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Rita Scalise Obituary
Jun 10, 1930 - Jun 15, 2011
Rita passed away surrounded by her loving family after a long courageous battle with Alzheimer's Disease. A long-time member of St. Ann Parish and charter member of The American Italian Heritage Society, she was preceded in death by parents, Alessandro and Maria Concetta Rotella of Marcell-inara, Italy; brothers and sisters, Maria Sapienza (Frank), James V. Rotella, Michael Rotella (Gladys), Santi Mitilier (Larry), Ameado Rotella, Rodolfo Rotella, Rosie Marasco (Augie), Helen Glowacz (Casimier), Louis J. Rotella; and infant son, Lenny. She is survived by husband of 64 years, Paul Scalise; children, Frank M. Scalise, Micky Bolamperti (Dr. Terry), Kathy Kohlbek (Mark), and Larry Scalise; grandchildren, Dr. Talia Bolamperti-O'Malley (Dr. Bob), Chaella Bolamperti, Stephanie Scalise, Patrick Cavanaugh, Paul A. Scalise, Gina Scalise, Natalie Swanson (Dustin), and Matt Kohlbek (Vicki); great grandchildren, McKenzy, Cooper Swanson, and soon-to-be-born twin sons of Dr. Talia Bolamperti-O'Malley; sisters-in-law, Mildred Rotella (James), Theresa Rotella (Ameado), and Helen Rotella (Louis); brother-in-law, Gabriele Scalise (Immacolata); many nieces, nephews, cousins; and many good friends.
VIGIL SERVICE Monday 7pm at West Center Chapel. SERVICES Tuesday 9:30am, West Center Chapel to Mary Our Queen Catholic Church for MASS at 10am. Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Memorials will be directed by the family. VISITATION starts 4pm Monday, with family receiving friends 5-7pm at the West Center Chapel. HEAFEY-HEAFEY-HOFFMANN
DWORAK-CUTLER
WEST CENTER CHAPEL
78th & West Center 402-391-3900
www.heafeyheafey.com
Memories and Condolences
for Rita Scalise
Brenda
June 22, 2011
Paul & family,
Words cannot express my sympathies for your loss. Unfortunately, the Rita I grew to know & love was not the same person you all knew.
While helping to prepare for the funeral, I went through hundreds of photos & heard dozens of stories. I'm sad I wasn't able to make any memories with her, but feel as though I knew her through your family. She truly was an incredible and inspirational person.
The unbelievable bond you have for each other & for your faith is a rare & priceless gift. The devotion you all had for her was astounding. I can see she passed down many of those admirable traits to all of you.
I hope the fond memories you have fill your hearts with joy each passing day. I'm so blessed to have all of you in my life. You continue to be in my thoughts & prayers.
God Bless,
Brenda
Deanna Mitilier McFarland
June 22, 2011
I have such wonderful memories. The "Cousins" sat many nights with Aunt Rita, when she worked the "counter". We drove her crazy teasing her about letters she got from "Uncle Paul". We read them when we could get a quick peek if she had to wait on a customer. We had so much fun and it will stay in my memory forever.
To all of her wonderful children and to you Ucle Paul thanks for gjving her such wonderful care. Love to you all.
Deanna
June 21, 2011
Dear Scalise Family,
We moved into the neighborhood in the summer of 68. I have fond memories of your Mom, especially the delicious food she made at St. Ann's. My deepest condolences to you.
Mitzie (Mary) Pantoja & Family
Mitzi O'Donnell
June 21, 2011
Dear Micky,Kathy and family, I am so sorry about the loss of your Mother. May the love and the light of the Lord shed comfort to you all during this time. (I always think of your family when I make Biscotti) Love, Mitzi
Mary Anderson
June 20, 2011
My sincere condolences to paul and family. I moved to 25th street in l977 and Paul and Rita lived 2 houses from me. My first contact was when Rita came with a gift for my new baby and welcomed me to the neighborhood and St. Ann's Parish. Rita was a beautiful person, and they were wonderful neighbors and fellow parishoners. She now has eternal happiness with the Lord.
Brandon Wilson
June 20, 2011
Larry, My deepest condolences to you and your family. You have my utmost sympathies and prayers.
