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Shari Rhodes Obituary

Santa Fe, N.M. - Shari Swofford Rhodes, 71, passed away Sunday, December 20, 2009, at Christus St. Vincent's Hospital in Santa Fe, N.M., after a long struggle with cancer. She will be brought home to Paris, Texas, for a private burial at Evergreen Cemetery beside her daughter, Stacy Rhodes Resch, who died in 1988. A celebration of Shari's life will be held at a later date to be announced.
Shari worked for over 30 years in the film industry as a casting director, casting such movies as Jaws, Close Encounters of the Third Kind, Silverado,Tender Mercie, and Terms of Endearment. She had been working in Albuquerque, N.M., in the area of television, casting Crash, Breaking Bad and In Plain Sight. She was especially proud of being able to co-produce the movie, Man in the Moon, which was written by her dear friend, Jenny Wingfield.
She was preceded in death by her father, Jewell Doyle Swofford; her brother, Timothy Clark Swofford; and her sister, Robin Swofford Engels; as well as her daughter, Stacy.
She is survived by her mother, Elsie Julian of Paris, Texas; son, Kenneth Doyle Rhodes of Los Angeles, Calif.; sisters, Phalia Blassingame and husband, Jim, of Paris, Texas, and Judy Young and husband, Charles, of Athens, Ga.; sister, Elyn Kahn and husband, Roger, of White, Ga.; brother, Mark Swofford and wife, Deborah, of Portland, Ore.; nieces, Susan Young of Santa Fe, N.M., and Jennifer Walsh of Athens, Ga.; and nephews, Wade Blassingame and Mark Blassingame and wife, Jackie, of Paris, Texas; brother-in-law, Gene Engels of Sussex, N.J.; and nephews, Ryan, Wade and Jay Engels of Ithaca, N.Y., and Sussex, N.J.; three grand-nieces, one grand-nephew and a host of dear friends.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be sent to the Presbyterian Medical Services: Hospice Center, 1400 Chama Ave., Santa Fe, NM 87505.

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Published by Athens Banner-Herald on Dec. 23, 2009.

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C. Pope

January 6, 2025

Rest in peace

Terry Thompson

March 10, 2022

I'm very sorry

Larry Dembrun

January 23, 2021

Shari was an amazing person and great at what she did!!! You will be missed, thanks, Larry Dembrun

Larry Dembrun

January 23, 2021

Shari was an amazing person and great at what she did!!! You will be missed, thanks, Larry Dembrun

September 19, 2010

This is for Kenny,
I am sorry to learn of your mother's passing. I know that you loved her very much. I lost my mother too on
11-10-09. It is hard to lose someone who has always been there for you. Warmest Regards,
Jan Utter, Dallas, Texas

Marilyn Maysey

February 3, 2010

Shari spent the last 5 years in NM and she loved every place, person and sunset in the Land of Enchantment...
We were HS friends and both "loved" the Paris Baseball Team so much so that we made our Sr Trip to Lake Murry when the team was there too...So when we met up again in NM we had fun sharing memories and pictures of those days. Shari was a great singer and went on to much bigger career moves. Her life was one of friendship, love, happiness, fun, adventure and survival. Too soon and too short but she will be with us forever.

Rebecca Lynch

January 22, 2010

What a wonderful woman! My deepest condolences for Shari's family. I learned a lot from her and she was so encouraging and special.

January 12, 2010

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Shannon Pinkston

January 8, 2010

Some people fill you up when you're around them. Shari filled you up to overflowing - and somehow always had more energy and heart and love to still give. What a special, inspiring, lovely firecracker of a woman. She will be truly missed.

Kenneth Rhodes

January 7, 2010

I grieve for love passing
In darkness despair
Was once everlasting
Beyond all repair

In regret is contrition
A loss pained to bear
To hope and redemption
A comfort lies there

In sadness contentment
To fate I resign
Away is my star sent
A light that was mine

But love is not fleeting
Long as memory retains
And lament not forgetting
My heart she remains

Noel Kelley

January 4, 2010

As a high school classmate I was sorry to hear of Shari's death. I remembered the dates we had together then. We often spoke of Shari at high school reunions and mused on what became of her life. We are glad to hear she made a lot of her time here and wish goodness for her family left behind.

Pamela Bell

January 3, 2010

Mom, I will miss you very much. Our short time of knowing each other, was just not enough for me. As I promised, I will take care of Kenny always. Pam

Grace C. Edwards

January 3, 2010

Judy, I am so sorry to hear of Shari's death. Please know that I shall be keeping you and your extended family in prayer. "the Lord bless you and keep you."

Shontay Ratliff

January 3, 2010

Our hearts are broken. I can't begin to explain whst Shari brought to our lives. From the moment we met Shari we became family. Not only was she my son's manager and mentor, acting coach and huge fan, she was our family. She loved hard and not a day went by that Mishon and myself didnt know her love. She was there when Mishon got his first agent and his first job. Even though she was in NM and us in Los Angeles she was always just a phone call away. We miss Shari.

Jonathan Woods

January 2, 2010

Peace to the family. Thanks Shari for giving me Kenny - a shining light in my life.

Charles Chamberlin

December 31, 2009

It is with deep sorrow that I learn of Shari's passing on 12-20-2009. She was a high school classmate and a friend. Her life accomplishments are clearly noteworthy which I am sure gives her family great pride. Our prayers for lasting peace go with Shari as our prayers of comfort go with her family.

Molly L'Roy Toon

December 27, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

James Clarke

December 26, 2009

What an incredible long and prosperous career working on some of the biggest movies. Im glad that I had the chance to be a part of that here in Texas and will never forget my first experience walking on to a movie set and meeting Shari,Elsie and Stacy.

James Clarke,Arlington,Texas

Googe's

December 23, 2009

Shari stayed with us here in Denver here while back,she is the Godmother of grandchildren DJ,Jesse,Dominik,Jake and "Stacy" after (Stacy Rhodes Resch)She was and always will be the pillar of my strength we adopted three of our grand kids and Shari was a dominate part of that process. Like Debbie and Mark she was always helping out. Elsie,Kenny and the entire family THANK YOU for sharing her with so many.My Heart is BREAKING! The blessings she bestowed on ours and so many lives will never be forgotten.She casted Derek Googe in his first movie in 1984(Poison Ivy) and we have forever been family since.We love you Shari hug Stacy,and all our loved ones gone before.~ Tom and Linda Googe Family~ DENVER COLORADO(Lakewood)

Vanessa Shackleford

December 23, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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