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Matthew Wjotasiak
December 13, 2012
My love & condolences to all the Heil family, may the good lord give you peace in this time of grief, He was a very loved & well respected man it was my pleasure working for him & the family....God Bless you all!!
John Van Ruiten
February 29, 2012
Laura and family,
I was so sorry to hear about your loss. I had many great, fun filled times with Gary in our younger days. He was really quite a guy!
Scott Moore
December 12, 2011
Gary,
Watching you back in the day helped me learn how to handle tough business situations with class and character. I always appreciated your input and the leadership you modeled for the group. You will be missed.
jennifer and macayla short
December 11, 2011
Gary,
you were a nice man and good person.
I enjoyed knowing you.
You were very thoughtful and generous as you welcomed me into your family and I appreciated that. Also how comforted me when Grandma Lela passed. You understood how much I loved her!
Years have passed since we have seen you, But I am so sorry that this has happened to you and your family.
May God be with you!
I do really appreciate the way you welcomed us into your life as family...
Both my daughter Macayla & I give you our condolences...
I put together a family tree for my daughter a couple months back, you are in it. "people pass away in our lives but they shall never go away for we shall never forget" -J.W.S
Rest in peace.
Sincerely...
Jennifer & Macayla W. Short
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Michael Wilson
November 16, 2011
I am so sorry for Gary's sudden departure. My sympathy goes out to his wife, family and friends. May God watch over them all.
sheri Nikkel
November 8, 2011
Gary will be loved and missed, he is and always will be a very large part of the community, as well to his loving family. You will stay forever in our hearts and we will miss you always. Our sympathy goes out to Gary's wife and family.
Don Fergus
November 3, 2011
Laura
so many wonderful memories...starting on Carleton and continuing through the years..I am devastated by this tragedy and find words so difficult....we had so much fun together...and I became so involved in your family..I think about this and have no answers...all my love
John Greene
November 2, 2011
Laura, Girls and Family,
We have never in our lives experienced such an incredible tribute to anyone. We sat there looking around at this sea of people and could not believe someone could have touched sooooo many people. Seeing all the smiles, you could tell everyone was very proud to one of those people, one of the "Heil Family". We love you all...The Greene's
P. Trejo
November 1, 2011
my heart goes out to everyone in the Heil Family.
Marjorie Bigelow
October 29, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Kathi has been a great friend now for about 30 years, and as mentioned many times how wonderful her sister's family is. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Marjorie Bigelow
Janie Ponteprino
October 29, 2011
Dear Laura and family, what a lovely tribute last night. Gary was loved and respected by so many people. Everyone in attendance felt honored to have known him. The evening was a true celebration of a rich life. God bless.
Felipe Soto
October 28, 2011
My condolences to the heil family, he was my boss for 15 years and a great person. He treated everyone the same R.I.P Gary Heil
Stephen Menke
October 28, 2011
Although years have passed since I last saw Gary, the news of his death brought back many happy memories of this man, his wife & children and our mutual friends.
As a boy I lived on the same street as Gary. Then years later I reconnected with Gary & Laura as part of a group of families living close by in Anaheim raising our children together.
Those happy memories include Christmas Dinner with Gary & Laura at their home and camping trips with the guys (Gary, Don, Lou, Gordy, Doug and others).
Gary was a person that made friends with everyone he met.
My sincere condolences go to Laura and his family.
Mike& Diana O'Neill
October 28, 2011
Gary's smile was a beacon in the night, attracting all to his fun loving spirit & generous nature. He will be sorely missed. Condolences to the family & may God be with you in these trying times.~ Mike & Diana O'Neill
Jay Loeb
October 28, 2011
We loved Gary and our thoughts go out to his lovely family at this time. A special person that will not be forgotten.
Felipe Soto
October 27, 2011
My condolences to the heil family, he was my boss for 15 years and a great person. He treated everyone the same R.I.P Gary Heil
Mark Huff
October 27, 2011
Sarah and I are so sad for the loss of a best friend, many thing will never be the same. We will miss your great smiling face and friendship. Our thoughts are with you and all your wonderful family. God bless you and our love will always have you in our thoughts. Love Mark,Sarah,Tobie and Troy Huff
October 27, 2011
I worked for Gary some years back and he was a great boss and easy man to work for. Sending my deepest condolences to Gary's entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Ed Trzcinski
October 27, 2011
We are filled with love and sorrow for the loss of such a wonderful human being.I pray for peace for Laura and his beautiful daughters.What a loss for us all. Curt & Sally Crocker
Rick Rodriguez
October 26, 2011
It's been over a week and I am still trying to figure it out. I will deeply miss my great friend. I will miss his smile, his caring friendship. I will miss our golf outings, and guy's get-aways. I truly do not possess the words to offer Laura and the family. What I can say is that he was a great friend that many of us truly enjoyed hanging around with. May GOD provide the comfort to all of his loved ones, especially Laura.