Margie Silvestrini
June 20, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers to such a loving, caring and devoted family. May your memories give you comfort. May God bless you all and keep watch over all of your family.
Margie Silvestrini & Michelle Silvestrini Moerke (Daughters of Joannie Silvestrini)
Tony Ancona
June 20, 2011
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
June 20, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Scalise family
Joe & Rosina Baratta & Family
Des Moines IA
Sandy & John Bogema
June 19, 2011
Paul and Kids & families: So very sorry to hear about Rita Mae. She was a very loving woman. She was very dear person to the old neighborhood and to everyone who knew her. I know how you feel with the illness that she had but you can rest asure she is at peace now. Love and Prayers to all of you. GOD bless. Sandy & John
Kathleen Nanfito
June 18, 2011
Paul,Kathy,Micky,Larry,and Frank I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your Wife,Mother and Grandmother.I really enjoyed your Mom She was very Loving,Caring and so very Friendly and Understanding to all! She will be deeply Missed.I Loved her Smile.You all will be in my Thoughts and Prayers!Remembering all the Wonderful Times Shared with Family and Friends Somehow seems to Give Peace and Comfort to our Hearts!I'm grateful to have known Rita! All My Love, Kathy Nanfito
Erin Mejia
June 18, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Rita was a beautiful woman & her memory will live on in all of our hearts. You showed her so much loving care as daughters, sons, and a wonderful husband. Blessings & prayers are with you as you mourn.
June 18, 2011
Our love and prayers are with all of you today. Aunt Rita was a beautiful woman, full of such grace and kindness. We will remember her always with much fondness. May God bless you , Uncle Paul, Mickey, Kathy, Frankie and Larry and your families with much strength and courage, as well as many treasured memories.
All our love,
Aunt Lois, Dave & Cathie
The Incontro Family
June 18, 2011
Our deepest sympathy to your family. Take comfort in knowing she will be forever in the arms of our Lord.
Maria Pontiero
June 18, 2011
Rita will be greatly missed. Uncle Paul and famiglia you will be in our thoughts and prayers. Let God give you strength when you need it. Let Him give you peace and restoration with his love for you.
Rita and Maria Pontiero
Tammy Cox
June 17, 2011
Dear Paul, Kathy, Micky, Larry and Frank I would like to expess my sympathy to all of you. You were all so devoted to Rita. You showed her so much care. All of us at Good Samaritan will miss Rita and all of you so much.Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you and your families. Thanks for entrusting us to care for your wife and mother.
Gayle Guilfoyle
June 17, 2011
Dear Kathy and Micky.
My hear goes out to both of you and your families.
I found out last night when I went to visit my Mom...that your Mom had passed and I was so saddened.
I know how much you loved her and she knew that as well!
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I too will miss seeing you @ Good Sam...I just feel like we bonded from the very first day I met you both.
God Bless you snd your families,
Fondly,
Gayle Guilfoyle
(Pauline's daughter)
Carolyn Schmitz & Diane Scheppers
June 17, 2011
We will miss seeing your mother and you girls at Good Sam.
The care you devoted each day was absolutely amazing and Diane and I admired your dedication and love you had for Rita. We wish we could be that strong and dedicated for our mother. We hope to acquire your strength and faith for our mother.
May Rita now rest in peace.
Carolyn and Diane
Helen Neukirch's daughters
Maria Jacobsen
June 17, 2011
Dear Uncle Paul, Frank, Micky, Kathy, Larry and family,
You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. I will always remember Aunt Rita for her loving, kind, and generous ways. She was always a loving God Mother to me, and I will never forget the memories we all share as a family.
May God bless you all.
With Love,
Maria and Dean Jacobsen
Matt Galardi
June 16, 2011
Do not stand by my grave and weep
I am not there I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
As you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight
I am the soft star that shines at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there, I did not die
Becky Jacobsen
June 16, 2011
A luminous light remains where a beautiful soul has passed. Prayers for comfort and strength for the family and friends of Mrs. Scalise.
Theresa Vecchio
June 16, 2011
Paul, Kathy and Patrick. We are saddened by the loss of your wife, mother and grandmother. You will be in our thoughts and prayers in the days, weeks and months ahead. We know that the wonderful memories shared will be a comfort during this sorrowful time.
Love,
Theresa, Aaron, Lindsay & Kyle
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