFW ,FRA, American legion Chaplain
November 25, 2024
Thank you for your Service May you be Granted Golden Wings to carry you on your Honorable Journey to a Restful Peace
Hensel family
November 25, 2024
We will miss Marty. Condolences from the Hensel family.
Anne Minton
November 24, 2024
Sincere condolences to Helen and Marty´s family. Marty was always so kind and friendly to everyone he met and a joy to be around, he was such an interesting man! Rest in peace.
M S
November 24, 2024
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