Humberto Avila
October 26, 2011
My more sincere condolences to the the Heil family. He was my former boss I worked for him for about 14 years. He was a good person, friend, and great boss. He will always be in my hearth as the good mentor he was for me. Rest In Peace Gary.
Paul Gabert
October 26, 2011
I went to college ( Cal Poly Pomona) with Gary and as a part of a group of students from the OC that commuted together and studied together, I saw Gary almost every day and he became a very dear classmate and friend.He was a key member of our close knit group and his positive outlook and friendship was a huge factor in my ability to graduate from a very tough school! I am truly sorry for his family's loss. He will truly be missed. Paul Gabert
Valerie O'Halloran
October 26, 2011
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Bob Sellers
October 26, 2011
Laura our prayers go out to you and your family, Gary as you know was very special and made everyone feel special. It was always a joy running into him, no matter what he was doing he would always take time to talk. We are very sorry for your loss. Our love to you.
Bob and Luz Sellers
FLAVIO PINEDA
October 25, 2011
My deepest sympathy to the heil family RIP BOSS HEIL.
Bonnie Pebley
October 25, 2011
My family, the Pebley's, grew up next door to Gary and Peggy Heil. What fond memories we all have of going over to their house to play, swiming in their back yard and just all the great wonderful street parties we had during the 4th of July and other holidays. Although I had not seen Gary for many years since I now live in No. CA, he took the time from his busy schedule to come to our father's 2008 memorial service in Corona. I am so glad that we got to see him then and just want to say what a special person he was. I know he touched many lives and it is a tradegy that he is gone so early. May you find some comfort in your wonderful memories of him with your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Larry Benson
October 25, 2011
Words cannot express how saddened we were to hear of Gary's untimely passing.
He was not only family, but truly one of the nicest people we were lucky enough to know.
Laura, Dana, Courtney, Alison, Peggy and family......we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers....we love you.
Cousin Larry & Judi
Andy Henins
October 25, 2011
I am in shock and disbelief as I write this. I met Gary 13 years ago when he hired me to work for him. I never worked for anyone like Gary Heil. Let's just say that there aren't too many bosses like him. It is because of Gary that I am able to earn a living today. I felt he was a mentor and he was the guy that other guys want to be like. When things weren't going well, he was the first to look at things positively and tell us to keep plugging along. I'll never forget the ski trips and the many, many generous things that he and Laura have done for me and my family. Gary had a HUGE impact on my life, I only wish he had known how much. Every day I go to work and make a living at demolition; I owe a lot to Gary. Gary Dean Heil (Boss). RIP
Ted and Shar Walker
October 25, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers to the family, and extended familiy of Gary, whose passing will leave a void that will be difficult to fill. Gary's presence in the lives of so many has left memories for a lifetime. God Bless
October 25, 2011
Laura,Courtney,Alison,Dana our deepest sympathy. We will miss his entertaining personality.
Jan & Danuta Kozlowski
October 25, 2011
My sympathy and prayers to you Laura and family. I am so sorry for your great loss and wish you peace, strength and the love of your family to carry you through this very sad time. Judy Shab
Mark Cglietta
October 25, 2011
So Sorry to hear of Gary's passing. i will keep him and his family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sheri Gregg Geyer
October 24, 2011
Laura and family: My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time of tragedy and grief. May God Bless each one of you. Love, Sheri (Gregg) Geyer
John Greene
October 24, 2011
Laura, Dana, Courtney and Allison...We too share in your heartbreak with the loss of such a wonderful husband and father. Our Love and Prayers... The Greene's
salvador andrade
October 24, 2011
God be with your love ones!! we will miss you!!
salvador andrade
October 24, 2011
Our condolences to his family.... he was not only my boss but a friendly person,,, we will miss you...
Salvador Andrade and family!
Troy & Karen Meier
October 24, 2011
Laura-
We are so heartbroken for you and the girls! What a tragic loss to our family! Gary was such a GREAT man, husband, father and grandfather! He will be truly missed. Please let us know if you need ANYTHING!
Brenda. Carr
October 23, 2011
I am saddend and shocked by the early passing of our friend Gary. We shared a grand daughter, Autumn Heil-Carr.I will always remember how kind and friendly Gary was to me and my family. My heart goes out to Laura and his daughters. May you all find peace and solice in your loving memories.

October 23, 2011
Heather Carr
October 23, 2011
Gary....
My heart broke Wednesday morning when I received the call that you were gone. I am still in disbelief. This is such a senseless tragedey. You were such a warm and loving man. I always felt part of the family! I will miss your smiling face and contagious laughter at all the gatherings! My niece Autumn will never be the same without her Papa Gary....thank you for being such a great Gandpa to her. My heart and prayers go out to Laure, the girls and the entire family. None of us will ever be the same!
All my Love...
Heather xoxo
Janet Sharp
October 23, 2011
I can hardly believe that Gary Heil is no longer with us. I worked for him for 4 years - very happy years. He had a smile that would brighten the entire room and made you feel glad you came to work that day. You will be forever missed and loved.
Bill Boggs
October 23, 2011
It was a pleasure and a privilege to work with Gary. His interest in technology and “the latest thing” sparked many lively and stimulating conversations.
Gary was more a friend than a client. He made me feel part of the family as did his daughters Dana, Courtney and Allison.
The loss I feel at his passing is immeasurable. I trust that time and all the good memories will eventually heal the hearts of all that knew and loved him.

Robin Blackwell-Bradley
October 23, 2011
Our prayers and thoughts are with the Heil family. The measure of a man are the people who loved him - Gary has left a leagacy of love with his many friends and especially the family who loved him.Jeff anad Robin Bradley
Dan Everly
October 23, 2011
Gary and I were always friends through the 70's and 80's. I was stunned by the news of his death. Completely unbelievable. My heart goes out to Laura, the girls and his extended family.
Michelle Dias
October 22, 2011
We are so deeply and sincerely sorry about your tragic loss. Although we only met Gary a time or two, we see his bright, smart, kind, and loving spirt through his beautiful daughter Courtney. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
I'd like to share a poem we were introduced to after my sister passed away in July:
"When I left this world without you, I know it made you blue.
Your tears fell so freely, I watched; I know this is true.
While you were weeping, Days after I passed away-
While all was silent within me, I saw you kneel to pray;
From this wonderful place called heaven;
Where all my pain is gone, I send a gentle breeze to whisper,
"My loved ones, please go on"
Please know we are here for you all if there is anything we can do help bear your pain.
"When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure."
Much love to you all,
Michelle & Steve Dias
XOXOXO
October 22, 2011
We are so sorry to learn of Gary's untimely passing. I had known Gary since (football) at Freemont Junior High School, and then at Anaheim High School. We were all part of a really great group of friends who remain close to this day...I was proud to know him and will miss his sharp wit, and wonderful sense of humor. Corky & Lisa Burnett
Terry Morris
October 22, 2011
I remember Gary from high school as a really great guy. He always would talk to me and usually had something funny to say to make me laugh. My deepest sympathy to Laura, his children and many friends. I will remember him fondly.
October 22, 2011
We had the pleasure of joining Laura and Gary's extended family when our cousin Josh married Allison. He and Laura were the light and foundation of a friendly,warm, and very talented family! We last saw Gary's beautiful smile this summer at a beach party. We will remember it forever, with he and Laura surrounded by happy, loving children, grandchildren, and friends.... What he enjoyed the most! With Love, Frank and Brenda Wilfert Newport Beach, Ca
Kyp Hughes
October 22, 2011
Thank you so much for treating us as if we were family, the support you showed us along with the sniper platoon will always be remembered and appreciated. Are families thoughts and condolences are with you Laura, and the entire family. We love you all, Chance, Sierra, Shawn & Kyp Hughes
October 22, 2011
We are so sad and in disbelief that we won't see Gary's smile and hear his laughter. Gary was such a wonderful cousin and friend who we always looked forward to spending time with. His interest in our kids made him a very beloved and cherished person to our family. Our hearts are breaking but we know that we were blessed to have had Gary touch our lives and we will always be grateful to have loved him and to feel his genuine love for all of us. Words just can't express the loss of such a wonderful man.Our sincere condolence to his family. Love, Mike and Cindy Morrison
Valerie ferraro
October 22, 2011
Our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Heil Family. May your loving memories and special moments with Gary bring a smile and laughter. We are so very sorry for your loss. Valerie and kids
Kim & Chris Fox
October 22, 2011
To Dear Uncle Gary, we will miss so much seeing your always smiling face as we gathered at your house for some wonderful family get togethers . The holidays will never be the same without your wonderful cooking and joyful presence. We will all miss you so very much.
Love Kim, Chris , Colin, Fiona & Reilly
Jimmy O'Keefe
October 22, 2011
This news has rocked me. Memories of Gary and Laura have flooded my memory for days. Gary was a good friend to me; always patient with my non-stop nonsense.He convinced his Dad to let Denny Hillsabeck & I rent his grandmothers house... I believe it was the house his Dad grew up in. We nearly burned the place down one night by placing a rug over the floor furnace. It's one of the few times I actually made Gary mad at me. I loved him. Everyone did. And Laura, you know how much I sincerely love you. I am praying for you and the rest of your family. May you sense God's presence and His comfort at this time like never before.He is the God of all comfort and the Father of all mercies; He is a refuge in the storm... a very present help in times of trouble or need.
Cynthia Hartstein
October 22, 2011
Gary, we became side by side neighbors 24 years ago. Those 24 years were filled with laughter, impromptu gatherings and the best of times especially while raising our children together. It did not take long to become family and share some of the most important times of our lives. We loved your infectious smile, kind heart, enthusiastic spirit and held dear the special times we shared almost every day for 13 years.
Even though we moved a short distance away, we continued our special friendship. You were the best to our boys and especially kind and generous offering words of wisdom and instilled the confidence that helped them grow into the men they are today.
You are a rare gift and we cherish the memories that will live in our hearts forever.
Our prayers and friendship will continue to help your family through this difficult time. With love and prayers.
Bob and Cindy Hartstein
Heidi Wilfert-Peterson
October 22, 2011
Gary was always a light,fun presence. He will be greatly missed by so many. His legacy will be his beautiful family.
WALTER BRAUN
October 22, 2011
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Nikki Mannix
October 22, 2011
Gary was one of the nicest most generous men I have had the privelege of knowing. His spirit was infectious and his heart was kind. I will always remember him and think back of the many memories and great times our families have shared. All of my love goes to the Heils in this tragic time.-
Kyle Kiel
October 22, 2011
Tragic loss of a wonderful, life filled man. A man among men. Entrepreneur, business man, contributor to many people's lives. You weren't a 1/2 bad golfer either. Gary Heil, founder of GD Heil Demolition, HiCycle Concrete Cutting, and a couple other businesses … is gone. Lee Iaccoca asked, "Where have all the leaders gone?" Here's one we lost. I will never forget this man.
I counseled you to NOT go into the construction industry back in the early '90s. Your passion was refreshing. It painted a picture of vision, hope, belief, and heart. The color you painted with was possibility and the end product was always intentional and achievable. I never saw you get in your own way. Your way of being, in building companies, family, and supporting others gave possibility reachable horizons for all who could see you.
Your confidence inspired others because you lead from a place of acceptance. Your sense of humor kept you real and approachable, never taking yourself too seriously. At times, I think your own success surprised you most. How you never allowed ego to get in the way of communicating compassionately and simply to everybody defines for me what the expression "do it in a good way" means.
You were building a fabulous company. You created jobs for people who could see the vision and then valued and supported them to achieve their dreams. It is my hope that what you started has a legacy. Thank you for being a friend to many, and my friend. Authentic, honest, and open ... AHO. One of the guys. Love you Gary and so long.
Carol and Terry Tweedt
October 22, 2011
Gary, you were such a bighearted, loving and compassionate man, always dedicated to helping others. Your infectious smile and the sound of your laughter could warm a roomful of people. A true gentleman, we will miss your friendship.
Ed Salgado
October 22, 2011
I have know and worked with Gary for many years and can truly say he was a wonderful person, man, husband, employer and friend. I was blessed to know him he will always be remembered and missed.
October 22, 2011
I can still see that beautiful, welcoming smile. Gary always brought positive energy and light into the room. May God bless Gary and the entire Heil familyl. Much love, Tracy Stewart Ramont
Hans -Wini Sylla
October 22, 2011
Gary,we were so blessed to have you as a dear friend. We can not believe,we never can see you.We will miss you. Hans and Wini from Germany
Kirsten Frosh
October 22, 2011
Gary, we were so blessed to have known you. Thank you for having always been there for us, and having been the best neighbor. We will miss you every day!

One of many gatherings of high school friends
Deanna Glasier
October 22, 2011
We were so blessed to have Gary as a dear friend…easy to bring us to laughter, always encouraging and supportive! A friendship of a lifetime! Words can’t convey the loss we feel. Lou & Deanna
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